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It always ebbs and flows for content. Your own moods and perceptions play a part as well.
If you're not feeling it or just enjoying them for now, go do something else. They'll still be here if you choose to wander back later ![](/icons/s/2/heart.gif) |
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"It always ebbs and flows for content. Your own moods and perceptions play a part as well.
If you're not feeling it or just enjoying them for now, go do something else. They'll still be here if you choose to wander back later "
I am with this. I do agree with OP that it is, for me, in an ebb phase but others seem to enjoy it so that’s ok. It will come back to stuff I enjoy at some point - it always does. |
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Everyone makes the forums what it is, if there isn't much for you make some or have a little break.
There's quiet and busy periods and there's times when I look and see nothing of interest and other times I do, it's just how it is. |
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"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?
I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.
You mean im not utterly hilarious?! "
I think she misses the funny people who also had pretty penises. |
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"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?
I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.
You mean im not utterly hilarious?! "
I find you a scream ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?
I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.
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I think most of the funny people end up getting banned |
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"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?
I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.
I think most of the funny people end up getting banned "
Yeah, we do ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?
I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.
I think most of the funny people end up getting banned
Yeah, we do "
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"I think she misses the funny people who also had pretty penises."
Hopefully they still have their pretty penises, even if they’ve left the forums. Unless she’s been cutting them off and keeping them. ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed
But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?
I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.
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Errr you’re obviously missing my regular comedy gold!! And my penis is pretty!! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed
But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break "
I get that totally ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?
I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.
You mean im not utterly hilarious?!
I think she misses the funny people who also had pretty penises."
I don't have a penis, pretty or otherwise ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?
I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.
You mean im not utterly hilarious?!
I find you a scream "
Aah thanks ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed
But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break "
Me too ....... but only recently. Never for years |
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There are 35 threads on page one of the lounge.
Some are more than a day old.
I've opened 3 of them and this is the second one I have contributed to but the first today.
I don't think they are any worse than they have been.
In fact I would go so far as to say they are better in some ways when certain celebs aren't posting/trolling/whining/stirring. |
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"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed
But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break "
^ This last bit ... I don't come in the forums often but when I do there can sometimes be characters who are a tad intimidating, so I just leave and find a thread that I feel more comfortable in. The forums are what you make them, I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?
I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.
Talk about making a pop at everyone here "
It's not my fault they aren't funny. |
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"Genuine question, we would see the odd one we would not bother reading. Now it’s the odd one we read"
Post more interesting threads then. You've only posted 5 out of the 35 your most recently engaged in.
It's all subjective anyway. I wouldn't have found some of the threads you created as worth reading and I'm sure you wouldn't mine, had I actually started some recently
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"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed
But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break "
Currently with one of your favourite leavers, Red ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *oxy jWoman 35 weeks ago
somerset |
its change ever other post now is wank / tribute / foreskin or no foreskin / penis size / whu cant i get a meet ..so its deffo changed very few couples now post it fact i think very few swingers now post ..
the lounge is not being used as should or designed for ie the non sexual stuff
advice forum is now a place where you go to see who you can block as its full of people who cannot do a simple this is me profile if they cant do that then what hope do they have on this scene...
stupid games everywhere
and lastly more wank and wankers wanking wanks everywhere
to alot its about porn /wank not swinging so yes the forums have changed ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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There are a lot more posts I avoid than contribute now - some people/discussions just make my eyes roll/bleed.
But they are easily ignored.
If I cared enough, I’d create threads of interest, instead of creating a thread to moan about the lack of interesting threads.
Sometimes a thread draws you back in and spawns many threads from it. Obviously one tit/one bollock/one toe type threads are cutting edge
K |
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This is a genuine response too.
I feel I can't really comment on the content so much, when I very rarely create a thread. I'm just too lazy to commit to maintaining it. Well that's not entirely fair, my life is quite active at the moment and one minute I have time the next minute I don't. I am quite appreciative of those who put the effort in, even if it's not always content that instantly appeals to me.
If there's content you wish there was more of that option is always there to create it yourself? |
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"There are a lot more posts I avoid than contribute now - some people/discussions just make my eyes roll/bleed.
But they are easily ignored.
If I cared enough, I’d create threads of interest, instead of creating a thread to moan about the lack of interesting threads.
Sometimes a thread draws you back in and spawns many threads from it. Obviously one tit/one bollock/one toe type threads are cutting edge
K"
The 1 Tit was a work of art, more threads please
Mrs |
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By *LiamMan 35 weeks ago
Midlands |
"Genuine question, we would see the odd one we would not bother reading. Now it’s the odd one we read" no. Been seeing this for years. They are what you make them. Same as everything in life
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"Sorry didn’t realise we were all here for your entertainment.
I’ll try better.
The mr "
Yes you’re definitely off-form lately, are you Ill ? Relationship issues? Please try harder , we want our £5 worth…. ![](/icons/rainbow.png) |
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"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed
But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break
Currently with one of your favourite leavers, Red "
Aw, is it Jim? Please tell me its Jim ![](/icons/s/2/heart.gif) |
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By *eah BabyCouple 35 weeks ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
We tend to dip in and out of the forum as it can be a bit blah at times, definitely think they used to be more fun than now, I’d love to come on here for a good old belly laugh which I don’t seem to come across these days, people just seem a bit more uptight, unhappy and complain quite a bit but I’m forever hopeful of a bit of humour and laughter, sorry if this offends |
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"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed
But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break
Currently with one of your favourite leavers, Red
Aw, is it Jim? Please tell me its Jim "
I mean, I'm not with him now, so many hours later. But yes. EJ. We had lunch and coffee and whatnot. |
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"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed
But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break
Currently with one of your favourite leavers, Red
Aw, is it Jim? Please tell me its Jim
I mean, I'm not with him now, so many hours later. But yes. EJ. We had lunch and coffee and whatnot. "
Aah, lovely. I miss him xx |
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"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed
But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break
Currently with one of your favourite leavers, Red
Aw, is it Jim? Please tell me its Jim
I mean, I'm not with him now, so many hours later. But yes. EJ. We had lunch and coffee and whatnot.
Aah, lovely. I miss him xx"
There's so many folk who seemed to get the mass heave ho! A few years ago... Tis what it is, and mostly it's just a perm forum ban... The forums are pretty dire anyway. Soo you know ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"They are very repetitive at the moment...same posters/similar topics.
Newbies still get torn to shreds on most which is quite sad to see which puts a lot off from contributing further x"
It’s been like that for years, in fairness… |
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"They are very repetitive at the moment...same posters/similar topics.
Newbies still get torn to shreds on most which is quite sad to see which puts a lot off from contributing further x
It’s been like that for years, in fairness…"
That's true |
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By *eliWoman 35 weeks ago
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"I'm going to go and do a moany thread.
Power of suggestion n all that. I'm highly suggestible. What can I say"
Love it Granny. Please also make sure you include some stock phrases, they really make my year. |
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By *agatoXXXMan 35 weeks ago
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"Yes!
I’ve done a “send boobs” post and I think it’s the first time nobody has sent boobs!
The decline is terminal!
Footballs on, what do you expect? "
Nobody in Scotland is watching. Have they not sent any? |
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"Yes!
I’ve done a “send boobs” post and I think it’s the first time nobody has sent boobs!
The decline is terminal!
Footballs on, what do you expect?
Nobody in Scotland is watching. Have they not sent any?"
The Scots have let me down… |
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By *agatoXXXMan 35 weeks ago
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"Yes!
I’ve done a “send boobs” post and I think it’s the first time nobody has sent boobs!
The decline is terminal!
Footballs on, what do you expect?
Nobody in Scotland is watching. Have they not sent any?
The Scots have let me down… "
And I have no boobs to send. |
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"Yes!
I’ve done a “send boobs” post and I think it’s the first time nobody has sent boobs!
The decline is terminal!
Footballs on, what do you expect?
Nobody in Scotland is watching. Have they not sent any?
The Scots have let me down… "
They let EVERYONE down ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *ony MannMan 35 weeks ago
Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Andover |
I do recall help and hits, they are still seem to be here, but not some many discussions as there use to be.
There are alot more show us your pics threads, not so many that get me thinking about offering coffee to someone |
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By *agatoXXXMan 35 weeks ago
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"I think they have become quite insular
I won't use the C Word
It's overworked
I do, however, see many valid comments ignored whilst trivial comments from others are jumped on with gusto"
I don't like that word either, and I see it being used in a childish way, as though they had just learned, and use it purely for shock value. It's not clever. |
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"I think they have become quite insular
I won't use the C Word
It's overworked
I do, however, see many valid comments ignored whilst trivial comments from others are jumped on with gusto
I don't like that word either, and I see it being used in a childish way, as though they had just learned, and use it purely for shock value. It's not clever." I'm not sure if you are talking about the same C bomb ... |
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