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By *enXdadbod OP Man 14 weeks ago
North Manchester |
Good eve. How are you?
Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?
Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha
Be good to hear what people think.
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"Good eve. How are you?
Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?
Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha
Be good to hear what people think.
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This might be essentially a sex site but women still expect men to be friendly and respectful. Being a decent person isn't boring.
Starting with sex talk is extremely unlikely to be a successful approach. |
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"Good eve. How are you?
Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?
Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha
Be good to hear what people think.
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no - its much better than some of the full on explicit messages that seem to have evaded the curtsey of a hello!! |
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"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here "
It's just that men are hugely outnumbered, so you need to stand out.
You would benefit from a more detailed profile and attending socials and clubs. |
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"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here "
It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.
A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone. |
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"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here
It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.
A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone. "
 this.
And the ladies just love a bad boy too!  |
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"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here
It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.
A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone.
this.
And the ladies just love a bad boy too! "
 with flags !!! |
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"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here
It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.
A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone.
this.
And the ladies just love a bad boy too! "
No bad boys, thank you. |
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I think the key words are respect and consideration...which are part of being a gentleman. People that are too friendly can sometimes come across as pushy... ignoring boundaries. But to answer your question...being respectful, educated and well mannered is never a bad look in my eyes. |
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"Good eve. How are you?
Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?
Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha
Be good to hear what people think.
This might be essentially a sex site but women still expect men to be friendly and respectful. Being a decent person isn't boring.
Starting with sex talk is extremely unlikely to be a successful approach. "
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"Good eve. How are you?
Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?
Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha
Be good to hear what people think.
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What will you do if it is giving the wrong impression? |
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By *enXdadbod OP Man 14 weeks ago
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"Good eve. How are you?
Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?
Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha
Be good to hear what people think.
What will you do if it is giving the wrong impression?"
Looking at the advice i think i should update my profile to express myself better.  |
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"Good eve. How are you?
Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?
Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha
Be good to hear what people think.
This might be essentially a sex site but women still expect men to be friendly and respectful. Being a decent person isn't boring.
Starting with sex talk is extremely unlikely to be a successful approach. "
What she said |
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"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here
It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.
A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone.
this.
And the ladies just love a bad boy too! "
That's as maybe but women want a man.  |
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"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here
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It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.
A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone. "
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Absolutely.
A gentleman will simply act like one without any airs and graces. Similarly, when I come across profiles of women who proffer to be sapiosexual I give them a wide berth. If you're sapiosexual I'll be able to discern it immediately. Don't boilerplate it on your profile. |
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"Good to hear thank you. I’ll not change my mother raised a Gent. But it’s doesn’t seem appreciated here
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It is appreciated but actions speak louder than words so if you continuously refer to yourself as a gent or use it as your usp it can be perceived as a false persona.
A proper gent doesn't need to tell anyone.
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Absolutely.
A gentleman will simply act like one without any airs and graces. Similarly, when I come across profiles of women who proffer to be sapiosexual I give them a wide berth. If you're sapiosexual I'll be able to discern it immediately. Don't boilerplate it on your profile."
I've never Claimed to be intelligent in any way shape or form  ... |
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"Good eve. How are you?
Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?
Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha
Be good to hear what people think.
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I think you’re partly true, I’m always a gentleman on here and sometimes think the ladies prefer a bad boy.
But tbh it is what it is and fair play to any guy getting a meet on fab |
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"Good eve. How are you?
Is being a friendly gent giving people the wrong impression when it come’s to this site?
Perhaps the view is that someone with manners is boring or not a total deviant haha
Be good to hear what people think.
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Be yourself |
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I've been on here a few years now and I try to be a gentleman.
So people will like you for being a gent, some won't.
Some will thank you for your kindness, some will block you.
Just be yourself and you should come out on top with the majority of people.
Patience is required though. Lots of it.  |
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By *riel13Woman 14 weeks ago
Northampton |
I prefer the respectful, face pic and at least a hint of attraction for him (and me obviously) kind of approach... Not the smutty or "I am in your area and looking for xyz and I am just interested as you have holes", business transaction approach  |
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