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Why are some men so gifted at eating pussy
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I think it’s a mixture of creativity, imagination, enjoyment and wanting to please. And sometimes just unprecedented persistence…..
I’m generally not a completer-finisher, But I make an exception here. |
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I listened to ladies , read and watched lot of lesbian porn , and let a new partner guide me . I love licking pussy and that helps x but not having the most massive cock I wanted to make sure they were satisfied x |
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My verifications will confirm that I am.
It’s a combination of effort and paying attention to what someone likes.
Had a few orgasm directly from it but every woman is different. Some need more or something different.
It’s mostly just being unselfish. I get a kick out of getting someone else off more than myself getting off |
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"My verifications will confirm that I am.
It’s a combination of effort and paying attention to what someone likes.
Had a few orgasm directly from it but every woman is different. Some need more or something different.
It’s mostly just being unselfish. I get a kick out of getting someone else off more than myself getting off"
You know women sometimes lie right? |
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By *unchalMan 21 weeks ago
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"Oh everyone says they are! In reality! Nope!
Camels at a water hole in a dessert!!
Some seriously need to stepup!! "
And now we have the Fab women telling the men that they are deluded and probably all a bit shit. |
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Because they enjoy doing it, they take feedback, they learn your body, listen to the sounds, take notice of the movement the good ones are few and far between.
Some men take a little direction as an insult, some think they know better than you what you like and cary on regardless.
And don't get me started on those that do the A,B,C's with their tongue - I don't know which school friend told you this worked - it doesn't - stop. |
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"My verifications will confirm that I am.
It’s a combination of effort and paying attention to what someone likes.
Had a few orgasm directly from it but every woman is different. Some need more or something different.
It’s mostly just being unselfish. I get a kick out of getting someone else off more than myself getting off
You know women sometimes lie right? "
Yeah of course. I don’t really see the need though. Can’t really see the need though. My ego isn’t that fragile.
Plenty who haven’t cum |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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You know women sometimes lie right? "
Unfortunately sometimes it is required to stretch the truth .... as 'Got to giggle' said being lapped at like a thirsty camel is unpleasant and when he's not listening.... a lady may occasionally fake as then he'll stop ..... although I prefer the ear grab and redirect method  |
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It’s definitely ‘some’ rather than ‘most’, though lots of me say they’re excellent at it.
Those that take their time, put the effort in and read a woman’s body and respond appropriately are the ones that are good at it.
Then there are those that seem more like a dog lapping up water  |
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"Because they enjoy doing it, they take feedback, they learn your body, listen to the sounds, take notice of the movement the good ones are few and far between.
Some men take a little direction as an insult, some think they know better than you what you like and cary on regardless.
And don't get me started on those that do the A,B,C's with their tongue - I don't know which school friend told you this worked - it doesn't - stop."
Bring on the direction…. We’re there for mutual enjoyment right so best to listen to how to get her to the point …  |
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"Because they enjoy doing it, they take feedback, they learn your body, listen to the sounds, take notice of the movement the good ones are few and far between.
Some men take a little direction as an insult, some think they know better than you what you like and cary on regardless.
And don't get me started on those that do the A,B,C's with their tongue - I don't know which school friend told you this worked - it doesn't - stop.
Bring on the direction…. We’re there for mutual enjoyment right so best to listen to how to get her to the point … "
Exactly, although giving direction does seem to blunt some ego's which is super annoying. |
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"Because they enjoy doing it, they take feedback, they learn your body, listen to the sounds, take notice of the movement the good ones are few and far between.
Some men take a little direction as an insult, some think they know better than you what you like and cary on regardless.
And don't get me started on those that do the A,B,C's with their tongue - I don't know which school friend told you this worked - it doesn't - stop.
Bring on the direction…. We’re there for mutual enjoyment right so best to listen to how to get her to the point … "
If I have to tell a guy what to do, I'm already bored. |
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I don’t expect men or women to be psychic… I’m happy to share what feels good and what doesn’t when we’re down to it. Everyone is different.
Some people are very proficient at it though. The last guy I was seeing had me squealing in seconds, even the first time. |
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"Because they enjoy doing it, they take feedback, they learn your body, listen to the sounds, take notice of the movement the good ones are few and far between.
Some men take a little direction as an insult, some think they know better than you what you like and cary on regardless.
And don't get me started on those that do the A,B,C's with their tongue - I don't know which school friend told you this worked - it doesn't - stop.
Bring on the direction…. We’re there for mutual enjoyment right so best to listen to how to get her to the point …
Exactly, although giving direction does seem to blunt some ego's which is super annoying."
I want the lady I'm with to have a good time. If there's a particular technique that gets her off then I want to know about it. |
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Because some blokes actually pay attention to detail , know a woman’s anatomy -
Take your time - don’t go straight for the honey pot - and add a tease element- and give your tongue a good brush beforehand as the eucalyptus from toothpaste 9/10 will work in your favour and make it nice warm and tingly adding another dimension
Oh and it helps if you actually enjoy doing it , not because you think it’s what the participant wants |
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"Why are some men so gifted at eating pussy?
Answers ?"
Well OP, we all have our cross to bear.
I think it also has something to do with not zoning in on "must eat pussy NOW!!".
There are times when it doesn't make any sense, and times when it's adding to what's already built up.
So being in tune with the overall vibe and adapting. |
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"As a general rule those that believe they are fanny licking gods, usually aren't 
I OBJECT
 I feel I touched a nerve there
I am THE TRUE fanny licking god!
You can easily go off someone  "
Have I not mentioned I have a 9.5" tongue? |
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"As a general rule those that believe they are fanny licking gods, usually aren't
I OBJECT
I feel I touched a nerve there
I am THE TRUE fanny licking god!
You can easily go off someone
Have I not mentioned I have a 9.5" tongue? "
And breathe through your ears right?
Yeah… I’m out |
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"As a general rule those that believe they are fanny licking gods, usually aren't
I OBJECT
I feel I touched a nerve there
I am THE TRUE fanny licking god!
You can easily go off someone
Have I not mentioned I have a 9.5" tongue?
And breathe through your ears right?
Yeah… I’m out "
Your loss |
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"As a general rule those that believe they are fanny licking gods, usually aren't
I OBJECT
I feel I touched a nerve there
I am THE TRUE fanny licking god!
You can easily go off someone
Have I not mentioned I have a 9.5" tongue?
And breathe through your ears right?
Yeah… I’m out
Your loss "
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"They listen to the woman they are with to know what she is enjoying or not. "
I think this is the best answer.
Similar to this, imho, it's about caring - caring to listen, caring to notice how she moves, caring to notice the touch she likes, caring to notice when one move has reached it's high and softly flowing to the next touch she responds to.
It's good when she says she's enjoyed time together; better when she wants to meet again; and even better when she requests |
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"Because they enjoy doing it, they take feedback, they learn your body, listen to the sounds, take notice of the movement the good ones are few and far between.
Some men take a little direction as an insult, some think they know better than you what you like and cary on regardless.
And don't get me started on those that do the A,B,C's with their tongue - I don't know which school friend told you this worked - it doesn't - stop.
Bring on the direction…. We’re there for mutual enjoyment right so best to listen to how to get her to the point …
If I have to tell a guy what to do, I'm already bored."
The other side of the coin  |
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"They listen to the woman they are with to know what she is enjoying or not.
I think this is the best answer.
Similar to this, imho, it's about caring - caring to listen, caring to notice how she moves, caring to notice the touch she likes, caring to notice when one move has reached it's high and softly flowing to the next touch she responds to.
It's good when she says she's enjoyed time together; better when she wants to meet again; and even better when she requests "
You can also taste the sweet spots.
Like putting your tongue on a battery you feel it. Stick with that, not overdoing it and pop a finger by the opening and let her move around it.
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"Because some blokes actually pay attention to detail , know a woman’s anatomy -
Take your time - don’t go straight for the honey pot - and add a tease element- and give your tongue a good brush beforehand as the eucalyptus from toothpaste 9/10 will work in your favour and make it nice warm and tingly adding another dimension
Oh and it helps if you actually enjoy doing it , not because you think it’s what the participant wants "
100 percent
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Women can tell, it's almost like they're mind readers and your brain activity can be sensed by her clit. It's freaky |
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*shrug*
I just like doing it. Love doing it, really.
Sometimes I’m a good match for a woman and what she likes, and what gets her off. Sometimes not. Like everything sexual, it’s all about the chemistry. You either fit together well or you don’t. But when you do … my god, it’s good. |
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"'Eating', really?...anyway they are not. And a lot or women hate oral.
Is this true
Well a lot of the women I speak to, get hmmm, how can I put this, bored of it quite quickly, so..."
Them women sound boring as fuck then |
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"'Eating', really?...anyway they are not. And a lot or women hate oral.
Is this true
Well a lot of the women I speak to, get hmmm, how can I put this, bored of it quite quickly, so...
Them women sound boring as fuck then"
Your logic makes complete sense, not |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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It's possible that women don't actually hate it more that they've just had it done badly a lot. Reckon if we're a bit more open on both sides when initially meeting and listen to what works and doesn't then it would make for better long term chemistry and sex. |
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"My verifications will confirm that I am.
It’s a combination of effort and paying attention to what someone likes.
Had a few orgasm directly from it but every woman is different. Some need more or something different.
It’s mostly just being unselfish. I get a kick out of getting someone else off more than myself getting off
You know women sometimes lie right? "
When a woman gushes out a flood, I reckon that's usually a good sign and not a lie |
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"'Eating', really?...anyway they are not. And a lot or women hate oral.
Is this true
Well a lot of the women I speak to, get hmmm, how can I put this, bored of it quite quickly, so..."
totally agree can't say there's been many times I've enjoyed a guy going down on me  |
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I get to know the person first and then have a better idea of their likes and dislikes.
I’m no master but at least by understanding someone’s mind and body you are giving yourself a better chance of success.
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Simple really, just ask her how she likes to be licked
As one lovely lady once told me,” non of that freshly caught fish floundering about on the trawler deck malarky with your tongue
Nice even strokes up and down the inner lips, flicking your tongue inside her,then up and down
Lovely |
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You have to genuinely like it, you can be creative and try many angles and maneuvers but you have to be attentive and be aware to what gets her in the zone. That's key. Once you find it, keep the pressure on that. Also try to be rhythmic whilst doing it. |
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