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By (user no longer on site) OP 26 weeks ago
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Does age gap matter that much to you when it comes sex?
I’m in my 40s and I’ve been with lasses in their early 20s and women in their 60s.
Age isn’t important in my opinion. It’s about the connection.
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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On here, I've had a erm... preference for older women but ultimately, you can probably have sexual chemistry with anyone of any ages on here if you both fancy each other enough  |
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By *oxesMan 26 weeks ago
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"Does age gap matter that much to you when it comes sex?
I’m in my 40s and I’ve been with lasses in their early 20s and women in their 60s.
Age isn’t important in my opinion. It’s about the connection.
Thoughts?"
Put it simply no. Experience, looks and fun is what matters.
I have slept with someone in there 40s who has hit got a clue what they were doing. And they're is probably individuals on here that quiver how does that young person know so much. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I've never slept with anyone younger than me... Maybe I should try it!
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In principle no. In reality I haven't met anyone below 30 where an attraction has emerged for me, in nearly a decade.
I don't think I've had sex with a woman much older than me; certainly not for a long time. Oh yes when I was 22 she was 10 years older than me. I liked her she owned a bar in Tenerife, I just wasn't about the settling down and running a bar lifestyle. I think the most is 10 years younger than me too.
No one older than me since I was 22 hadn't even realised that. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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If it is extreme like a 16 year old with a 60 year old yes. Otherwise it really does not matter. If you click with someone or physically attracted then go for it  |
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Yes it matters to me and I've never subscribed to the "age is just a number" trope.
Age is a fact and a factor.
I have zero interest in anyone close to my kids ages so I always keep a 10 year buffer between their age and my lower filter.
I'm not missing out because it's impossible to miss out on something you have no interest in and it doesn't matter how hot and experienced a woman in her 20s or 30s may be or thinks she is. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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Tbh I tend to gravitate to those within a 10 year range either side of my age, as I’ve got older so have those I end up meeting.
I just wouldn’t feel comfortable meeting someone, say, 18 or 19 even though it’s perfectly legal, the gap for me is too big and it’s unlikely we’d have much in common culturally either.
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For us it's all about the individual.
We tend to have more meets with those who are a little older than us (late 40s and early 50s to our late 30s and early 40s) but it's not a hard rule, just seems that those are almost exclusively the people who are interested in us.
We have ruled out people for ages who are actually younger than others we have enjoyed playing with because individually they were "older" in attitudes, individual aging process etc etc.
We never automatically rule someone out because of the number in their profile; but I can't deny that the odds of us finding a connection are limited if you are under 30 or over 55. Not impossible though. |
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By *heelerMan 26 weeks ago
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"Does age gap matter that much to you when it comes sex?
I’m in my 40s and I’ve been with lasses in their early 20s and women in their 60s.
Age isn’t important in my opinion. It’s about the connection.
Thoughts?"
I agree but I do tend to look for females nearer my age |
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By *oxesMan 26 weeks ago
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"Does age gap matter that much to you when it comes sex?
I’m in my 40s and I’ve been with lasses in their early 20s and women in their 60s.
Age isn’t important in my opinion. It’s about the connection.
Thoughts?
I agree but I do tend to look for females nearer my age"
I should imagine it matters to some peope when it comes to finding a partner as opposed to a fling. |
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It has never been a factor with me and seeing old/young couples doesnt bother nor effect me. I think good luck to them. If that is what makes them happy.
Looking at my experiences however it is probably a range of plus or minus 15 years from mine where i am most comfortable. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 26 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Does age gap matter that much to you when it comes sex?
I’m in my 40s and I’ve been with lasses in their early 20s and women in their 60s.
Age isn’t important in my opinion. It’s about the connection.
Thoughts?
I agree but I do tend to look for females nearer my age
I should imagine it matters to some peope when it comes to finding a partner as opposed to a fling. "
A fling, sex or relationships.
It'll matter to some and not at all to others.
People are individuals, with their own preferences. Surprising I know......but like many this is one of those questions where there's no correct answer.
And just because someone may at one time or another interact with someone of a certain age it doesn't mean they will with everyone of a similar age. |
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"I'm about to test it 
38 vs 54"
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I experienced it yesterday evening with a delightful 'romantique' date. The 21-year age gap made no difference. At the end of the evening I left feeling I was the younger person who had been bestowed and blown away with maturity and wisdom. |
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Initially when I first came on here, it was with the intention of seeking out, and connecting with women older than me… personally it doesn’t matter to me.
There’s a 7 year gap between me and my partner, and a 20 odd year gap between myself and my fwb. Both of which are, and have been long term connections.
Totally respect and understand people’s preference though if a man of my age is not of interest to them. |
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