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By *bt96 OP Man 23 weeks ago
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Do any single men actually meet anyone on here? Everyone refuses to even reply unless your verified but how am I supposed to get that verification if I can't even get a conversation. Its catch 22
Maybe I just don't know how to make use of the site fully but it seems abit crazy to me I've trued coming back and forth from the site for years now but never any luck. I do always send face pic with message aswell |
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Yup.
Checking through my verifications I see 5 single male accounts I've slept with as a direct result of here. One of those was actually part of a couple at the time, but there's also at least one other that was a single male but has since left the site so it's vanished. I'm not counting any social only or group meets in the count.
So, yes. At least 5 single men have actually had meets since I made this profile.
My previous one was a lot more active  |
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"Sorry I don't understand "your shop window" I would just like to know what people's first steps would be on joining this site as a new member "
Shop window....as in profile.
For me personally I wouldn't respond to a message from you as there is zero on your profile...nothing on it says to me "oh I want to find out more" |
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By *bt96 OP Man 23 weeks ago
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"Yup.
Checking through my verifications I see 5 single male accounts I've slept with as a direct result of here. One of those was actually part of a couple at the time, but there's also at least one other that was a single male but has since left the site so it's vanished. I'm not counting any social only or group meets in the count.
So, yes. At least 5 single men have actually had meets since I made this profile.
My previous one was a lot more active "
So is there any advice you could give me of what I may be doing wrong ? |
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By *bt96 OP Man 23 weeks ago
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"I meet lots of single men, and all my male friends meet successfully on here 
Do your profile and make an effort and stop moaning lol x"
I'm not moaning and this the only response I ever get of people. I genuinely am trying to join the community but finding it hard to get my foot in the door as such |
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"Yup.
Checking through my verifications I see 5 single male accounts I've slept with as a direct result of here. One of those was actually part of a couple at the time, but there's also at least one other that was a single male but has since left the site so it's vanished. I'm not counting any social only or group meets in the count.
So, yes. At least 5 single men have actually had meets since I made this profile.
My previous one was a lot more active
So is there any advice you could give me of what I may be doing wrong ?"
If I get a message from a blank profile it goes straight in the bin. |
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By *zeroMan 23 weeks ago
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"Yup.
Checking through my verifications I see 5 single male accounts I've slept with as a direct result of here. One of those was actually part of a couple at the time, but there's also at least one other that was a single male but has since left the site so it's vanished. I'm not counting any social only or group meets in the count.
So, yes. At least 5 single men have actually had meets since I made this profile.
My previous one was a lot more active
So is there any advice you could give me of what I may be doing wrong ?"
You have no profile pic available to see and zero information on your profile. A little bit about yourself or what your interested in to get your personality across would help.
Also a lot of people tend to use this to keep in regular contact with people. Most of my meets have come from either meeting at people from socials or clubs face to face first rather than sending a message. |
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By *bt96 OP Man 23 weeks ago
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"Yup.
Checking through my verifications I see 5 single male accounts I've slept with as a direct result of here. One of those was actually part of a couple at the time, but there's also at least one other that was a single male but has since left the site so it's vanished. I'm not counting any social only or group meets in the count.
So, yes. At least 5 single men have actually had meets since I made this profile.
My previous one was a lot more active
So is there any advice you could give me of what I may be doing wrong ?
If I get a message from a blank profile it goes straight in the bin."
Suppose it's just hard finding the confidence to get my profile set up how I would like it |
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Yes, my partner met me here 8.5 years ago when he was a single male.
He made an effort with his profile and attended sociaks/clubs too.
Most won't reply to a blank profile o0, I'd have no idea what you're into and offer or what your body type is etc. |
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By *oxy jWoman 23 weeks ago
somerset |
op in general no men do not do ok and theres a very simple reason for that and its the sheer number of men looking for fun with the in compatison very few couples and women .... then add in its not a free for all sex site its swinging and based on attraction and compatibility that alone makes it hard for men ....100 to 1 or maybe alot more depending where you live
add in to that mix not everyone on here plays makes the pool even smaller |
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Fella put a few public photos up.(doesn't have to be cock pics)get yourself to some swinger clubs,a lot of single men come on here thinking they'll get a 'shag'instantly,it doesn't work like that,also I see your looking for female couples,good luck with that.hope this helps   |
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"Yup.
Checking through my verifications I see 5 single male accounts I've slept with as a direct result of here. One of those was actually part of a couple at the time, but there's also at least one other that was a single male but has since left the site so it's vanished. I'm not counting any social only or group meets in the count.
So, yes. At least 5 single men have actually had meets since I made this profile.
My previous one was a lot more active
So is there any advice you could give me of what I may be doing wrong ?
If I get a message from a blank profile it goes straight in the bin.
Suppose it's just hard finding the confidence to get my profile set up how I would like it "
How do you find confidence to meet someone then if you can’t set up your profile. Sounds like an excuse and blaming others for not responding to your blank profile. |
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By *adyhudCouple 23 weeks ago
Barnsley |
Hey
I've had a quick look at your profile and if you messaged, I would just delete.
There's nothing there.
Need some images, a little bio of some kind.
I've also found clubs are a great way to meet some people and get some verifications which go a long way. Xx |
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"So is there any advice you could give me of what I may be doing wrong ?
If I get a message from a blank profile it goes straight in the bin.
Suppose it's just hard finding the confidence to get my profile set up how I would like it "
Lack of confidence is rarely a good selling point |
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"Small question OP.
How do you know when you want to meet someone?
I normally wait until she/they mention it.
I'm shy and don't like to be pushy.  "
That's about saying, not knowing, no?
I suppose I more mean, what makes him want to meet someone in the first place. |
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"Small question OP.
How do you know when you want to meet someone?
I normally wait until she/they mention it.
I'm shy and don't like to be pushy.
That's about saying, not knowing, no?
I suppose I more mean, what makes him want to meet someone in the first place."
For me - when the conversation is getting well and I feel we'd both be comfortable in each other's company. |
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"Small question OP.
How do you know when you want to meet someone?
I normally wait until she/they mention it.
I'm shy and don't like to be pushy.
That's about saying, not knowing, no?
I suppose I more mean, what makes him want to meet someone in the first place.
For me - when the conversation is getting well and I feel we'd both be comfortable in each other's company."
The question is more meant for the OP.
As in, would he see an absolute blank profile and prioritise trying to fuck whoever is behind one of the hundreds of those over the people who show you what they look like and what they like/offer.
Even the women who are only here for convenient penis on a one off basis still usually want to be at least aware of how attractive the penis wielder is to them physically. And if not then it's a matter of timing as there's so many faceless profileless messages coming in constantly that he'd need to be very lucky to hit at exactly the right moment to be at the top when the horn takes them.
The point being that unless his opening messages are a lot more stellar than his profile and post indicate they're likely to be, there's no reason someone would be particularly reactive. |
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Yes I do, not frequently these days if I am honest.
I wouldn't put much time into a bare, unverified profile unless we'd engaged in conversation and it had moved onto telegram or whatever.
I think you are making a rod for your own back with that one. If you are unverified then maybe raise the bar a little. |
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Dear snt96
Your name sounds mysterious and hot. Your photographs look like a Greek god and your profile text it’s just up there with the best, I’m literally man-snailing looking at your profile.
I have no idea why are you are having no luck maybe the site is broken? |
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Hi OP
You need:
- a really good profile
- really good pictures (plenty)
- to read other people’s profile thoroughly
- to go to socials and clubs lots and lots of times
- to be active in the forum
- to update your status each day
- to get veried (cam veried in the chat room will do as a start)
There is a huge amount of advice on the forum. Read it and act on it.
Lots of single men say it’s only possible to be successful if you’re tall, hot and hug but that’s bullshit. I’ve fucked a huge number of single men from Fab and so have my swinging friends. Get a good profile, be nice and chatty and safe and easy and fun and you might do well.
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"Do any single men actually meet anyone on here? Everyone refuses to even reply unless your verified but how am I supposed to get that verification if I can't even get a conversation. Its catch 22"
You need to provide ladies with a reason to reply.
Most will look at a profile before deciding whether to respond.
You have a completely blank profile. Ladies on here tend not to be into blind meets. |
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"I meet lots of single men, and all my male friends meet successfully on here
Do your profile and make an effort and stop moaning lol x
I'm not moaning and this the only response I ever get of people. I genuinely am trying to join the community but finding it hard to get my foot in the door as such "
It doesn’t look like you’re genuinely trying.
You’ve put no effort into your profile at all and wrote a forum thread moaning.
Why would anyone give you the time of day with that profile?
Most women have the same standards in the real world.
You would not expect the women in your life to spend time talking to blank Facebook profiles. So why would we do it on here? |
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There are so many more men on here than women.
Women also get dozens and dozens of messages per day.
When I’m looking at my inbox to decide which messages to even open, those with no profile pictures are the first to be deleted.
You can’t just create a profile with no picture and no text and expect to get laid…unless you’re a woman that is.
Put some effort into your profile and messages and then maybe you will get a reply. |
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By *unchalMan 23 weeks ago
Dartford |
"Do any single men actually meet anyone on here? Everyone refuses to even reply unless your verified but how am I supposed to get that verification if I can't even get a conversation. Its catch 22
Maybe I just don't know how to make use of the site fully but it seems abit crazy to me I've trued coming back and forth from the site for years now but never any luck. I do always send face pic with message aswell "
Are you talking about straight men meeting women? I meet men on here relatively easily apart from all the usual proviso of course. |
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Loads of men meet.
The 1st thing I do when I get a message is check out the profile, yours is empty so no I wouldn't reply.
Effort in = effort out, if you CBA to have a decent profile I assume you CBA in the bedroom either.
Your profile is your shop window & at the moment it's a boarded up shop window.
The whole verification thing is a load of crap, it's easy to get verified go to a local social, a local club or jump on cam and ask someone, again it takes some effort.
Most of the guys moaning on the forums have the same issue in that they haven't made any attempt at all to improve their profile or get verified they expect it magically done for them.
You are a penis in a sea of 10000 penis and you have to stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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I mean I’m not saying I’m hot as I’m not, I don’t even have a huge cock but I know I have a great personality and when I get talking to woman and couples I seem to be ok, ok not going to lie I’ve had more fails then I’d like but that’s life and I’m not sure what my profile says about me but when it comes down to it, you get what you give if that makes sense |
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"Do any single men actually meet anyone on here? Everyone refuses to even reply unless your verified but how am I supposed to get that verification if I can't even get a conversation. Its catch 22
Maybe I just don't know how to make use of the site fully but it seems abit crazy to me I've trued coming back and forth from the site for years now but never any luck. I do always send face pic with message aswell "
Nope never met on my single males account, never ever ever....
Maybe look at how your approaching people, I've personally never had a problem with meeting people feom fab.....so yeah single males do get to meet....
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Success on fab as a single guy is equal in proportion to your level of understanding of how things work and how much effort you put in with that information.
Do your research and your due diligence.
Who do you want to meet and how do you plan to attract them?
There's thousands of threads full of advice if you use the search function. |
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"Do any single men actually meet anyone on here? Everyone refuses to even reply unless your verified but how am I supposed to get that verification if I can't even get a conversation. Its catch 22
Maybe I just don't know how to make use of the site fully but it seems abit crazy to me I've trued coming back and forth from the site for years now but never any luck. I do always send face pic with message aswell "
I meet people regularly, saying that people can see exactly who they're talking to and I have a bio. |
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I’ve met a few single guys on here, some unverified.
Why did I meet them?
Because their profile showed them as a decent human being who didn’t just consider me as a receptacle to fuck, and they probably had a good sense of humour and made me laugh, and maybe they were patient and understood that sometimes things are worth putting some effort into and being patient, or maybe they just had a nice looking cock and a smashing personality that I just wanted to be in the same room as right then.
But that’s just my story, someone else will want something different. |
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I’ve had plenty of success. Just takes patience.
Took me a while and it ebbs and flows such is life. I’ve found being more active and not having the expectation of meeting everyone who messages you. Probably met 1/50 people I’ve spoken to here. |
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