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By *enXdadbod OP   Man 26 weeks ago

North Manchester

Good eve. How are you?

Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?

Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha

Be good to hear what people think.

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By *uenevereWoman 26 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Good eve. How are you?

Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?

Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha

Be good to hear what people think.

"

This might be essentially a sex site but women still expect men to be friendly and respectful. Being a decent person isn't boring.

Starting with sex talk is extremely unlikely to be a successful approach.

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By *ot to giggleWoman 26 weeks ago

Coventry


"Good eve. How are you?

Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?

Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha

Be good to hear what people think.

"

no - its much better than some of the full on explicit messages that seem to have evaded the curtsey of a hello!!

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By *enXdadbod OP   Man 26 weeks ago

North Manchester

Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago

I guess it depends on if it’s a nice friendly or a creepy friendly.

We are not always perceived how we think we are by others

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By *carlet SeductionWoman 26 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm sure those that are on your wavelength will appreciate your approach. Anyone who doesn't just isn't compatible. Simple as that.

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By *uenevereWoman 26 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here "

It's just that men are hugely outnumbered, so you need to stand out.

You would benefit from a more detailed profile and attending socials and clubs.

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By *ealitybitesMan 26 weeks ago

Belfast


"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here "

It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.

A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago


"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here

It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.

A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone. "

this.

And the ladies just love a bad boy too!

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple 26 weeks ago

Southampton


"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here "

Oh I certainly appreciate a gentleman

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By *ot to giggleWoman 26 weeks ago

Coventry


"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here

It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.

A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone.

this.

And the ladies just love a bad boy too! "

with flags !!!

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By *ot to giggleWoman 26 weeks ago

Coventry


"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here

Oh I certainly appreciate a gentleman "

^^^^^^^^ agreed

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 26 weeks ago

North West


"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here

It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.

A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone.

this.

And the ladies just love a bad boy too! "

No bad boys, thank you.

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By *nnCeeWoman 26 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here

Oh I certainly appreciate a gentleman

^^^^^^^^ agreed"

Thirded

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By *electableicecreamMan 26 weeks ago

The West

Manners is always a good start.

And a good bio. I wouldn't write criticism of other men in my own bio. I don't think it would reflect well on me.

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By *agic.MMan 26 weeks ago

Orpington

I think the key words are respect and consideration...which are part of being a gentleman. People that are too friendly can sometimes come across as pushy... ignoring boundaries. But to answer your question...being respectful, educated and well mannered is never a bad look in my eyes.

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By *akbearMan 26 weeks ago

Newbury

Always try and be polite, works about 20% of the time getting a response even if it's a no thanks.

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By *enXdadbod OP   Man 26 weeks ago

North Manchester

I’m always polite never pushy but most of my msgs just stop. So think i may come across as boring. Which is far from the case haha

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By *weetiepie99Woman 26 weeks ago

cardiff

Another vote here for a gentleman, as long as he has that glint in his eye

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By *ifestyle1Man 26 weeks ago

me171


"Good eve. How are you?

Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?

Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha

Be good to hear what people think.

This might be essentially a sex site but women still expect men to be friendly and respectful. Being a decent person isn't boring.

Starting with sex talk is extremely unlikely to be a successful approach. "

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By *ifestyle1Man 26 weeks ago

me171

Thumbs up

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By *icecouple561Couple 26 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Good eve. How are you?

Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?

Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha

Be good to hear what people think.

"

What will you do if it is giving the wrong impression?

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By *allandathleticMan 26 weeks ago

Asgard

Be authentic and genuine OP.

It'll go a long way with the ladies.

Coming from an utter scumbag

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By *enXdadbod OP   Man 26 weeks ago

North Manchester


"Good eve. How are you?

Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?

Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha

Be good to hear what people think.

What will you do if it is giving the wrong impression?"

Looking at the advice i think i should update my profile to express myself better.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman 26 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Good eve. How are you?

Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?

Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha

Be good to hear what people think.

This might be essentially a sex site but women still expect men to be friendly and respectful. Being a decent person isn't boring.

Starting with sex talk is extremely unlikely to be a successful approach. "

What she said

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By *hyKentGuyMan 26 weeks ago

sheerness


"Another vote here for a gentleman, as long as he has that glint in his eye"

I’ve always been polite on here! Gets me absolutely nowhere!x

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By *icecouple561Couple 26 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here

It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.

A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone.

this.

And the ladies just love a bad boy too! "

That's as maybe but women want a man.

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By *lueLotusWoman 26 weeks ago

the wilderness

Nice bum

what was the question?

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By *rgasmatron1970Man 26 weeks ago

Bromley

I was brought up, not thrown up. My mind and humour might be in the gutter or below, but I know how to behave online and in person.

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By *hunky GentMan 26 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Nice bum

what was the question? "

Great tits.

Where was we?

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By *icecouple561Couple 26 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

In my opinion basic respect and good manners are basic requirements. It doesn't make anyone boring or less likely to get meets. However neither does it mean you're more likely to get meets.

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By *rHotNottsMan 26 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Be authentic and genuine OP.

It'll go a long way with the ladies.

Coming from an utter scumbag "

Being anything but yourself isn’t going to work

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By *lueLotusWoman 26 weeks ago

the wilderness


"Nice bum

what was the question?

Great tits.

Where was we? "

Oi im not here for your gratifica..... Ahhhh oh yes actually I am. Sorry. Carry on

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By *allandathleticMan 26 weeks ago

Asgard


"Nice bum

what was the question? "

You Irish girls are just something else

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By *hunky GentMan 26 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Nice bum

what was the question?

Great tits.

Where was we?

Oi im not here for your gratifica..... Ahhhh oh yes actually I am. Sorry. Carry on"

Lovely, now please bend over.

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By *enXdadbod OP   Man 26 weeks ago

North Manchester


"Nice bum

what was the question? "

Blushes haha

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By *eroLondonMan 26 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here

·

It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.

A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone. "

Absolutely.

A gentleman will simply act like one without any airs and graces. Similarly, when I come across profiles of women who proffer to be sapiosexual I give them a wide berth. If you're sapiosexual I'll be able to discern it immediately. Don't boilerplate it on your profile.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple 26 weeks ago

Southampton


"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here

·

It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.

A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone.

Absolutely.

A gentleman will simply act like one without any airs and graces. Similarly, when I come across profiles of women who proffer to be sapiosexual I give them a wide berth. If you're sapiosexual I'll be able to discern it immediately. Don't boilerplate it on your profile."

I've never Claimed to be intelligent in any way shape or form ...

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By *mf123Man 26 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I prefered gentle ben

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By *eroLondonMan 26 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I've never Claimed to be intelligent in any way shape or form ... "

That's because you're the thinking man's crumpet.

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By *layfullsamMan 26 weeks ago

Solihull


"Good eve. How are you?

Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?

Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha

Be good to hear what people think.

"

I think you’re partly true, I’m always a gentleman on here and sometimes think the ladies prefer a bad boy.

But tbh it is what it is and fair play to any guy getting a meet on fab

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple 26 weeks ago

Southampton


"I've never Claimed to be intelligent in any way shape or form ...

That's because you're the thinking man's crumpet. "

... smothered in butter ?.

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By *enXdadbod OP   Man 26 weeks ago

North Manchester

This is all great advice

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple 26 weeks ago

Southampton


"This is all great advice "

Good luck x

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By *ikesEmBigMan 26 weeks ago

Herts


"Good eve. How are you?

Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?

Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha

Be good to hear what people think.

"

Be yourself

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By *hunky GentMan 26 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've been on here a few years now and I try to be a gentleman.

So people will like you for being a gent, some won't.

Some will thank you for your kindness, some will block you.

Just be yourself and you should come out on top with the majority of people.

Patience is required though. Lots of it.

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By *ellinever70Woman 26 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"

Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?

"

Only if being friendly is accompanied by an attitude that people then owe them something because of it

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By *riel13Woman 26 weeks ago

Northampton

I prefer the respectful, face pic and at least a hint of attraction for him (and me obviously) kind of approach... Not the smutty or "I am in your area and looking for xyz and I am just interested as you have holes", business transaction approach

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