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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London

Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

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By *andi da ThrushTV/TS 22 weeks ago

Round the Corner

Uh oh.

Take cover!

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By *hrek101Man 22 weeks ago

Herts

I'm sitting comfortably, popcorn ready

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 22 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Uh oh.

Take cover! "

Incoming

Mr

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By *oo..Woman 22 weeks ago

Boo's World

Get a new girlfriend OP, why waste time.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 22 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out"

Couple of questions for you Op!

Does she know your on here?

Have you spoken with her about this?.

Have you thought, there maybe deeper things at play here?.

Or is all about you, and what you want?..

.Mr

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

When she was on here she didn't use the word great.

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By *oo..Woman 22 weeks ago

Boo's World


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

Couple of questions for you Op!

Does she know your on here?

Have you spoken with her about this?.

Have you thought, there maybe deeper things at play here?.

Or is all about you, and what you want?..

.Mr "

You forgot to add: she may be getting it elsewhere

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 22 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

Couple of questions for you Op!

Does she know your on here?

Have you spoken with her about this?.

Have you thought, there maybe deeper things at play here?.

Or is all about you, and what you want?..

.Mr

You forgot to add: she may be getting it elsewhere "

I deleted that part Boo

Mr

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman 22 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street

Watching... With anticipation

Does anyone wanna tell him?

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 22 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Watching... With anticipation

Does anyone wanna tell him? "

Think you are the one who should break the news to him

Mr

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By *sguy2Man 22 weeks ago

all over


"Get a new girlfriend OP, why waste time. "

That is the answer isn’t it

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London

Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago


"When she was on here she didn't use the word great."

Granny, you absolute star!

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple 22 weeks ago

St Neots

She's just not that into you, do better

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By *andy CanesWoman 22 weeks ago

south


"When she was on here she didn't use the word great."

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By *bi HaiveMan 22 weeks ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses."

Used to be on here?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman 22 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out"

Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof.

Or is that just me...?

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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses."
has she okayed you fucking elsewhere ? She doesn't have to have a new partner, but may you ?

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By *iker JackMan 22 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses."

So if she refuses to swing with you then does she know you’re back on here?

I would’ve thought the best way to kill someone’s sex drive is mown about the lack of sex you get and ask them if you can add another to the relationship

Has she given you a reason why it’s only once every now and then?

Tiredness, stress, hormone imbalance, doesn’t like you anymore or many other reasons.

If I had a partner and they were on here moaning about the lack of sex they had with me I am pretty sure they’d never sleep with me again

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London

I think it's time lol

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman 22 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street


"Watching... With anticipation

Does anyone wanna tell him?

Think you are the one who should break the news to him

Mr "

Nope I get into trouble when I do.

To brutally honest for it or get told it's down to my moon cycle

Gonna sit back and watch

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Muscles Mike C'mere......

How come - if you two are mismatched vis a vis your sex drives - that SHE is said to have a 'low' sex drive?

Why can't we talk about you and your overly high sex addiction ?

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London

On my way...

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By *ozzybear1981Man 22 weeks ago

preston


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof.

Or is that just me...? "

Dear god we all know you’d ruin him in one sitting

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London

That's a very good point. Touche

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London

That's why I'm on the next train...

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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago


"That's a very good point. Touche"

Try using the quote feature so we know who you're replying to

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By *oo..Woman 22 weeks ago

Boo's World


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

Couple of questions for you Op!

Does she know your on here?

Have you spoken with her about this?.

Have you thought, there maybe deeper things at play here?.

Or is all about you, and what you want?..

.Mr

You forgot to add: she may be getting it elsewhere

I deleted that part Boo

Mr "

Always rely on me to say it Flip Flop

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"That's a very good point. Touche

Try using the quote feature so we know who you're replying to"

thank you lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof.

Or is that just me...? "

On my way

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By *ed VoluptaWoman 22 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof.

Or is that just me...?

Dear god we all know you’d ruin him in one sitting "

Hahaha, I'm just helping a guy out

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By *ed VoluptaWoman 22 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know"

Granny, if he comes to the Wirral I guarantee a shag with every meal.

And I eat a lot. And often

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know"

Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

Granny, if he comes to the Wirral I guarantee a shag with every meal.

And I eat a lot. And often "

Right that's it, I'm on the next train

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By *ansoffateMan 22 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

There's that dambusters feeling again.

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By *oo..Woman 22 weeks ago

Boo's World


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough"

I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough

I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie "

I wanted to say that but didn't want to be judged. Even though I'm on a swinging site

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By *ozzybear1981Man 22 weeks ago

preston


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof.

Or is that just me...?

Dear god we all know you’d ruin him in one sitting

Hahaha, I'm just helping a guy out "

I’m sure you are red me little darlin, I’m sure you are

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By *weet and SpiceCouple 22 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

Sometimes, just sometimes, the forums are more entertaining than watching your favourite boxset

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman 22 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses."

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!

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By *ozzybear1981Man 22 weeks ago

preston


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough

I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie "

Twice a day are rookie numbers

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough

I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie I wanted to say that but didn't want to be judged. Even though I'm on a swinging site"

No one would have judged you for being a rampant cock bulging fuck sla*ve ...... but tsk ....... now you were less than honest........ sigh

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Sometimes, just sometimes, the forums are more entertaining than watching your favourite boxset "

I genuinely love all the comments so thank you haha

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By *sguy2Man 22 weeks ago

all over


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

Granny, if he comes to the Wirral I guarantee a shag with every meal.

And I eat a lot. And often "

Can I come for pudding?

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough

I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie

Twice a day are rookie numbers "

twice a day for each testicle?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!"

Oh now let's be fair.

He never slated his partner.

Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too.

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By *ozzybear1981Man 22 weeks ago

preston


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough

I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie

Twice a day are rookie numbers

twice a day for each testicle?"

Still rookie numbers

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By *weetiepie99Woman 22 weeks ago

cardiff


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!"

I would agree with you here

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By *ed VoluptaWoman 22 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof.

Or is that just me...?

Dear god we all know you’d ruin him in one sitting

Hahaha, I'm just helping a guy out

I’m sure you are red me little darlin, I’m sure you are "

I'm all heart, handsome. You know that x

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman 22 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!

Oh now let's be fair.

He never slated his partner.

Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too.

"

If you read back like I did, you'll see he said she "knows he USED to be here".

Big difference.

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By *weetiepie99Woman 22 weeks ago

cardiff


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!

Oh now let's be fair.

He never slated his partner.

Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too.

"

He said she knew 'he used to be on here'

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!

Oh now let's be fair.

He never slated his partner.

Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too.

If you read back like I did, you'll see he said she "knows he USED to be here".

Big difference."

I did read back.

I was coming back to say so.

Slight difference

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By *ozzybear1981Man 22 weeks ago

preston


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof.

Or is that just me...?

Dear god we all know you’d ruin him in one sitting

Hahaha, I'm just helping a guy out

I’m sure you are red me little darlin, I’m sure you are

I'm all heart, handsome. You know that x"

Oh darlin you are all heart I know this too

This is why I loves ya

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By *oo..Woman 22 weeks ago

Boo's World


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough

I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie

Twice a day are rookie numbers "

I'm not here to judge

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By *odgerMooreMan 22 weeks ago

Carlisle

Im seeing this hot girl in London… her boyfriend is built like a wall.. how do i make sure he doesn’t find out I’ve been railing her for 8 months??

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By *andi da ThrushTV/TS 22 weeks ago

Round the Corner

Jusy a thought:

If she enjoyed it more maybe she'd want it more?

Up your game OP.

It's time to get in training!

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By *oo..Woman 22 weeks ago

Boo's World


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough

I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie I wanted to say that but didn't want to be judged. Even though I'm on a swinging site"

If people judge you, turn the tables and judge them back!

Fairs fair and all that

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!

Oh now let's be fair.

He never slated his partner.

Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too.

"

I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman 22 weeks ago

somewhere

If you've floated the idea to her and she refused, chances are she knows you are here, one way or another she will know, I mean how can you be sure she isn't on these very forums lurking and seeing what you are posting because you've got pics up, I'm sure she would know it's you (granted there isn't any new ones).

If she isn't sexually compatible with you, why are you with her? I can't comment on the cheating aspect as I would be pot calling kettle black here, kids? Financially tied down? Because all those things would work themselves out if you went your separate ways and found partners that were more compatible to you.

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By *oo..Woman 22 weeks ago

Boo's World


"Im seeing this hot girl in London… her boyfriend is built like a wall.. how do i make sure he doesn’t find out I’ve been railing her for 8 months?? "

You been climbing out the care home windows again?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Im seeing this hot girl in London… her boyfriend is built like a wall.. how do i make sure he doesn’t find out I’ve been railing her for 8 months?? "

FFS Todge...... you're the reason he's canalising where there is no water

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By *ed VoluptaWoman 22 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ...

If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ?

Once a day ...... twice ?

C'mon we need to know

Granny, if he comes to the Wirral I guarantee a shag with every meal.

And I eat a lot. And often

Right that's it, I'm on the next train"

Get here before Saturday then, as I'm off to Scotland!

Seriously though, sex IS an important part of a relationship. And it's easy for folk to judge you.

Has the sex always been so infrequent? If so, it's probs not gonna change and you need to think do you love her enough to go without?

If its a recent thing, what's changed? Arbitrarily withholding sex is not good. Get to the bottom of why & then make your decision.

But leaving it be to fester will only lead to bitterness and resentment.

Good luck OP xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!

Oh now let's be fair.

He never slated his partner.

Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too.

I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling. "

Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ?

etc etc .....

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By *odgerMooreMan 22 weeks ago

Carlisle


"Im seeing this hot girl in London… her boyfriend is built like a wall.. how do i make sure he doesn’t find out I’ve been railing her for 8 months??

You been climbing out the care home windows again? "

no way!!

( its a tunnel this time!!)

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By *eordieJeansCouple 22 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Once a month? You’re living the dream

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!

Oh now let's be fair.

He never slated his partner.

Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too.

I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling.

Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ?

etc etc ..... "

I am intimate, yeah but she rarely notices or does anything back. I'm romantic also. I put her before everything but still. I don't get the same back.

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Once a month? You’re living the dream "

My body is slowly decaying lol

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By *enfold75Man 22 weeks ago

hemel hempstead

Get rid move on

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!

Oh now let's be fair.

He never slated his partner.

Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too.

I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling.

Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ?

etc etc .....

I am intimate, yeah but she rarely notices or does anything back. I'm romantic also. I put her before everything but still. I don't get the same back."

Don't ! I'm getting the hots ..... and crying at the same time.

Does your right arm have a bigger muscle than your left arm ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Get rid move on "

Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ?

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman 22 weeks ago

somewhere


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!

Oh now let's be fair.

He never slated his partner.

Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too.

I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling.

Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ?

etc etc .....

I am intimate, yeah but she rarely notices or does anything back. I'm romantic also. I put her before everything but still. I don't get the same back."

Has it always been like that?

I struggle with intimacy sometimes, like if my husband touches me I don't always reciprocate, it doesn't come naturally to me and he is ok with that, he can have a high sex drive but he also understands my issues, I have to be really really in the mood.

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Get rid move on "
love how I'm actually taking your advice on this one

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Get rid move on

Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ?"

I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Get rid move on

Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ?

I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true"

What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ?

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!

Oh now let's be fair.

He never slated his partner.

Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too.

I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling.

Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ?

etc etc .....

I am intimate, yeah but she rarely notices or does anything back. I'm romantic also. I put her before everything but still. I don't get the same back.

Has it always been like that?

I struggle with intimacy sometimes, like if my husband touches me I don't always reciprocate, it doesn't come naturally to me and he is ok with that, he can have a high sex drive but he also understands my issues, I have to be really really in the mood."

I get you. When we do have fun, I always pay her the attention and are careless about myself in the bedroom untill she cums at least twice. I last a long long time in the bedroom so am not a 1 minute or 5 minute guy. More like half an hour minimum. Unless a quicky.... Like once a year. We always try different things but it's always me introducing them.

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By *odgerMooreMan 22 weeks ago

Carlisle


"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses.

Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!

Oh now let's be fair.

He never slated his partner.

Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too.

I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling.

Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ?

etc etc .....

I am intimate, yeah but she rarely notices or does anything back. I'm romantic also. I put her before everything but still. I don't get the same back.

Has it always been like that?

I struggle with intimacy sometimes, like if my husband touches me I don't always reciprocate, it doesn't come naturally to me and he is ok with that, he can have a high sex drive but he also understands my issues, I have to be really really in the mood.

I get you. When we do have fun, I always pay her the attention and are careless about myself in the bedroom untill she cums at least twice. I last a long long time in the bedroom so am not a 1 minute or 5 minute guy. More like half an hour minimum. Unless a quicky.... Like once a year. We always try different things but it's always me introducing them."

it’s not a bull is it - please God!!

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Get rid move on

Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ?

I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true

What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ?"

Why, did you want a job?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Get rid move on

Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ?

I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true

What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ?

Why, did you want a job?"

Ha! now that was funny .....

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Get rid move on

Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ?

I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true

What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ?

Why, did you want a job?

Ha! now that was funny ..... "

Sorry sorry sorry. I saw the opportunity. If I could hug you right now I would.

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By *ilverfox for youMan 22 weeks ago

Hull

How long have you been together ?if not to long then it’s time to move on .the longer you leave it the more difficult it will get .and more frustrating

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Get rid move on

Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ?

I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true

What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ?

Why, did you want a job?

Ha! now that was funny .....

Sorry sorry sorry. I saw the opportunity. If I could hug you right now I would. "

Don't be silly! It was a good retort. Far too good to miss.

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"Get rid move on

Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ?

I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true

What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ?

Why, did you want a job?

Ha! now that was funny .....

Sorry sorry sorry. I saw the opportunity. If I could hug you right now I would.

Don't be silly! It was a good retort. Far too good to miss. "

Okay, I didn't know if it was a hit at me for being unfaithful so I just went for it lol

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"How long have you been together ?if not to long then it’s time to move on .the longer you leave it the more difficult it will get .and more frustrating "

5 years mate. I can't do this forever lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

This is my last comment Michael .....

Two things to think about , maybe three

Will you two split up over this ?

If you do , would the shags be worth the loss of 'love?'

It was two

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"This is my last comment Michael .....

Two things to think about , maybe three

Will you two split up over this ?

If you do , would the shags be worth the loss of 'love?'

It was two "

You're too good at this. I appreciate it. I asked Austin Powers for advice and he said the same

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman 22 weeks ago

somewhere


"This is my last comment Michael .....

Two things to think about , maybe three

Will you two split up over this ?

If you do , would the shags be worth the loss of 'love?'

It was two "

So profound granny.

I think granny is right, is everything else you have worth it over lack of sex? If you have this magical relationship that takes sex out the picture, could it live on (without you playing away), I think if you can figure that out, you will make the decision, not as though thought of it before you started this thread, I think you was hoping you would get fanny in your face but here we are on a Thursday afternoon sorting your love life out.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 22 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Well that's me boner....... profound ..... deep deep deeply profound

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"This is my last comment Michael .....

Two things to think about , maybe three

Will you two split up over this ?

If you do , would the shags be worth the loss of 'love?'

It was two

So profound granny.

I think granny is right, is everything else you have worth it over lack of sex? If you have this magical relationship that takes sex out the picture, could it live on (without you playing away), I think if you can figure that out, you will make the decision, not as though thought of it before you started this thread, I think you was hoping you would get fanny in your face but here we are on a Thursday afternoon sorting your love life out."

I know right!!! I just wanted someone to sit on my face and instead I get a lecture from people telling me off hahaha. I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 22 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. "

Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex?

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that.

Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex?"

Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 22 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that.

Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex?

Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried"

So instead of believing the imagination or taking active steps to improve the situation, you'll just put her health and wellbeing at risk and get your end away anyway?

It's a choice, I guess.

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By *essTTWoman 22 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out"

Why not leave and find someone who you're sexually compatible with and let her find someone who appreciates her and wouldnt cheat

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that.

Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex?

Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried

So instead of believing the imagination or taking active steps to improve the situation, you'll just put her health and wellbeing at risk and get your end away anyway?

It's a choice, I guess."

Clearly haven't read it.

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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago

Ask her for a hall pass. Easy.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 22 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that.

Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex?

Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried

So instead of believing the imagination or taking active steps to improve the situation, you'll just put her health and wellbeing at risk and get your end away anyway?

It's a choice, I guess.

Clearly haven't read it. "

The part where you won't stay in a relationship without sex or the part where you won't leave a relationship without sex?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman 22 weeks ago

Leeds


"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that.

Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex?

Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried"

I have read the comments and I'm with Prey, take more steps.

If you want to keep the relationship sex for me doesn't start in the bedroom, I can't get turned on at the click of a finger & repeatedly asking for it is a huge turn off.

What is your day to day like, do you still have time together, do fun things as a couple away from the sex, flirt, compliment each other, help each other with the mundane day to day shit etc?

You say she knows you used to be on here, does she know your on here now?

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By *uscle1993 OP   Man 22 weeks ago

London


"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that.

Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex?

Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried

I have read the comments and I'm with Prey, take more steps.

If you want to keep the relationship sex for me doesn't start in the bedroom, I can't get turned on at the click of a finger & repeatedly asking for it is a huge turn off.

What is your day to day like, do you still have time together, do fun things as a couple away from the sex, flirt, compliment each other, help each other with the mundane day to day shit etc?

You say she knows you used to be on here, does she know your on here now? "

I agree, it doesn't start in the bedroom. I cook the food, drive us to nice places, book weekend activities, buy the flowers, well mannered, old school gentleman, and the rest. I take notice of everything she does. Compliment her day in, day out but get nothing back. When it does come to sex, I don't rush, it's all about her from start to...finish. I try to introduce new things but she has no desire. I think I'm done with this forum post though, I just need a shag ffs.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 22 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I agree, it doesn't start in the bedroom. I cook the food, drive us to nice places, book weekend activities, buy the flowers, well mannered, old school gentleman, and the rest. I take notice of everything she does. Compliment her day in, day out but get nothing back. When it does come to sex, I don't rush, it's all about her from start to...finish. I try to introduce new things but she has no desire. I think I'm done with this forum post though, I just need a shag ffs. "

Why do you want to stay in such a one sided relationship OP?

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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago


"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that.

Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex?

Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried

I have read the comments and I'm with Prey, take more steps.

If you want to keep the relationship sex for me doesn't start in the bedroom, I can't get turned on at the click of a finger & repeatedly asking for it is a huge turn off.

What is your day to day like, do you still have time together, do fun things as a couple away from the sex, flirt, compliment each other, help each other with the mundane day to day shit etc?

You say she knows you used to be on here, does she know your on here now?

I agree, it doesn't start in the bedroom. I cook the food, drive us to nice places, book weekend activities, buy the flowers, well mannered, old school gentleman, and the rest. I take notice of everything she does. Compliment her day in, day out but get nothing back. When it does come to sex, I don't rush, it's all about her from start to...finish. I try to introduce new things but she has no desire. I think I'm done with this forum post though, I just need a shag ffs. "

I commend you. To have the energy to focus on everything for her, spend all of your time thinking about her, doing for her, dotting on her, having weekends away, driving her here and there, cooking and still have energy to find a shag? You must be full of energy!

It seems there’s more or you’ve left something out. Your day to day sounds exhausting just reading it. Have you considered doing nothing and relaxing? Listening to her? What does she want? Maybe it’s a matter of you showing her you care and love her in a way she’s not understanding it.

Maybe you’re full of it and could spend more time with her. Who knows.

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By *weetiepie99Woman 22 weeks ago

cardiff


"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that.

Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex?

Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried

I have read the comments and I'm with Prey, take more steps.

If you want to keep the relationship sex for me doesn't start in the bedroom, I can't get turned on at the click of a finger & repeatedly asking for it is a huge turn off.

What is your day to day like, do you still have time together, do fun things as a couple away from the sex, flirt, compliment each other, help each other with the mundane day to day shit etc?

You say she knows you used to be on here, does she know your on here now?

I agree, it doesn't start in the bedroom. I cook the food, drive us to nice places, book weekend activities, buy the flowers, well mannered, old school gentleman, and the rest. I take notice of everything she does. Compliment her day in, day out but get nothing back. When it does come to sex, I don't rush, it's all about her from start to...finish. I try to introduce new things but she has no desire. I think I'm done with this forum post though, I just need a shag ffs. "

That's all well and good. But you obviously don't respect her at all.

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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago

Or maybe she just doesn't care for you. My ex wife was exactly as you described and my behaviour pattern similar. We had assets and kids together which made it significantly harder. She didn't want to have to cope financially on her own which is what kept her "in" the relationship for about 7 years. She was shagging around behind my back for all that time BTW.

My guess FWIW the sex taking hours is probably why she only wants it once a month - she is probably utterly bored and there's probably jack shit you can do about it.

Sorry it's not a more positive opinion. Banging random women from either here, down the pub or pay per shag is not going to remedy anything in the long term though

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By *2000ManMan 22 weeks ago

Worthing

See if outside the bedroom is ok op. Usually a good start.

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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago

I miss being in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago

Head on over to the “don’t fuck the wife” thread.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 22 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

Couple of questions for you Op!

Does she know your on here?

Have you spoken with her about this?.

Have you thought, there maybe deeper things at play here?.

Or is all about you, and what you want?..

.Mr

You forgot to add: she may be getting it elsewhere

I deleted that part Boo

Mr

Always rely on me to say it Flip Flop "

I opted to be nice this time, Flip flop is a changed man

Mr

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman 22 weeks ago

Medway


"Sometimes, just sometimes, the forums are more entertaining than watching your favourite boxset "

LOL!!

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By *ecret-strangerMan 22 weeks ago

Deeside

Is this some sort of bait.....cos fella, thats top quality!

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By *hewayitgoesMan 22 weeks ago

Ireland

I dunno. She looks pretty happy in your pictures

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By *ex HolesMan 22 weeks ago

Up North


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out"

I get more from your Mrs

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 22 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed.

If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out

I get more from your Mrs "

Twice a month then Rex

Mr

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman 22 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that.

Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex?

Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried

I have read the comments and I'm with Prey, take more steps.

If you want to keep the relationship sex for me doesn't start in the bedroom, I can't get turned on at the click of a finger & repeatedly asking for it is a huge turn off.

What is your day to day like, do you still have time together, do fun things as a couple away from the sex, flirt, compliment each other, help each other with the mundane day to day shit etc?

You say she knows you used to be on here, does she know your on here now?

I agree, it doesn't start in the bedroom. I cook the food, drive us to nice places, book weekend activities, buy the flowers, well mannered, old school gentleman, and the rest. I take notice of everything she does. Compliment her day in, day out but get nothing back. When it does come to sex, I don't rush, it's all about her from start to...finish. I try to introduce new things but she has no desire. I think I'm done with this forum post though, I just need a shag ffs.

I commend you. To have the energy to focus on everything for her, spend all of your time thinking about her, doing for her, dotting on her, having weekends away, driving her here and there, cooking and still have energy to find a shag? You must be full of energy!

It seems there’s more or you’ve left something out. Your day to day sounds exhausting just reading it. Have you considered doing nothing and relaxing? Listening to her? What does she want? Maybe it’s a matter of you showing her you care and love her in a way she’s not understanding it.

Maybe you’re full of it and could spend more time with her. Who knows. "

AND he makes her come twice when they do have sex, don't forget that

OP you said you had "said nothing bad about her here".. well that's crap. All you're doing is moaning about how she does nothing for and gives nothing to you. You show no respect for in how you write about her.

Put the poor woman out of her misery and leave, and go shag the site.

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman 22 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street


"Jusy a thought:

If she enjoyed it more maybe she'd want it more?

Up your game OP.

It's time to get in training! "

I am standing up to appload you x

Made my day

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 22 weeks ago

Reading

If sex is important to you, then you are not compatible. You need to talk to her and either split up or come to an arrangement.

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By *uenevereWoman 22 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

OP, you clearly don't love her enough, if you did you wouldn't dream of being on here behind her back.

There's much more than sex in a good relationship. My sex drive is much lower than my husband's but we have a wonderful relationship

You clearly don't genuinely love and respect your partner, so for her sake, you need to be honest with her. Leave and find someone else.

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman 22 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street

Anyone else thinking that maybe the girlfriend is getting some bow chika wow wow elsewhere...

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