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Why is being 55+ male on fabs difficult?
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By *ully2 OP Man 21 weeks ago
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As you can guess I'm just over 55 yrs of age, and yet so many ladies ghave a cut off age of 55!!!
Not everyone as a beer belly and no stamina... yes there's most probably better looking younger guys here on fabs but please raise that limit, read the verifications and there maybe some wonderful experiences to be had. |
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I didn't join until I was 52. My age has never been an issue or even a topic of conversation.
It's only an issue if you make it one.
People have age limits for many reasons that don't include stamina or looks so telling anyone to change their preferences to suit you is never a good idea. |
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I can tell you why I have my cut off at 54. I used to have it open to 59, but in my personal experience the worst messages I got were from men 55+. They were explicit and a bit gross and I found them pushy.
(Some of 55+ plus guys were lovely and if I’ve chatted back they can still message)
I’m sure other people have a different experience to me and I am aware I’m making a sweeping generalisation. |
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"65++ and no problems.
It's attitude not age that matters.
^^^^^ good attitude coupled with good communication = 21 veris =no struggles there.
T"
It's the first veri that's the difficult one.
But a wonderful fab angel came to my rescue through a "help a fabber" thread and the rest were just down to a little bit of effort and patience.
Not waving your bits about and being polite also helps, imho |
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"You're just not what some people are looking for. *shrugs* not everyone wants fat greying menopausal women either!"
I concur with that comment 
Fat, menopausal & 56 here. Maybe I should start a thread?  |
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"As you can guess I'm just over 55 yrs of age, and yet so many ladies ghave a cut off age of 55!!!
Not everyone as a beer belly and no stamina... yes there's most probably better looking younger guys here on fabs but please raise that limit, read the verifications and there maybe some wonderful experiences to be had. "
They have their cut off where they want to OP. It’s called a preference  |
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"It’s not difficult.
But interestingly do people ever think that they should raise their age limits by 1 year every year. "
I raise my lower age filter every year but that is so there is always a 10 year buffer between anyone I meet and my kids ages and not related to my age. My upper age filter is irrelevant as I've never been with a woman older than me at any stage in my life. |
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Because being single is different on fab
Some couples hate single males
But it’s down to the choice of single ladies and couples. , can only be polite non pushy.
Know my own limitations, am a polite. Perv. |
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"As you can guess I'm just over 55 yrs of age, and yet so many ladies ghave a cut off age of 55!!!
Not everyone as a beer belly and no stamina... yes there's most probably better looking younger guys here on fabs but please raise that limit, read the verifications and there maybe some wonderful experiences to be had. "
imagine you're 100, that's out of most profiles' age ranges |
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"Why is your upper limit 68? Probably people with cut off of 55 have similar reasons
Maybe he fancies a gummy.  "
I'm knocking on for 68 (how did that happen?). Will I have to have dentures for my birthday?  |
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"Why is your upper limit 68? Probably people with cut off of 55 have similar reasons
Maybe he fancies a gummy.
I'm knocking on for 68 (how did that happen?). Will I have to have dentures for my birthday? "
Well happy birthday.
I remember chatting to you at the Sussex socials (going back at few years).
You are a very attractive lady and definitely do not look your age. |
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By *eah BabyCouple 21 weeks ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Setting an age range cuts down on messages, the single ladies would struggle with the volume received if they set 18 to 99, they would be forever reading mail  We tend to increase our as we age ourselves  |
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Over 50 here. I'm not daft. It's more difficult to get a stiffy, you're less likely to last hours and there's horlicks before bedtime. It's all about preferences. I don't want to get into bed with a 21 year old. Nothing against them, just not my thing.
Expect nothing. Take a chance if it comes |
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By *oxy jWoman 21 weeks ago
somerset |
age has nothing to do with it being a man has everything to do with it...
the vast majority of swingers at a guess is 45 to 65 ...so 55 is smack bang in the average age its deffo not to old so it must be more personal reasons like no ones interested ..yet
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"Why is your upper limit 68? Probably people with cut off of 55 have similar reasons
Maybe he fancies a gummy.
I'm knocking on for 68 (how did that happen?). Will I have to have dentures for my birthday?
Well happy birthday.
I remember chatting to you at the Sussex socials (going back at few years).
You are a very attractive lady and definitely do not look your age. "
We remember you too Mr CG. We often chatted in the pub too.
It's not my birthday for months but I'll thank you for the good wishes and compliments.
I'll keep my teeth in to say it too  |
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"Why is your upper limit 68? Probably people with cut off of 55 have similar reasons
Maybe he fancies a gummy.
I'm knocking on for 68 (how did that happen?). Will I have to have dentures for my birthday?
Well happy birthday.
I remember chatting to you at the Sussex socials (going back at few years).
You are a very attractive lady and definitely do not look your age.
We remember you too Mr CG. We often chatted in the pub too.
It's not my birthday for months but I'll thank you for the good wishes and compliments.
I'll keep my teeth in to say it too "
You can show me those pearly whites anytime |
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Such a huge range of preferences, kinks and fetishes regarding age, age gap, and desire for Cubs, DILFs GILFs, Cougars and Daddies.
Sex often requires a lot of physical effort, by the men especially, so keeping healthy, fit and trim is important as it is for life in general.
Adore older women and find them incredibly sexy and those cougars that fulfill those young men’s fantasies (that I also had as a young’un) should be celebrated. Thank you for your service.
It happens now and again, quite happy for a 20 something bouncing up and down on my cock fulfilling her Daddy fantasies. I’m playing a role and everyone is having fun - I just make sure I’m sucking on a Werthers Original to keep my energy levels up and pray my back doesn’t go whilst admiring the boundless energy of youth…
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By *essTTWoman 21 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"As you can guess I'm just over 55 yrs of age, and yet so many ladies ghave a cut off age of 55!!!
Not everyone as a beer belly and no stamina... yes there's most probably better looking younger guys here on fabs but please raise that limit, read the verifications and there maybe some wonderful experiences to be had. "
Or just respect that people have preferences.
That is always an option  |
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By *essTTWoman 21 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"I was gonna start a thread about why so many straight men on here won’t go gay for the day but decided preferences just about covers that too. "
They only respect preferences when they're their own |
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While now and then, I find that there is someone who would be really interesting and I am outside their limits, generally, I find engaging with people on the fora and at socials will lead to meeting compatible people. |
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By *essTTWoman 21 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"As you can guess I'm just over 55 yrs of age, and yet so many ladies ghave a cut off age of 55!!!
Not everyone as a beer belly and no stamina... yes there's most probably better looking younger guys here on fabs but please raise that limit, read the verifications and there maybe some wonderful experiences to be had. "
Why won't you meet someone 39 or 69? Surely a wonderful experince could be had? |
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"As you can guess I'm just over 55 yrs of age, and yet so many ladies ghave a cut off age of 55!!!
Not everyone as a beer belly and no stamina... yes there's most probably better looking younger guys here on fabs but please raise that limit, read the verifications and there maybe some wonderful experiences to be had. "
maybe raise the age you’re looking for and avoid disappointment there’s plenty of older women on here |
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"As you can guess I'm just over 55 yrs of age, and yet so many ladies ghave a cut off age of 55!!!
Not everyone as a beer belly and no stamina... yes there's most probably better looking younger guys here on fabs but please raise that limit, read the verifications and there maybe some wonderful experiences to be had. "
Manz getting to old innit pops
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"I was gonna start a thread about why so many straight men on here won’t go gay for the day but decided preferences just about covers that too.
They only respect preferences when they're their own "
I head wobble at the hypocrisy of men who complain about getting messaged by gay or bi men on here, but message women regardless of the women’s preferences. Then complain about all of it. |
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"I was gonna start a thread about why so many straight men on here won’t go gay for the day but decided preferences just about covers that too. "
I have a morbid fear of having to admit men suck cock better than women, so please don’t do that….. |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"You're just not what some people are looking for. *shrugs* not everyone wants fat greying menopausal women either!
I concur with that comment
Fat, menopausal & 56 here. Maybe I should start a thread? "
Sounds like a good game.
Hope you're all playing it at home. |
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