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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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and those who are nosy/see I've started a thread.
When it comes to those you're intimate with, do you have a height preference? Do you find you're naturally more drawn to certain heights and if so... why is that?
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A very slight preference for someone closer to 5ft than 6th but its by no means a deal breaker.
No idea why I'm assuming it's something primitive.
I've found it best not to question what happens inside my brain, it's a fucking mess in there |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"Nope. I’m attracted to all sorts, me. "
Whoah. What? Really? Mind. Blown.
"Whom do I tend to end up with, though? Usually women a wee smidge shorter than myself. Just a few inches."
How tall are you? I could look at your profile but it's a lot of effort. |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"As a non-man I’m marking this space intended for men with my uselessness in regards to the question posed by OP  "
Shocking. The sheer audacity of women nowadays. It's a good job you're very likeable. |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"I am attracted to all heights but if they’re much taller than me, I dust off my Tom Cruise shoes "
Oh you're my height! I was seeing someone for a while who was... a few inches shorter than me. Fantastic lover, bit possessive. He didn't need those little... forgotten the term, insoles? Anyway, he didn't.
Don't Cruise yourself.
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Well Meli I had to check the average height of UK women, as most my mates are around the same height me ish. Various studies say in the UK it's 5ft 3 or 4. So you're not average unsurprisingly.
I do have a preference for taller than me which isn't that difficult, and probably a max of 6ft. There are things I find awkward with the other half because of height difference. Actually there are a few so we have to modify things lol. Any taller and some things would become impossible.
And yes I'm a nosey mare. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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Height has never been an issue for me, I’m 6’5 so always been with ladies shorter than me, however they’ve been a lot shorter.
I do find a nice tall lady attractive, who knows, maybe one day |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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As someone without a penis but who has height, men prefer shorter women.
Just fyi, saying you like me despite my height is not a compliment. #youknowwhoyouare
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"Well Meli I had to check the average height of UK women, as most my mates are around the same height me ish. Various studies say in the UK it's 5ft 3 or 4. So you're not average unsurprisingly.
I do have a preference for taller than me which isn't that difficult, and probably a max of 6ft. There are things I find awkward with the other half because of height difference. Actually there are a few so we have to modify things lol. Any taller and some things would become impossible.
And yes I'm a nosey mare. "
I tell my daughter that all the time, she's says she's short but she's actually average height. I have researched said studies for her. She seems to feel better about it now. |
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"Well Meli I had to check the average height of UK women, as most my mates are around the same height me ish. Various studies say in the UK it's 5ft 3 or 4. So you're not average unsurprisingly.
I do have a preference for taller than me which isn't that difficult, and probably a max of 6ft. There are things I find awkward with the other half because of height difference. Actually there are a few so we have to modify things lol. Any taller and some things would become impossible.
And yes I'm a nosey mare.
I tell my daughter that all the time, she's says she's short but she's actually average height. I have researched said studies for her. She seems to feel better about it now. "
Think most people think women's average height is 5ft 7 or something. Which then makes us actual average women feel short. Especially since I have to shorten all my clothes |
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"...and those who are nosy/see I've started a thread.
When it comes to those you're intimate with, do you have a height preference?"
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No, because those who message me are usually either the same height as me or shorter. There have been two instances where they were taller than me, 5' 10" and 5' 11½" respectively. In the bedroom the sex was still the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"As someone without a penis but who has height, men prefer shorter women.
Just fyi, saying you like me despite my height is not a compliment. #youknowwhoyouare
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"There's something about a woman a lot shorter than me being extremely dominant as they look up x"
Ah so you like the flipping of societal convention? That's fair enough. Is that your preference? |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"A very slight preference for someone closer to 5ft than 6th but its by no means a deal breaker.
No idea why I'm assuming it's something primitive.
I've found it best not to question what happens inside my brain, it's a fucking mess in there"
But sometimes it's good to get in touch with your shadow self. Or delve a bit more in to why you like a particular thing. It's good for these sorts of curious threads anyway. |
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"There's something about a woman a lot shorter than me being extremely dominant as they look up x
Ah so you like the flipping of societal convention? That's fair enough. Is that your preference?"
I'll be honest. I've never got that vibe off of a woman looking up at me. |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"I like the variety so not really important to me. More about h the on how you get on. Thank you for thinking about us men."
Aww you're very welcome. You men are never too far from my thoughts. xoxo |
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"Must be shorter than me. I don't need a 6ft4 woman on my arm 
Shorter than you shouldn't be too hard to find luckily. "
Meli,
As these threads/fora/site has taught me. Your best off not looking, than looking hard. I live by a saying "you meet the most wonderful people, in the most bizarre environments"
And I stand by that.
P.s. all ladies shorter than 6ft3 form an orderly queue  |
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By *batMan 32 weeks ago
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I think bigger, statuesque women can be gorgeous!
I think shorter,petite women can be gorgeous!
I think average height women can be gorgeous!
Does than answer your question OP?
Gbat. |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"Well Meli I had to check the average height of UK women, as most my mates are around the same height me ish. Various studies say in the UK it's 5ft 3 or 4. So you're not average unsurprisingly.
I do have a preference for taller than me which isn't that difficult, and probably a max of 6ft. There are things I find awkward with the other half because of height difference. Actually there are a few so we have to modify things lol. Any taller and some things would become impossible.
And yes I'm a nosey mare. "
What sort of things do you find difficult Frida? I have no idea what you could mean...
Most of your friends are the same height as you? Oh that's really sweet! I still think I'm average height and those studies are outdated. |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"How tall are you? I could look at your profile but it's a lot of effort.
I’m just a little bit taller than you, Meli. Just a couple of inches. Wear heels and we could be eye-to-eye."
Okay, deal. I thought you were taller in person, it must be your delightful personality adding a few inches. |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"Height has never been an issue for me, I’m 6’5 so always been with ladies shorter than me, however they’ve been a lot shorter.
I do find a nice tall lady attractive, who knows, maybe one day "
Ah so they've been a good foot or shorter? When you're 6'5 do you find that you get a lot of attention because of your height? Especially on a site like this. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"and those who are nosy/see I've started a thread.
When it comes to those you're intimate with, do you have a height preference? Do you find you're naturally more drawn to certain heights and if so... why is that?
Signed
An Average Height Woman."
I most certainly have a preference which is my own height or shorter (preferable) and this stems from dating and sleeping with a woman taller than me by a couple of few inches and although her height didn’t socially bother me but physically it didn’t work so taller is a no go zone
And there are a lot of stunners here and around but it’s a no  |
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"Well Meli I had to check the average height of UK women, as most my mates are around the same height me ish. Various studies say in the UK it's 5ft 3 or 4. So you're not average unsurprisingly.
I do have a preference for taller than me which isn't that difficult, and probably a max of 6ft. There are things I find awkward with the other half because of height difference. Actually there are a few so we have to modify things lol. Any taller and some things would become impossible.
And yes I'm a nosey mare.
What sort of things do you find difficult Frida? I have no idea what you could mean...
Most of your friends are the same height as you? Oh that's really sweet! I still think I'm average height and those studies are outdated."
Sweet, that is most certainly me actually I'm not the tallest. The tallest amongst us is 5ft 6.
Things we find awkward cause of height difference, fucking against a wall. You know when you get in from somewhere and you just need to fuck as soon as you shut the door. Same with being bent over a table or such like. And weirdly doggy means we have to modify a bit to adjust our heights. I mean there's lots more too but I'll be here for ages  |
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"Well Meli I had to check the average height of UK women, as most my mates are around the same height me ish. Various studies say in the UK it's 5ft 3 or 4. So you're not average unsurprisingly.
I do have a preference for taller than me which isn't that difficult, and probably a max of 6ft. There are things I find awkward with the other half because of height difference. Actually there are a few so we have to modify things lol. Any taller and some things would become impossible.
And yes I'm a nosey mare.
I tell my daughter that all the time, she's says she's short but she's actually average height. I have researched said studies for her. She seems to feel better about it now.
Think most people think women's average height is 5ft 7 or something. Which then makes us actual average women feel short. Especially since I have to shorten all my clothes "
I feel your pain. I had to drive all over hell's creation so she could find shoes she liked that made her look taller - but no heels! Arndale, Trafford centre, Cheshire oaks, Liverpool one.
That's love believe me, to get me in even one of those places on a weekend. |
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"Well Meli I had to check the average height of UK women, as most my mates are around the same height me ish. Various studies say in the UK it's 5ft 3 or 4. So you're not average unsurprisingly.
I do have a preference for taller than me which isn't that difficult, and probably a max of 6ft. There are things I find awkward with the other half because of height difference. Actually there are a few so we have to modify things lol. Any taller and some things would become impossible.
And yes I'm a nosey mare.
I tell my daughter that all the time, she's says she's short but she's actually average height. I have researched said studies for her. She seems to feel better about it now.
Think most people think women's average height is 5ft 7 or something. Which then makes us actual average women feel short. Especially since I have to shorten all my clothes
I feel your pain. I had to drive all over hell's creation so she could find shoes she liked that made her look taller - but no heels! Arndale, Trafford centre, Cheshire oaks, Liverpool one.
That's love believe me, to get me in even one of those places on a weekend."
You couldn't pay me to do that, fair play that is love |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"Depends whether we have to wade any streams on a first meet, I feel providing a piggy back on a first meet is setting me up for unrealistic expectations.
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Can't argue with that logic; truly faultless. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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Nope. I just need to want to snog her face off.
If she’s taller I’ll stand in my top toes…. Or a curb.
If she’s shorter I’ll sit her on my lap.
Same hieght? … I’ve only ever kissed a girl who is the same height as me once.  |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"Must be shorter than me. I don't need a 6ft4 woman on my arm
Shorter than you shouldn't be too hard to find luckily.
Meli,
As these threads/fora/site has taught me. Your best off not looking, than looking hard. I live by a saying "you meet the most wonderful people, in the most bizarre environments"
And I stand by that.
P.s. all ladies shorter than 6ft3 form an orderly queue "
Oh I'm a great believer in that! Perhaps not bizarre environments but yes. I think when you don't look, don't try and search for something to fit in to your life, it just happens. The right person, the right time. |
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"and those who are nosy/see I've started a thread.
When it comes to those you're intimate with, do you have a height preference? Do you find you're naturally more drawn to certain heights and if so... why is that?
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An Average Height Woman."
I'm quite tall so ladies taller than me are fairly unusual. It'd feel a little odd tbh |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"Height, for me, has no relavance to a persons attractiveness. Mind is important, looks and body are a catalyst. Confidence in themselves is a turn on too. But this can change with my mood lol x"
Why would your mood affect that view? Zero snark, more, curiosity. |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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It usually depends on the person for me. Only being 5'8" I make the assumption that women my height or taller wouldn't be interested but it genuinely wouldn't matter to me if they were. If I HAD to state a preference, it would probably be for women shorter than I am as it does make me feel a bit more manly  |
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I think I’ve mentioned this before somewhere, but there’s one thing I did find awkward when dating a girl quite a lot taller than me. Holding hands. Walking down the street holding hands with her felt awkward. We didn’t fit together properly.
Everything else felt awesome though.  |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"I think bigger, statuesque women can be gorgeous!
I think shorter,petite women can be gorgeous!
I think average height women can be gorgeous!
Does than answer your question OP?
Gbat. "
It does, you're an equal opportunist. Love that for you. |
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By *eli OP Woman 32 weeks ago
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"and those who are nosy/see I've started a thread.
When it comes to those you're intimate with, do you have a height preference? Do you find you're naturally more drawn to certain heights and if so... why is that?
Signed
An Average Height Woman.
I most certainly have a preference which is my own height or shorter (preferable) and this stems from dating and sleeping with a woman taller than me by a couple of few inches and although her height didn’t socially bother me but physically it didn’t work so taller is a no go zone
And there are a lot of stunners here and around but it’s a no "
Why wouldn't it work physically? I thought everyone was the same height lying down? |
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I have no preference at all smallest was under 5ft tallest was 6ft 3 I guess one thing I would say is that certain positions are easier either way but once you’re in that territory who’s worrying anymore |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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"I think I’ve mentioned this before somewhere, but there’s one thing I did find awkward when dating a girl quite a lot taller than me. Holding hands. Walking down the street holding hands with her felt awkward. We didn’t fit together properly.
Everything else felt awesome though. "
I feel like this about short men. We just don’t fit together holding hands, or me holding his arm. It’s like an awkward of bends and folds of arms, hands being off. Especially more so if I’m wearing heels. |
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I've never really thought about it but looking back I think pretty much everyone I've ever been with had been around the same height as me so the evidence would suggest I do have a preference
As an outlier I did spend a couple of years with someone who was two inches taller than me in flats. Height definitely wasn't the attraction factor though. |
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"and those who are nosy/see I've started a thread.
When it comes to those you're intimate with, do you have a height preference? Do you find you're naturally more drawn to certain heights and if so... why is that?
Signed
An Average Height Woman."
Along aa not taller than myself but I'm 6ft so don't normally have that issue ???? |
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"and those who are nosy/see I've started a thread.
When it comes to those you're intimate with, do you have a height preference? Do you find you're naturally more drawn to certain heights and if so... why is that?
Signed
An Average Height Woman."
Generally I like women who are quite a bit shorter than me, apparently it's my "protector complex".
Having said that, my current paramour is 5' 8" |
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"and those who are nosy/see I've started a thread.
When it comes to those you're intimate with, do you have a height preference? Do you find you're naturally more drawn to certain heights and if so... why is that?
Signed
An Average Height Woman."
Yes I do for sure. My preference is for shorter than me with heels on.
So ideally 5'3" to 5'6" but an inch or two either way is not going to be an icebreaker.
I'd love a height filter as its one you can't really lie about.
However I do know a guy an inch shorter than me who claims to be 6 foot. |
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I’m 5’8 which is short arse for a bloke but I’m happy in my own skin, all my actual relationships were ladies around my height or taller with heels on, I’ve met some foul tall people, some short ones nay better, turn up in good character or be gone said Shakespeare…. probably |
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By (user no longer on site) 32 weeks ago
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I'm 5,8 so has to be shorter, which is what makes it difficult in the pubs and clubs when they've all got heels on ????
I've been with women taller than me for ONS which I'm assuming is because of my charm or they're just incredibly pissed lol
Even on here I always check heights and if they're taller I won't even bother to message as it seems they're all after 6ft+ romeo lol |
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I don’t have a height preference, I’ve had partners from just under 5’ to about 6’, although I don’t think I’ve ever had one taller than me.
A little shorter is nice, because I can put my hand on your cheek and kiss you like Cary Grant would |
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