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Is it me or can other ladies and couple verify ? I would say approx 80% of straight guys who message me are looking for females / couples / and tvs .am I being thick but why not just say they are bi.but they make a big thing about being straight but want to meet a man in knickers.when I politely say no and give my reasons I would say nearly all come back and say it was an error and they cannot change it ..being a female or couple is this true ? As far as I remember you had to tick boxes for what you are looking for when you joined ..and yes I am always polite when I decline ..but have been called some horrible things for saying no thank you |
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"Is it me or can other ladies and couple verify ? I would say approx 80% of straight guys who message me are looking for females / couples / and tvs .am I being thick but why not just say they are bi.but they make a big thing about being straight but want to meet a man in knickers.when I politely say no and give my reasons I would say nearly all come back and say it was an error and they cannot change it ..being a female or couple is this true ? As far as I remember you had to tick boxes for what you are looking for when you joined ..and yes I am always polite when I decline ..but have been called some horrible things for saying no thank you"
nothing normal on here but does seem strange
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"Is it me or can other ladies and couple verify ? I would say approx 80% of straight guys who message me are looking for females / couples / and tvs .am I being thick but why not just say they are bi.but they make a big thing about being straight but want to meet a man in knickers.when I politely say no and give my reasons I would say nearly all come back and say it was an error and they cannot change it ..being a female or couple is this true ? As far as I remember you had to tick boxes for what you are looking for when you joined ..and yes I am always polite when I decline ..but have been called some horrible things for saying no thank younothing normal on here but does seem strange"
someone contacted me only an hour ago I politely said sorry I only meet straight guys then 10 minutes later he messaged back and said I'm straight now .lol
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By *ullyMan 28 weeks ago
Near Clacton |
I posted a similar "poser" on here myself I am a Bi guy unattached but only looking for men really, maybe more it depends, but to the point, nearly every message or wink I get is from "straight" guys, even those that I have had a good time with, call themselves straight as in their profiles. I think it is that it suits their mindset of denial. Mind you some,,,, well one or two over the 14/15 years or so have been good in the sack. |
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People, including sex workers, can have sex with people who they don't find attractive. If you're going on sexuality being defined by finding someone attractive, then it's reasonable to assume that people can be straight and have sex with the same gender.
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"People, including sex workers, can have sex with people who they don't find attractive. If you're going on sexuality being defined by finding someone attractive, then it's reasonable to assume that people can be straight and have sex with the same gender.yes absolutely then surely call themselves bi
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By *hiversMan 28 weeks ago
Dinas Powys |
It's also potentially a shortcoming of the site... lumping TV and TS together isn't really appropriate as they can be quite different. I could understand someone considering themselves largely straight but being attracted to a TS.
But equally, I'm no expert in this area. As far as I'm concerned let people be with whoever they want, labels are irrelevant. |
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Your opinions don't influence how someone defines their sexuality. If they say they are straight and meet trans... Then they are straight, it's not for you to decide.
Curious as to what bothers you so much about meeting a guy that could be bisexual in your eyes? |
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That's why I think the button choice is too limiting, pigeon holes you.
For me I'm attracted to women (shape, form, attitude) not fellas. So if someone who identifies as a woman dressed as a woman, behaves in a similar way but just happens to have male genitalia does that make me bi - I'm not sure as I'm initially un-interested in their genitals it's the person that's hooked me after that I'm unlikely to care as it's the woman in them that's turned me on |
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"That's why I think the button choice is too limiting, pigeon holes you.
For me I'm attracted to women (shape, form, attitude) not fellas. So if someone who identifies as a woman dressed as a woman, behaves in a similar way but just happens to have male genitalia does that make me bi - I'm not sure as I'm initially un-interested in their genitals it's the person that's hooked me after that I'm unlikely to care as it's the woman in them that's turned me on"
People get too hung up on labels. And it bothers some people too much how straight or not someone is which is abit odd imo. But I personally would still consider you straight, as you're attracted to women...albeit some may have a little extra |
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It's a pain for us as we only meet people who are bi and when straight men message and we tell them we only meet bi then they will tell us they are actually bi..
Personally I think they just don't want to elimate any chances they have of actually meeting a women on here
it's quite deceitful and we won't and have turned down people who have straight on their profile due to this reason.. |
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"It's a pain for us as we only meet people who are bi and when straight men message and we tell them we only meet bi then they will tell us they are actually bi..
Personally I think they just don't want to elimate any chances they have of actually meeting a women on here
it's quite deceitful and we won't and have turned down people who have straight on their profile due to this reason.. "
Most of our messages are from guys whose profile states they are straight but say they are actually bi. The give the reason that single women are put off if a guy says they are bi and they don’t wanna reduce their chances.
Doesn’t really bother us what people call themselves as long we are on the same page in what we all want to happen at a meet. |
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"Your opinions don't influence how someone defines their sexuality. If they say they are straight and meet trans... Then they are straight, it's not for you to decide.
Curious as to what bothers you so much about meeting a guy that could be bisexual in your eyes?"
99% probably is they think bi guys are a sexual health risk. Always is primary driver historically |
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