In my world. I've no interest in having sex with everyone I chat to here so the vast majority of meets I've had I've known beforehand it would never go beyond a social and I'm good with that.
Therefore physical attraction is irrelevant and I don't need a pic.
Anyone pushing for a facepic will be told we aren't compatible and they are welcome to move on to someone else. |
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"In my world. I've no interest in having sex with everyone I chat to here so the vast majority of meets I've had I've known beforehand it would never go beyond a social and I'm good with that.
Therefore physical attraction is irrelevant and I don't need a pic.
Anyone pushing for a facepic will be told we aren't compatible and they are welcome to move on to someone else. "
100% agree
I play with those I've met before or newbies only in clubs x |
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"Wanting to see a face pic before a meet.
In what world would anyone meet up with someone before establishing if they like the look of someone?
Near miss me thinks!"
I think it's important to see who I'm talking with, especially if we have built up a rapport. I don't have a pic, so that's when I would send mine. I find it funny when those who don't have a profile pic like myself, demand one immediately!!! |
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Yep dodged a bullet but I always ask for a FaceTime too!!
They get to see I look like my pictures and vice versa also you get a feel for the person.
See if they vibe like their messages.
You also have fake profiles etc and if they won’t FaceTime it’s a red flag to me. |
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By * F 2018Couple 23 weeks ago
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"In my world. I've no interest in having sex with everyone I chat to here so the vast majority of meets I've had I've known beforehand it would never go beyond a social and I'm good with that.
Therefore physical attraction is irrelevant and I don't need a pic.
Anyone pushing for a facepic will be told we aren't compatible and they are welcome to move on to someone else. "
I do like to see who we are chatting to, mainly because of past situations
I read your reply to op twice and wow that's strong as well as your profile to which I got lost . you know what you want ! Not a bad thing .
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Some people don't like to share their faces on sites like this.
Valid in itself. But it's probably better to mention it early on rather than getting close to arranging a meet before telling someone you won't be sending one at all.
Many people do prefer to see a face before arranging a meet. |
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By *oxy jWoman 23 weeks ago
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i have aq very simple rule if you message me you show face pic first if i message you then ill show mine first and withing the first 3 messages or i just block and one less hassle to deal with ..
far far to many playing games the amount of guys that want meets without face pics is shocking proof in fact they will fuck anything ie desperate |
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"Yep dodged a bullet but I always ask for a FaceTime too!!
They get to see I look like my pictures and vice versa also you get a feel for the person.
See if they vibe like their messages.
You also have fake profiles etc and if they won’t FaceTime it’s a red flag to me."
I've said it many times here. I will never facetime or videochat on here for the same reasons I don't share facepics with random strangers.
In all my years here I've never once chatted to a woman who would be comfortable with a videochat and that suits me perfectly.
Those same rules apply to the couples profile that I also have here and anyone pushing for a videochat can move along.
I'm not sure why some see that as a red flag but I'm not really bothered one way or the other.
I've had my facepic shared in chatgroups so I'm not stupid enough to keep feeding the pic collectors. |
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"i have aq very simple rule if you message me you show face pic first if i message you then ill show mine first and withing the first 3 messages or i just block and one less hassle to deal with ..
far far to many playing games the amount of guys that want meets without face pics is shocking proof in fact they will fuck anything ie desperate "
I disagree with your last comment because obviously any woman who is reluctant to send a facepic for privacy reasons must also be desperate or your comment doesn't really carry any weight? |
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"Wanting to see a face pic before a meet.
In what world would anyone meet up with someone before establishing if they like the look of someone?
Near miss me thinks!"
Absolutely mate! Don’t forget to counterblock their profile   |
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Having been on the receiving end of being blocked, no shows or conversations dropping dead after sharing face pics…I totally understand why some one would block when asked to share one and not being ready to. It’s a filter, a protection mechanism, a tool to run your profiles the way you want to.
On the other side of it, maybe they are a fake profile and not the person who they are making out to be and your request triggered them.
Either way I wouldn’t worry about it. Just move on. |
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"Having been on the receiving end of being blocked, no shows or conversations dropping dead after sharing face pics…I totally understand why some one would block when asked to share one and not being ready to. It’s a filter, a protection mechanism, a tool to run your profiles the way you want to.
On the other side of it, maybe they are a fake profile and not the person who they are making out to be and your request triggered them.
Either way I wouldn’t worry about it. Just move on. "
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I’d never meet without a face picture, I don’t even have conversations without them.
If people want to share my pictures in group chats (it’s happened before) then go for it, it doesn’t bother me in the slightest.
But I do not EVER FaceTime. And if someone wants to push the issue I’ll happily just go back to ignoring them |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Did you have plans to meet? Or just chatting?
I talk to people I don't want to meet so I wouldn't send my face pic. If people push me for it , this annoys me. |
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"How do you know who your meeting?
Always baffles me this.
Just stand there looking for a cock, vagina, arse, tits, you recognise  "
If I intended to meet and knew the other person had the same intention then I would swap face pictures first, I don’t dish out pictures just because someone asks. I have also met people who have I’ve been keen to meet because the conversation was flowing and exciting and we forgot to swap face pictures. Because we were clear in our communications right up to minutes before meeting, it just worked out well without the need to swap photos. |
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"Did you have plans to meet? Or just chatting?
I talk to people I don't want to meet so I wouldn't send my face pic. If people push me for it , this annoys me."
This was part of the arrangement, my question to the couple, how will I know what you look like, can I see your faces?
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