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Being a little ND, particularly on a sensory level, I see things in aggregate so the first thing I notice is Your face, eyes, hair, makeup, jewellery, fashion, shoes, posture, walk and shape. All in a single impression that I feel more than I see.
This is what the way I hear the world also but it's harder to explain. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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If it’s a random man, eyes, nose, lips/teeth/smile, hands, legs. In that order.
If it’s a random lady, lips, eyes, tits, smile/teeth.
If it’s someone I have been acquainted with somehow, their aura. It’s almost a palpable sensation. |
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I was hoping to find someone on here with the same as me but I like a pretty face and nice skin.. (not just face skin-makeup makes it difficult) the general glow of lovely soft skin…
And I like big boobs to be fair  |
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You know I've never thought about it, in my line of work, I'm usually sitting when guests come in and I'm short and the desk is up high, so usually just see a face, so I'm guessing face (if they have a happy face I know they are nice lol).
Out and about I think probably shoes as I said I'm short, so probably work my way up lol x |
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"In person or on here?
In person I like eye contact, so it’s usually the first thing I notice"
Always look at their eyes first then her body and then her boobs if they are on show. Sometimes though I look at their bum. |
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Her décolletage - when it's not covered up - and I shall explain why: it's like the door to a boudoir, slightly ajar, revealing the subtleties and conveying the mystique to what lies underneath. It's like the dancing shadow cast from the flame of a lit scented candle behind a half-open door, revealing and yet not revealing at the same time.
That's what I notice. |
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"Her décolletage - when it's not covered up - and I shall explain why: it's like the door to a boudoir, slightly ajar, revealing the subtleties and conveying the mystique to what lies underneath. It's like the dancing shadow cast from the flame of a lit scented candle behind a half-open door, revealing and yet not revealing at the same time.
That's what I notice."
I like that Nero, wonderfully written. That's the same essential quality that can get me with eye contact.
And then there's that moment within the dance where it all stops, silent, salient as eyes fully meet; the gap between closes and you realise it is all one thread we weave together. |
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By *eliWoman 22 weeks ago
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There's not one particular feature.
It's more a general sort of first impression and then the more I talk to them, learn them, the more I notice the little things that make them who they are.
Like those little laugh lines around the mouth, the way someone's eyes can twinkle in joy. The furrowed brow of irritation or concentration. That birth mark on someone's face, the little freckles, the signs of a life lived. How their clothes sit.
The energy of a person that makes me think I want to know them. Or not. :D |
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First and most importantly.
What energy do they bring to a room? Does it make me want to stay or leave.
How do they hold themselves amongst a wide variety of society? By that I mean are they genuine with someone who's down on their luck or do they hold themselves as a higher being. If its the latter, I'm not interested.
If they're a decent individual, I'll look to see how they interact with hospitality staff, services providers. Again if they appear aggressive in their demeanor. Not interested.
These are all things we are all capable of processing at incredibly fast speeds. Often without even recognising we do it.
Short answer. First thing I look for, are they a prick.
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"First and most importantly.
What energy do they bring to a room? Does it make me want to stay or leave.
How do they hold themselves amongst a wide variety of society? By that I mean are they genuine with someone who's down on their luck or do they hold themselves as a higher being. If its the latter, I'm not interested.
If they're a decent individual, I'll look to see how they interact with hospitality staff, services providers. Again if they appear aggressive in their demeanor. Not interested.
These are all things we are all capable of processing at incredibly fast speeds. Often without even recognising we do it.
Short answer. First thing I look for, are they a prick.
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Do you notice all this in two seconds of immediately seeing someone? Impressed.
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"First and most importantly.
What energy do they bring to a room? Does it make me want to stay or leave.
How do they hold themselves amongst a wide variety of society? By that I mean are they genuine with someone who's down on their luck or do they hold themselves as a higher being. If its the latter, I'm not interested.
If they're a decent individual, I'll look to see how they interact with hospitality staff, services providers. Again if they appear aggressive in their demeanor. Not interested.
These are all things we are all capable of processing at incredibly fast speeds. Often without even recognising we do it.
Short answer. First thing I look for, are they a prick.
Do you notice all this in two seconds of immediately seeing someone? Impressed.
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He's got Bernard's watch |
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"First and most importantly.
What energy do they bring to a room? Does it make me want to stay or leave.
How do they hold themselves amongst a wide variety of society? By that I mean are they genuine with someone who's down on their luck or do they hold themselves as a higher being. If its the latter, I'm not interested.
If they're a decent individual, I'll look to see how they interact with hospitality staff, services providers. Again if they appear aggressive in their demeanor. Not interested.
These are all things we are all capable of processing at incredibly fast speeds. Often without even recognising we do it.
Short answer. First thing I look for, are they a prick.
Do you notice all this in two seconds of immediately seeing someone? Impressed.
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Years of working in bar gave me the sense of when someone brought a good presence or bad one with them.
I listen to my gut. |
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I must be weird, but there's something no one else has mentioned. It may be me, but the hips, especially curved hips in the right way, are a huge turn on for me. More than breasts, or arse. I've walked past a woman not even noticed her face but been so turned on by the curvature of her hips.
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"Her décolletage - when it's not covered up - and I shall explain why: it's like the door to a boudoir, slightly ajar, revealing the subtleties and conveying the mystique to what lies underneath. It's like the dancing shadow cast from the flame of a lit scented candle behind a half-open door, revealing and yet not revealing at the same time.
That's what I notice.
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I like that Nero, wonderfully written. That's the same essential quality that can get me with eye contact.
And then there's that moment within the dance where it all stops, silent, salient as eyes fully meet; the gap between closes and you realise it is all one thread we weave together."
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Whatever stands out about them.
I like a pretty mouth. I like long musician fingers. I like things that are a little outside the ordinary.
But if someone has piercing light blue eyes, or massive tits, or legs that go for days, I'll probably notice those first. |
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"Whatever stands out about them.
I like a pretty mouth. I like long musician fingers. I like things that are a little outside the ordinary.
But if someone has piercing light blue eyes, or massive tits, or legs that go for days, I'll probably notice those first."
I’ve got blue eyes!!  |
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"Whatever stands out about them.
I like a pretty mouth. I like long musician fingers. I like things that are a little outside the ordinary.
But if someone has piercing light blue eyes, or massive tits, or legs that go for days, I'll probably notice those first.
I’ve got blue eyes!! "
I think I noticed your mouth first. |
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