I was 18, he was 24. Totally different back then was a case of out at weekend and brought people back to ours. He’s not shy so used to organise it all!

Was a lot of fun going that route, they always came back haha!

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By *electableicecreamMan 27 weeks ago

The West

About 18 month's ago. 2yrs out of a 17 relationship and my ex told me she was a unicorn on fab while I was helping set up her tinder account.

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

I was 18 when I discovered alternative lifestyles. I didn’t know the labels associated with what I needed in relationships but I defined it, and articulated what I was willing to give and not in relationships.

I discovered swinging when I was 20 or 21. I don’t consider myself a hardcore swinger but I’ve been in and out of swinging since discovering it.

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By *etmebeinurefantasiesMan 27 weeks ago

witney

Trying to get involved now. Any females or couples want an apprentice?

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By *till gameMan 27 weeks ago

two doors down

20 + years ago, I was 34

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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago

35 and 46

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By *rimson_RoseWoman 27 weeks ago

Tamworth

I was 24.

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By *eah BabyCouple 27 weeks ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

20 something ish when we found ourselves at Hedo, talk about thrown in at the deep end

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By *orphia2003Woman 27 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

BDSM I was 19 or 20

Swinging was 48

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 27 weeks ago

North West

Hmmmm. Definite alternative? We discussed ENM very, very early in our relationship, aged about 19/20 but didn't actually do anything about it until we were in our 30s.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 27 weeks ago

North West

If alternative = BDSM, then that was there from the very start. I was 18, he was a smidge (months) younger.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple 27 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

We dabbled in the early part of our relationship, in our twenties… then rediscovered and jumped right in about 5 years ago.

Mrs TMN x

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By *jj2012Man 27 weeks ago

Barry

19 working in magaluf

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