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How difficult it is for a new single male member to get a meet
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Welcome to the world of single-mandom on Fab!
It’s very different to being part of a couple where, let’s be honest, it’s usually the lady everyone *really* wants.
So I guess you need to make your profile stand out somewhat.
Your text is sparse and viewers are greeted with an erect penis.
Is that what the ladies really want?
I don’t know. I can’t pull for toffee. But I guess the ladies will provide more useful feedback in time!
Good luck my friend, may your dick be moistened soon!  |
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"Welcome to the world of single-mandom on Fab!
It’s very different to being part of a couple where, let’s be honest, it’s usually the lady everyone *really* wants.
So I guess you need to make your profile stand out somewhat.
Your text is sparse and viewers are greeted with an erect penis.
Is that what the ladies really want?
I don’t know. I can’t pull for toffee. But I guess the ladies will provide more useful feedback in time!
Good luck my friend, may your dick be moistened soon! "
I agree with this but im not one to talk. Still a work in progress is mine |
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By *bi HaiveMan 13 weeks ago
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Every verified single guy started out the same.
Unverified without any meets.
The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted.  |
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I get the rare (guessing d*unken) message on a Saturday night at midnight to drop everything and dash round otherwise I'm blocked - other than that it's the same here.
Not complaining though.. fabs still fab |
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"Every verified single guy started out the same.
Unverified without any meets.
The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted. "
These are wise words and completely correct. |
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"Every verified single guy started out the same.
Unverified without any meets.
The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted. "
OP, I’ll give you a clue :  |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Every verified single guy started out the same.
Unverified without any meets.
The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted.
OP, I’ll give you a clue : "
That’s meant to be cake, by the way. Sadly it’s a bit of a shite emoji tbh |
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"Every verified single guy started out the same.
Unverified without any meets.
The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted.
OP, I’ll give you a clue :
That’s meant to be cake, by the way. Sadly it’s a bit of a shite emoji tbh"
ooooh cake  |
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Very difficult for guys from what we’ve seen. Guys who go to socials and clubs to talk to people seem to do well without any exceptional attributes other than a good personality.
The guys who seem to do well without going to socials seem to be well hung or have a great body or both as that’s what many appear to be looking for . Not all though.
Of course just our observations so we could be wrong. If I was a single guy looking for women I would not be looking on Fab as it looks impossible. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Every verified single guy started out the same.
Unverified without any meets.
The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted.
OP, I’ll give you a clue :
That’s meant to be cake, by the way. Sadly it’s a bit of a shite emoji tbh
ooooh cake "
See OP! The secret revealed!  |
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Now this is the new ending question, why can't single men get a meet on fab......
Now I could hypothesis and summize, buy where would that get us, now where, especially not a meet social or sexual....
Mr
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
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A while to you is 4 weeks but that is 1 second on fab.
You asked about profile, and it's harsh to say but there's nothing in it to excite. Have a poke about in the forums at male profiles, there's some that are just one line but there are some that are bang on it with humour, what they are looking for and what they can provide |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
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Yes. There are quite a few things wrong with your profile |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
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Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex” |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Got to have patience, and don't let it bother you.
I get lots of views but not much more.
Try visiting some clubs, eventually you will get a verification and then hopefully more interest.
Good luck. |
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Too much cock and not enough you. Cocks are dime dozen and seem to matter less than overall physical attraction to most on fab.
Either way trying to get meets through cold messaging is like pissing into a blizzard of ten thousand rabid penis's.
Social events and clubs give are always going to be the best option.
Good luck OP |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Got to have patience, and don't let it bother you.
I get lots of views but not much more.
Try visiting some clubs, eventually you will get a verification and then hopefully more interest.
Good luck. "
Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Got to have patience, and don't let it bother you.
I get lots of views but not much more.
Try visiting some clubs, eventually you will get a verification and then hopefully more interest.
Good luck.
Thanks x"
No need for thanks. You're getting advice from someone with no meets or verifications  |
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This is my opinion, others may not be bothered. Ultimately it’s your profile, therefore your choice, but your profile is your shop window.
You have a dick pic as your profile photo. That means that you’re sending a dick pic to every woman every time you message, whether she wants one or not. If someone messages me who has a dick pic, I don’t even open their message or read their profile. I block them immediately.
There are about four lines to your bio. Needs more effort as there is nothing original or appealing about it as it is. What do you like, what do you have to offer, what are you looking for?
All of your other pics are just pictures of your dick in various forms. Really off putting and very low effort.
Look at some other male profiles from other guys in the forum to get some ideas. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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For some, it will be easy as clicking with somebody, and for others, it’s going to be hard when they miss match with lots of people.
I think a lot to do with the way the universe is, being in the right place at the right time
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"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.
But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that. "
Perfect advice OP |
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"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.
But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.
Perfect advice OP "
glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB |
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"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.
But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.
Perfect advice OP
glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB "
I’m so sorry darling…
*takes a bow* to Glow  |
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Perhaps try a club or two. You're most likely to come across genuine swingers then. Get talking to people in person, it's so much easier than on here.
I'd personally be put off by the bareback fucking pics. That's just me though...
Good luck OP x |
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"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.
But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.
Perfect advice OP
glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB
I’m so sorry darling…
*takes a bow* to Glow "
Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet  |
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"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.
But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.
Perfect advice OP
glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB
I’m so sorry darling…
*takes a bow* to Glow
Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet "
Being smol has its advantages |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
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Just give up |
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"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.
But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.
Perfect advice OP
glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB
I’m so sorry darling…
*takes a bow* to Glow
Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet
Being smol has its advantages "
Oh I get it. My bestie is too and she gets away with murder |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.
But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that. "
Well I do appreciate your comment, but I don’t see how I make things difficult for my self ?
I try to be respectful, I do send txt depending on profiles , ???…. I do have explicit pics on my profile I do realise that, but this isn’t a romantic site is it ?
Maybe I have to change my pictures …?? |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Just give up "
This ^^^ |
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"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.
But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.
Perfect advice OP
glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB
I’m so sorry darling…
*takes a bow* to Glow
Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet
Being smol has its advantages
Oh I get it. My bestie is too and she gets away with murder "
Hmmmmm
I’m small & I get away with fuck all |
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"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.
But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.
Perfect advice OP
glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB
I’m so sorry darling…
*takes a bow* to Glow
Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet
Being smol has its advantages
Oh I get it. My bestie is too and she gets away with murder
Hmmmmm
I’m small & I get away with fuck all "
I’m not sure that’s true |
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"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.
But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.
Perfect advice OP
glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB
I’m so sorry darling…
*takes a bow* to Glow
Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet
Being smol has its advantages
Oh I get it. My bestie is too and she gets away with murder
Hmmmmm
I’m small & I get away with fuck all "
I'd let you get away with all manner of naughty things.  |
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"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.
But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.
Perfect advice OP
glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB
I’m so sorry darling…
*takes a bow* to Glow
Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet
Being smol has its advantages
Oh I get it. My bestie is too and she gets away with murder
Hmmmmm
I’m small & I get away with fuck all "
God you must be tired then! Biscuit? |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
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Think back to your days as a couple, receiving messages from men.
If you'd got a message from the profile you have now, would you have given it a second glance? |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Why can't males in general get a meet? Who knows, I've not seen them all.
I could point out a reason or 2 you may be struggling op..."
Go for it that’s why I asked the question?
If you can give me an explanation with out insulting then go for it !!.. |
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How difficult it is for a new single male member to get a meet, OP?
I usually find the ideal way to a woman's brittle heart is through the avenue of deceit, subterfuge, beguilement, faux charm, watered down Gin and a little mågïç..•°*... |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
newton le willows |
"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Think back to your days as a couple, receiving messages from men.
If you'd got a message from the profile you have now, would you have given it a second glance?"
Of course I would, when we had the couple profile we always answered people and if we Were not interested we would have said
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By *oxy jWoman 13 weeks ago
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its simple if someone wants to meet you they will soon let you know if they dont want to meet you again they will soon let you know ... the scene is very much a ''rejection scene'' as everything is at the very least is about sexual attraction and more on top ...
blunt and truthful this scene is hard for men due to the vast amount of them thats the blunt truth but some will dress it up as ''its wonderful'' just go and look at all the post from guys moaning .... its no impossible their are ways to get your self in front of people like clubs but even then its down to attraction / compatibility .. their is no magic |
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Go for it that’s why I asked the question?
It's a lazy profile with absolutely no thought put into it.
Full of cock pics, even worse, action pics. If that's the thing that you think is your strongest selling point, it doesn't say much I'm afraid.
I don't believe for a minute you'd meet a 99 year old, but that's what your profile says, gives the indication you would f*ck a barbers floor.
No thought at all about your bio, it's simple, uninspiring,and no different from the 1000s of others who also complain that they can't get a reply. Lastly, the won't bite unless you ask....old, and cliche...been written a million times by a million others.
As someone above said, if this profile has messaged your couples profile, would you have given it a second look? |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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You've only been here 4 weeks, all your pics are just dick, you need to improve your bio...looking to get as much fun as you can get...but what do you have to offer women? Popular single men that I know of are sociable, respectable, detail what they want to offer women to make women happy so it's not all about the guy's satisfaction, have friendly face pics or at least fully clothed pics if they have to be discreet xx |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex” "
Exactly this. Bareback as well  |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”
Exactly this. Bareback as well "
Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”
Exactly this. Bareback as well
Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used "
My thoughts too  |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”
Exactly this. Bareback as well
Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used "
Single or not, any profile that is displaying more than just the people using the profile should need to prove consent |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”
Exactly this. Bareback as well
Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used "
To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.
I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”
Exactly this. Bareback as well
Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used
My thoughts too "
I can assure you that I have consent . I would NEVER … |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
newton le willows |
"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”
Exactly this. Bareback as well
Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used
To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.
I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho"
The other person is a friend (FWB) and I have her permission to post it
Please….. fuck me I didn’t reliase that this site was full of fucking Karen’s !!!! |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”
Exactly this. Bareback as well
Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used
To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.
I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho
The other person is a friend (FWB) and I have her permission to post it
Please….. fuck me I didn’t reliase that this site was full of fucking Karen’s !!!! "
Let's be honest....no single person is ever going to say "well actually no, I don't have permission" are they  |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Think back to your days as a couple, receiving messages from men.
If you'd got a message from the profile you have now, would you have given it a second glance?
Of course I would, when we had the couple profile we always answered people and if we Were not interested we would have said
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By *ost SockMan 13 weeks ago
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”
Exactly this. Bareback as well
Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used
To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.
I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho
The other person is a friend (FWB) and I have her permission to post it
Please….. fuck me I didn’t reliase that this site was full of fucking Karen’s !!!! "
To be honest, Sparkle was just articulating what many women (not Karens) will be wondering when they see a single male with women in their photos. It was a no-nonsense way of putting it, but it might be an idea to think about it.
Four weeks is nothing - many guys go over a year. In my opinion, a guy has to a) give a good insight into his character and b) become an active member of the Fab community (which is much more than just sex to succeed.
Sorry to say, but your profile lacks a).
I’d lose the bit around biting too - it’s been said ao many times on here. It’s probably Fab cliche No1,
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It really depends, I found it easy as I was invited here by a meet. I was then introduced to others and things just happened.
The best thing to to is be nice, don't make rejection personal and remember the more you push the further away a lady gets.
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"It really depends, I found it easy as I was invited here by a meet. I was then introduced to others and things just happened.
The best thing to to is be nice, don't make rejection personal and remember the more you push the further away a lady gets.
Tony"
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”
Exactly this. Bareback as well
Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used
To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.
I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho
The other person is a friend (FWB) and I have her permission to post it
Please….. fuck me I didn’t reliase that this site was full of fucking Karen’s !!!! "
Still bareback in any case which will make plenty of people swerve you. Sorry if that makes me a Karen, I’m only trying to help |
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You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.
Several of those are bareback pics.
You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.
There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.
FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.
K |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.
Several of those are bareback pics.
You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.
There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.
FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.
K"
I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)
Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) … |
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"It's really not as difficult as it's made out to be. But it depends on what effort you want to put in.
"
This is absolutely bang on the money!
I think a lot of single blokes think that they’re going to get a meet on the first night they join. Rarely works that way.
Put it this way I think I’ve met 20 different women in 8 years of being here. That might sound like a lot but it’s like 2.2 women per year or something.
Patience, changing up your profile to make yourself attractive to viewers.
Once you start to get verified your chances improve tenfold but even then it isn’t that easy. |
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Some years back, I received a thoughtful, interesting, and captivating message from a single guy.
His profile was informative, left me wanting to discover more, but also presented who he was and what he was seeking.
He shared public photos that gave me an abundance of different angles, and revealed his personality. They weren’t solely selfies and didn’t show his cock.
We exchanged conversations for a few weeks before meeting. He captured by interest and was articulate, communicative, humorous, and light hearted. I had not noticed he lacked verifications despite having read his profile thoroughly before responding to his initial message.
What’s my point?
Be interesting enough that your lack of verification is the least of your worry for someone who is keen to meet you. Make them keen by presenting yourself as you are authentically.
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By *.T.Man 13 weeks ago
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Through early morning scrolls I see,
Fabbers that I want, near me,
I send a message out or three,
Why won't they all reply to me?
As Fabicide is painless,
My comments are so brainless,
I've fucked up my chances
wait and see....
So on the forums seek advice,
my comments are at first so nice,
But I'm not liking what you say,
the bareback pics are here to stay...
And fabicide is painless,
I'll double down on this mess,
So all you Karens' now see the real me...
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"It's really not as difficult as it's made out to be. But it depends on what effort you want to put in.
This is absolutely bang on the money!
I think a lot of single blokes think that they’re going to get a meet on the first night they join. Rarely works that way.
Put it this way I think I’ve met 20 different women in 8 years of being here. That might sound like a lot but it’s like 2.2 women per year or something.
Patience, changing up your profile to make yourself attractive to viewers.
Once you start to get verified your chances improve tenfold but even then it isn’t that easy."
I've met .2 of a woman... if I meet them 4 more times I get a veri.... or something |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"Some years back, I received a thoughtful, interesting, and captivating message from a single guy.
His profile was informative, left me wanting to discover more, but also presented who he was and what he was seeking.
He shared public photos that gave me an abundance of different angles, and revealed his personality. They weren’t solely selfies and didn’t show his cock.
We exchanged conversations for a few weeks before meeting. He captured by interest and was articulate, communicative, humorous, and light hearted. I had not noticed he lacked verifications despite having read his profile thoroughly before responding to his initial message.
What’s my point?
Be interesting enough that your lack of verification is the least of your worry for someone who is keen to meet you. Make them keen by presenting yourself as you are authentically.
"
Point taken thank you!! .. |
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"It's really not as difficult as it's made out to be. But it depends on what effort you want to put in.
This is absolutely bang on the money!
I think a lot of single blokes think that they’re going to get a meet on the first night they join. Rarely works that way.
Put it this way I think I’ve met 20 different women in 8 years of being here. That might sound like a lot but it’s like 2.2 women per year or something.
Patience, changing up your profile to make yourself attractive to viewers.
Once you start to get verified your chances improve tenfold but even then it isn’t that easy.
I've met .2 of a woman... if I meet them 4 more times I get a veri.... or something "
Haha. Not the point I was making. Just saying I’ve found it easier since I’ve had verifications from genuine women. |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"
Through early morning scrolls I see,
Fabbers that I want, near me,
I send a message out or three,
Why won't they all reply to me?
As Fabicide is painless,
My comments are so brainless,
I've fucked up my chances
wait and see....
So on the forums seek advice,
my comments are at first so nice,
But I'm not liking what you say,
the bareback pics are here to stay...
And fabicide is painless,
I'll double down on this mess,
So all you Karens' now see the real me...
"
Wow!! 85plus comments and this is what you can up with … just wow
I think your head it’s brainless !! What h what you say or think if you have any neurons to do so
89 comments and you come up with nothing just an offence !!….
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Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) … "
Personally (and I think many women share this view) I don’t know she’s a partner. I don’t know if she consented to that image being shared or even if she knew if was being taken. Massive red flags to me.
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"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.
Several of those are bareback pics.
You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.
There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.
FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.
K
I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)
Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) … "
Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned? |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
newton le willows |
"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.
Several of those are bareback pics.
You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.
There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.
FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.
K
I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)
Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …
Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned?"
it is and she knows that I have that pic on !!.. |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …
Personally (and I think many women share this view) I don’t know she’s a partner. I don’t know if she consented to that image being shared or even if she knew if was being taken. Massive red flags to me.
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woow aye opener .. I can assure you that she was aware that the pic was taken and she is also aware that the pic is used on a my profile
But I do appreciate the thought
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Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …
Personally (and I think many women share this view) I don’t know she’s a partner. I don’t know if she consented to that image being shared or even if she knew if was being taken. Massive red flags to me.
woow aye opener .. I can assure you that she was aware that the pic was taken and she is also aware that the pic is used on a my profile
But I do appreciate the thought
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That’s kinda my point. You can’t assure me. Or anyone else. It’s purely your word… |
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"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.
Several of those are bareback pics.
You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.
There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.
FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.
K
I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)
Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …
Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned? it is and she knows that I have that pic on !!.. "
So your ex was your fwb... |
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Have more than cock. Men must show potential partners how they look as accurately and fully as possible, so that they can take a quick assignment and decision on you. If uncertain, they move on.
Even if they can grasp who you are and how you look, most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. You'll be compatible with a very tiny minority of people. Your expectations need to be realistic, so factor these things in. |
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By *as1 OP Man 13 weeks ago
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"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.
Several of those are bareback pics.
You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.
There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.
FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.
K
I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)
Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …
Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned? it is and she knows that I have that pic on !!..
So your ex was your fwb..."
My ex. THE EX is someone that I used to play with, is some one that I had the couple profile with
We are still friends but we have no benefit anymore … |
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"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.
Several of those are bareback pics.
You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.
There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.
FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.
K
I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)
Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …
Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned? it is and she knows that I have that pic on !!..
So your ex was your fwb..."
You've been given some good advice ... less pics of your ex and cock and more of the whole package you offer. Doesn't mean you have to show your face.
And show your personality in you profile write up and what you bring to the meet other than your cock. |
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Through early morning scrolls I see,
Fabbers that I want, near me,
I send a message out or three,
Why won't they all reply to me?
As Fabicide is painless,
My comments are so brainless,
I've fucked up my chances
wait and see....
So on the forums seek advice,
my comments are at first so nice,
But I'm not liking what you say,
the bareback pics are here to stay...
And fabicide is painless,
I'll double down on this mess,
So all you Karens' now see the real me...
Wow!! 85plus comments and this is what you can up with … just wow
I think your head it’s brainless !! What h what you say or think if you have any neurons to do so
89 comments and you come up with nothing just an offence !!….
"
If your profile is rubbish a great way for people to see beyond it is the way you carry yourself in exchanges and interactions in the Forums.
Well played.
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.
It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”
Exactly this. Bareback as well
Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used
To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.
I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho
The other person is a friend (FWB) and I have her permission to post it
Please….. fuck me I didn’t reliase that this site was full of fucking Karen’s !!!! "
And you ask why your making it hard foe yourself, with comments like this...
People are only answering the questions you asked...
If you don't like the answers don't ask the questions in the first place
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
"
I’ve watched female and couple friends sweep through their messages, they get hundreds a day - yours is an automatic delete without even reading your profile. If they did read your profile…
It would then also be an automatic delete.
Cock pics.
Cock pics
Pictures of your cock in someone
Delete.
Text doesn’t make sense… delete… and dull… delete. What are the two sides to life? Puzzled face.. delete
“I don’t bite… unless you want me to” for fucks sake, so cheesy! Delete
BLOCK.
You are not selling yourself at all, you’re just like 80% of the single male profiles on Fab destined to be deleted regardless of how respectful your message is
Brutal but honest
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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You asked for profile advice and were given it, you may have thought it was harsh but the 100s of advice threads say the same thing. Was there need to insult someone though? |
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I'm a silhouette and a single guy been to one social and due to attend another so watch this space I'm trying to break the stigma on silhouettes. Good day all |
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I wouldn't reply to you personally, cock pic profile pic and several with some random woman's arse (I hope she knows it's plastered on here) is just a huge turn off, yes it's a sex site but there's more to sex than a penis.
At the you are another cock pic in a sea of 1730100 cock pics.
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In the 6 odd years i've been on fab i think i have had 2 meets purely through fab.
Fab really really isnt dial a fuck. Women on here still tend to have standards and preferences, I know shocking but they do. If you dont fit what they are looking for then you are going to be out of luck.
Go to clubs / socials. Widen your social circle and you will increase your chances of meets |
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"I'm a silhouette and a single guy been to one social and due to attend another so watch this space I'm trying to break the stigma on silhouettes. Good day all "
You're a little late to the party but well done for keeping up the good work. |
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"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.
Several of those are bareback pics.
You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.
There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.
FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.
K
I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)
Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …
Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned? it is and she knows that I have that pic on !!..
So your ex was your fwb...
You've been given some good advice ... less pics of your ex and cock and more of the whole package you offer. Doesn't mean you have to show your face.
And show your personality in you profile write up and what you bring to the meet other than your cock. "
Show his personality ??? Is that really good advice |
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Through early morning scrolls I see,
Fabbers that I want, near me,
I send a message out or three,
Why won't they all reply to me?
As Fabicide is painless,
My comments are so brainless,
I've fucked up my chances
wait and see....
So on the forums seek advice,
my comments are at first so nice,
But I'm not liking what you say,
the bareback pics are here to stay...
And fabicide is painless,
I'll double down on this mess,
So all you Karens' now see the real me...
Wow!! 85plus comments and this is what you can up with … just wow
I think your head it’s brainless !! What h what you say or think if you have any neurons to do so
89 comments and you come up with nothing just an offence !!….
If your profile is rubbish a great way for people to see beyond it is the way you carry yourself in exchanges and interactions in the Forums.
Well played.
"
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"I wouldn't reply to you personally, cock pic profile pic and several with some random woman's arse (I hope she knows it's plastered on here) is just a huge turn off, yes it's a sex site but there's more to sex than a penis.
At the you are another cock pic in a sea of 1730100 cock pics.
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Can I send you the 1,730,101st? |
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Through early morning scrolls I see,
Fabbers that I want, near me,
I send a message out or three,
Why won't they all reply to me?
As Fabicide is painless,
My comments are so brainless,
I've fucked up my chances
wait and see....
So on the forums seek advice,
my comments are at first so nice,
But I'm not liking what you say,
the bareback pics are here to stay...
And fabicide is painless,
I'll double down on this mess,
So all you Karens' now see the real me...
Wow!! 85plus comments and this is what you can up with … just wow
I think your head it’s brainless !! What h what you say or think if you have any neurons to do so
89 comments and you come up with nothing just an offence !!….
If your profile is rubbish a great way for people to see beyond it is the way you carry yourself in exchanges and interactions in the Forums.
Well played.
Frothing "
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Through early morning scrolls I see,
Fabbers that I want, near me,
I send a message out or three,
Why won't they all reply to me?
As Fabicide is painless,
My comments are so brainless,
I've fucked up my chances
wait and see....
So on the forums seek advice,
my comments are at first so nice,
But I'm not liking what you say,
the bareback pics are here to stay...
And fabicide is painless,
I'll double down on this mess,
So all you Karens' now see the real me...
"
Probably appropriate homage to the passing of Donald Sutherland.
God I loved mash.
The sex scene in 'Don't look now' was also banging! |
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"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately
I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile
My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?
Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??
Thanks
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Fab isn’t difficult to meet likeminded others if you use it sensibly.
Put the pics of you playing with another woman in to your friends gallery, then upload a couple of pics of you in different ways, not necessarily showing your cock.
Your profile text is unimaginative and can be summarised thus; I’m a single guy looking for fun with single ladies and couples. Big wow, so are all the other single guys in here.
And; 4 weeks isn’t “a while”…….some guys have been in here months before they met anyone. I’ve been using Fab for over 11 years now, and I still give my profile a refresh now and then. Life is fluid, so are online profiles
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Feedback on profile, just cock pics and bare back pics. And profile text basically says I want to fuck anything and everything. I'm no expert but I would say put a bit more into profile, go to socials and get involved in the wider aspects fab is offering. You,me and every single man are at a ratio of 100-1 easily so you have to stand out from crowd. |
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Honestly try been a single bloke and a SSBHM, it's almost double the difficulty.
I like to think my profile is well written and I've got no cock shots on there. Despite all that, it's still a battle, and if I get one message a week, well I'd say I'm lucky . |
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"*checks to see what changes have been made - nods to self.
K
Wait for the new thread in a months time.
“ been here forever and no luck. What am I doing wrong?”"
A month?
You are joking, surely. There is one every few days! |
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You can only do your best OP. Make the profile as good as you can with bio & photos… vary them… and then interact on forums. That’s what I’ve tried to do…and the forums have been welcoming… not anything from them but still good to interact.
I’ve heard socials are good too…yet to visit myself |
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If you're only relying on Fab, then very difficult unless you have an amazing profile and really graft at searching for and messaging suitable women without the soul-crushing feeling that you're being ignored |
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