So, who decided in your relationship who wanted to see who fuck someone else?
What turns you on about seeing your partner with someone else?
Do you ever get jealous of each other?
Are you both happy with it or is it one sided  |
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It was a mutual decision.
We dont watch each other. We meet others separately.
No, there’s no jealousy.
We’re both happy, there’s no one sided to it. If there ever was…….we’d walk away from the lifestyle. |
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"It was a mutual decision.
We dont watch each other. We meet others separately.
No, there’s no jealousy.
We’re both happy, there’s no one sided to it. If there ever was…….we’d walk away from the lifestyle. "
That’s good  |
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"I (Mr) wanted to try a MFF and Mrs wanted to try MMF so we decided to give it a go and enjoyed our experience lol, now we have decided to broaden our horizons and look at clubs etc"
Have you been to any clubs yet?  |
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"I (Mr) wanted to try a MFF and Mrs wanted to try MMF so we decided to give it a go and enjoyed our experience lol, now we have decided to broaden our horizons and look at clubs etc
Have you been to any clubs yet? "
Not yet between work and trying to get babysitters lol, when our schedules finally align we will be going, we are hoping in the summer we will try a couple |
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During a talk about porn she asked if I thought the idea of her getting fucked by someone else was hot, which after thought I decided I did.
2 weeks later we had a bi threeway and never looked back. |
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I met my partner here 8.5 years ago, we took some time away for us and decided we wanted to carry on in the lifestyle.
There's never been any jealousy, we can both meet alone, we kept our single profiles due to how difficult it can be meeting other couples and getting that four way attraction. |
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"During a talk about porn she asked if I thought the idea of her getting fucked by someone else was hot, which after thought I decided I did.
2 weeks later we had a bi threeway and never looked back."
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The dynamic varies from relationship to relationship but mutuality is a core need for me.
Compersion and lust is what turns me on.
Yes jealousy is a normal human emotion, owning it and having space to talk openly is all it takes really. It naturally shifts into compersion then. There's no wrong emotions, just wrong behaviours.
As above it's not mutual then having those difficult conversations, whether it's listening to a partner or feeling heard, is key. That applies to issues outside of sex too though. Do we collaborate or compete? Do we blame and find fault or own and find solutions. |
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