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By *oydyke OP Woman 14 weeks ago
Southampton (they/them) |
I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.
It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.
It actually baffles me sometimes. 
(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)
I just needed to vent this out because what on earth |
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By *oydyke OP Woman 14 weeks ago
Southampton (they/them) |
"Must be your first day on the internet "
No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.
Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg |
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By *unchalMan 14 weeks ago
Dartford |
"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.
It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.
It actually baffles me sometimes.
(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)
I just needed to vent this out because what on earth "
What’s your point? Men without a partner are shit or is that a comment about all men? What’s your point? |
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By *unchalMan 14 weeks ago
Dartford |
"Must be your first day on the internet
No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.
Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg "
Why should we do that? I’m pretty sure this is not surprising behaviour. |
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"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.
It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.
It actually baffles me sometimes.
(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)
I just needed to vent this out because what on earth "
We’re not all like that - promise x
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"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.
It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.
It actually baffles me sometimes.
(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)
I just needed to vent this out because what on earth
What’s your point? Men without a partner are shit or is that a comment about all men? What’s your point?"
The point is the abuse she got ( apologies if I have misgendered you Op) .. there's really no need for people to send abuse... |
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By *oydyke OP Woman 14 weeks ago
Southampton (they/them) |
"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.
It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.
It actually baffles me sometimes.
(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)
I just needed to vent this out because what on earth
We’re not all like that - promise x
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"Must be your first day on the internet
No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.
Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg
Why should we do that? I’m pretty sure this is not surprising behaviour. "
Why shouldn't we? Sometimes we all need to get our feelings out and find an ally in this world |
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By *oydyke OP Woman 14 weeks ago
Southampton (they/them) |
"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.
It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.
It actually baffles me sometimes.
(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)
I just needed to vent this out because what on earth
What’s your point? Men without a partner are shit or is that a comment about all men? What’s your point?
The point is the abuse she got ( apologies if I have misgendered you Op) .. there's really no need for people to send abuse..."
Yes, exactly, and I was just making a point that I took a risk opening my messages to single men again and this is the response I get almost immediately.
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"Must be your first day on the internet
No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.
Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg "
Sorry you’ve had abusive messages. Please report them to Admin and Block! if you haven’t already.
How’s your writing block? Have you surpassed it? |
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By *oydyke OP Woman 14 weeks ago
Southampton (they/them) |
"Must be your first day on the internet
No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.
Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg
Sorry you’ve had abusive messages. Please report them to Admin and Block! if you haven’t already.
How’s your writing block? Have you surpassed it? "
Reported and blocked as soon as it happened, thankfully I saw it instantly so it wasn’t a shock.
Yes, it’s passed! Thanks for asking. Well, tbf, some of it has passed I’m doing okay with my novel again (albeit with self doubt)- and I’m getting back to my poetry! Thank god it’s lifting |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"This is one of the man bashing posts that I have talked about elsewhere. I assume a specific man was horrible. Report him. He does not represent every man on here. "
Similarly all older women aren’t bitter but you do paint them with the same wide brush.
It must be difficult to look at others but struggle to reflect on your own doings. Bless you.  |
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"This is one of the man bashing posts that I have talked about elsewhere. I assume a specific man was horrible. Report him. He does not represent every man on here. "
If you actually read their post it does state they know it's not all man bashing  |
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"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.
It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.
It actually baffles me sometimes.
(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)
I just needed to vent this out because what on earth "
Unfortunately not everyone on here can behave like decent human beings darling. Same goes for the forum as the messages. Ah well. We move on.. take a deep breath and say fuck that shit!
Not worth wasting your breath over
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"Must be your first day on the internet
No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.
Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg
Sorry you’ve had abusive messages. Please report them to Admin and Block! if you haven’t already.
How’s your writing block? Have you surpassed it?
Reported and blocked as soon as it happened, thankfully I saw it instantly so it wasn’t a shock.
Yes, it’s passed! Thanks for asking. Well, tbf, some of it has passed I’m doing okay with my novel again (albeit with self doubt)- and I’m getting back to my poetry! Thank god it’s lifting "
There’s little bits of positivity there! May it continue. |
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"This is one of the man bashing posts that I have talked about elsewhere. I assume a specific man was horrible. Report him. He does not represent every man on here. "
Message me, I’ll give you my password. It’s never just one and you can see for yourself  |
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By *avexxMan 14 weeks ago
cheshire |
"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.
It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.
It actually baffles me sometimes.
(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)
I just needed to vent this out because what on earth
We’re not all like that - promise x
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... pretty much what this young man said but it is beyond me why guys send abuse sad people... |
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"Must be your first day on the internet
No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.
Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg "
Vent if you need to. You’ve every right to say how you feel.
As for the abuse, when I’ve had it, it’s also guys new to the site. Which suggests there are people joining just to troll. What unhappy little lives they must lead.
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By *oydyke OP Woman 14 weeks ago
Southampton (they/them) |
"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.
It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.
It actually baffles me sometimes.
(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)
I just needed to vent this out because what on earth
Unfortunately not everyone on here can behave like decent human beings darling. Same goes for the forum as the messages. Ah well. We move on.. take a deep breath and say fuck that shit!
Not worth wasting your breath over
Hugs "
Yes, we do move on! Thankfully there have also been some lovely men in my DMs today 
Hugs to you too |
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"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.
It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.
It actually baffles me sometimes.
(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)
I just needed to vent this out because what on earth
Unfortunately not everyone on here can behave like decent human beings darling. Same goes for the forum as the messages. Ah well. We move on.. take a deep breath and say fuck that shit!
Not worth wasting your breath over
Hugs
Yes, we do move on! Thankfully there have also been some lovely men in my DMs today
Hugs to you too "
I’m glad to hear it. Always here if you need a rant. You’re utterly lovely. Keep it that way |
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By *oydyke OP Woman 14 weeks ago
Southampton (they/them) |
"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.
It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.
It actually baffles me sometimes.
(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)
I just needed to vent this out because what on earth
Unfortunately not everyone on here can behave like decent human beings darling. Same goes for the forum as the messages. Ah well. We move on.. take a deep breath and say fuck that shit!
Not worth wasting your breath over
Hugs
Yes, we do move on! Thankfully there have also been some lovely men in my DMs today
Hugs to you too
I’m glad to hear it. Always here if you need a rant. You’re utterly lovely. Keep it that way "
Thank you. I appreciate it |
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"Why did you open your dms to men? I see you're gay
I’m exploring my sexuality a bit more "
Good for you, and you shouldn't really have to justify why you opened your DMs, you should be able to do that without abuse |
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