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You arrange a meet for a certain night at a certain time and you get ghosted...
Happening too often...
And then what has happened a few times is they will come online hours later at stupid o clock and then get arsey when you say it is too late...
We live in a quiet close, in a small village, with nosey neighbours and people turning up at 2 or 3 in the morning would be a bit odd.. |
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"I’d block those responsible so they don’t get the chance to get arsey later on.
I have with a few of them... Especially the ones who get really nasty... "
Sucks that you got treated like that.
Sadly, it’s just fab life innit. Fantasy vs reality. A lot, love the chase, until it comes to showing out. |
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I feel I have been lucky in that I don’t tend to get ghosted. However I wonder whether it is luck or I am doing something that filters out the ghosters?
OP if it is happening to you regularly then I would suggest you look at the way you filter meets. |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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We experienced the weirdest thing to date a couple of weeks back. A guy turned up to a private party and we were all chatting away. Next thing he says he has to pop to the shops for something - didn't come back, three women waiting to be fucked and he legged it!!! |
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"We experienced the weirdest thing to date a couple of weeks back. A guy turned up to a private party and we were all chatting away. Next thing he says he has to pop to the shops for something - didn't come back, three women waiting to be fucked and he legged it!!!"
Fantasy vs reality again right there. |
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"You arrange a meet for a certain night at a certain time and you get ghosted...
Happening too often...
And then what has happened a few times is they will come online hours later at stupid o clock and then get arsey when you say it is too late...
We live in a quiet close, in a small village, with nosey neighbours and people turning up at 2 or 3 in the morning would be a bit odd.. "
when they come on early hours is a massive red flag for me as probably d up and just want talk naughty as they can't sleep |
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"We experienced the weirdest thing to date a couple of weeks back. A guy turned up to a private party and we were all chatting away. Next thing he says he has to pop to the shops for something - didn't come back, three women waiting to be fucked and he legged it!!!"
We had a guy say he had left his phone in the car and went to get it.. And he buggered off...
I think it is fantasy vs reality...
Guys just want to cone and perv amd see the goods in person so they can go and wank about it |
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"You arrange a meet for a certain night at a certain time and you get ghosted...
Happening too often...
And then what has happened a few times is they will come online hours later at stupid o clock and then get arsey when you say it is too late...
We live in a quiet close, in a small village, with nosey neighbours and people turning up at 2 or 3 in the morning would be a bit odd.. when they come on early hours is a massive red flag for me as probably d up and just want talk naughty as they can't sleep "
We try to filter them ones out ASAP |
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"We experienced the weirdest thing to date a couple of weeks back. A guy turned up to a private party and we were all chatting away. Next thing he says he has to pop to the shops for something - didn't come back, three women waiting to be fucked and he legged it!!!
We had a guy say he had left his phone in the car and went to get it.. And he buggered off...
I think it is fantasy vs reality...
Guys just want to cone and perv amd see the goods in person so they can go and wank about it "
Or they feel intimidated or not comfortable in the situation and not confident to just say no and leave. Yes he they should let you know ideally but your own comfort/safety should come first.
If a women did this it wouldn't be questioned |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"We experienced the weirdest thing to date a couple of weeks back. A guy turned up to a private party and we were all chatting away. Next thing he says he has to pop to the shops for something - didn't come back, three women waiting to be fucked and he legged it!!!
We had a guy say he had left his phone in the car and went to get it.. And he buggered off...
I think it is fantasy vs reality...
Guys just want to cone and perv amd see the goods in person so they can go and wank about it
Or they feel intimidated or not comfortable in the situation and not confident to just say no and leave. Yes he they should let you know ideally but your own comfort/safety should come first.
If a women did this it wouldn't be questioned"
Actually you know what - you have a pretty bloody valid point there. |
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By *.T.Man 21 weeks ago
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A favourite of mine is those who post a meet today seconds before they log off. They must get a rush from a full inbox.
Never understood ghosting, but then there is a lot of behaviours I just don't understand.
Maybe fab should have a ghostbuster button. Every time someone ghosts you, you hit the ghost button. You only get one per profile. If someone is a serial ghoster and more than 10 or so people say they got ghosted, then they end up with a wee ghost on their profile.
To protect against false allegations, there has to have been at least five messages sent each way, just so that a person can't call upon the White Knight brigade to report as ghosting out of spite. |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"I've been ghosted three times in the last week. No explanation  "
I can definitely explain that one
They were out of their depth massively - literally could not handle being confronted by a full on glorious woman. You may not want to hear it or believe it but staggeringly beautiful women are very intimidating to most people and illicit some very bizarre behaviour |
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"A favourite of mine is those who post a meet today seconds before they log off. They must get a rush from a full inbox.
Never understood ghosting, but then there is a lot of behaviours I just don't understand.
Maybe fab should have a ghostbuster button. Every time someone ghosts you, you hit the ghost button. You only get one per profile. If someone is a serial ghoster and more than 10 or so people say they got ghosted, then they end up with a wee ghost on their profile.
To protect against false allegations, there has to have been at least five messages sent each way, just so that a person can't call upon the White Knight brigade to report as ghosting out of spite."
I love that idea |
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You’re not alone OP
We worked it out. About 1 in 6 (yes that’s 5 out of about 30 or so) socials this year have actually turned up, or cancelled/rearranged in good time. The rest have ghosted me.
Been living most our lives… living in the keyboard wankers paradise  |
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