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Did you get better with age?
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I think I've remained more or less the same.
I look old, I have looked young.
I have become more mature and I thank god for that! There's something a little off putting to me when people make a virtue from remaining immature their entire life |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"I've always been happy with my look and body.
I just wish I had the make up application skills that I have now back when I was younger.
I just wish I had make up skills.  "
& definitely this 
zero make-up skills |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Well I'm not old but I'm a hell of a lot more confident of myself and how I look than I used to be, still a long way to go but I'm getting there, hitting the gym will help I'm sure. |
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Oooohhh..a bit more nuanced for me I think (maybe everyone?).
I've "suited" my look 3-6, 15-19, 23-27, 40-45, 48-50, 57 onwards.
I've suited my mind 3-6, 40 onwards.
Both things probably come together as the overall package, both self-view and how others view.
Not sure if that helps your original question, but it's all I've got OP. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 16 weeks ago
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"I've always been happy with my look and body.
I just wish I had the make up application skills that I have now back when I was younger.
I just wish I had make up skills.
& definitely this
zero make-up skills"
Sigh, amen sister.  |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 16 weeks ago
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Have I got better with age...
Let's see, if I were to shed my fem persona, don my usual jeans, boots and t-shirt, and my big old 1960s-issue army greatcoat, and go and sit on a park bench, or grassy bank... I'd look like Aqualung (of the Jethro Tull song).
When I was 22, at university, I was doing just that one day, when some friends espied me from afar - and accused me of looking like Aqualung! To be fair, I was eyeing little girls (well, first year students) with bad intent...
So from this we can deduce that, at best I've not got better with age. In reality, I'm now grey and bald except for my straggly long hair at the back, and my teeth are definitely worse. So I've probably got worse.
Here endeth the reflection.
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I definitely looked much better/ slimmer when I was younger...I just didn't appreciate it and didn't really make the most of what I had. I've learnt how to do that now so although I'm not as attractive physically as I was, I make more of what I've got, and I've learnt what suits me and what doesn't if that makes sense? |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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".. as per title.
Do you think you've grown into a look, or where you gifted enough to always be at the forefront of fashion, style and beauty?
I've definitely got better with age."
Men do girls don't |
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Fashion, style and beauty I don't really care for.
I dress how I want, I'm not a trend follower I've no desire to be cool.
I don't know if I've got better with age but I've got better with not trying to fit in & not caring. |
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Apart from by the obvious aging I haven't changed much. My clothes are much the same (I have suits and shoes that I bought in my twenties - lapels a bit wider than fashionable now but just try and get that cloth these days!
My leisure activity is the same; my first sex with a girl was joining a friend and his sister (very naughty but we were young), so a threesome and I have been swinging ever since.
Getting better? Always good? |
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"No I used to be cool, now I’m a mess who looks homeless most days.
The mr
Ahaha! I'm ahead - I ALWAYS looked like a homeless mess...  "
Trump you both. I have been homeless.
Never a mess tbh.
Although occasionally stinky. |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"I've always been happy with my look and body.
I just wish I had the make up application skills that I have now back when I was younger.
I just wish I had make up skills.
& definitely this
zero make-up skills
Sigh, amen sister. "
Not to worry sis. since it's the inner beauty that counts. Looks can come and go but the heart stays pure... |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 16 weeks ago
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"No I used to be cool, now I’m a mess who looks homeless most days.
The mr
Ahaha! I'm ahead - I ALWAYS looked like a homeless mess...
Trump you both. I have been homeless.
Never a mess tbh.
Although occasionally stinky."
You be Stinky, I'll be The Brain. |
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Apart from by the obvious aging I haven't changed much. My clothes are much the same (I have suits and shoes that I bought in my twenties - lapels a bit wider than fashionable now but just try and get that cloth these days!
My leisure activity is the same; my first sex with a girl was joining a friend and his sister (very naughty but we were young), so a threesome and I have been swinging ever since.
Getting better? Always good? |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 16 weeks ago
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"I've always been happy with my look and body.
I just wish I had the make up application skills that I have now back when I was younger.
I just wish I had make up skills.
& definitely this
zero make-up skills
Sigh, amen sister.
Not to worry sis. since it's the inner beauty that counts. Looks can come and go but the heart stays pure..."
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"No I used to be cool, now I’m a mess who looks homeless most days.
The mr
Ahaha! I'm ahead - I ALWAYS looked like a homeless mess...
Trump you both. I have been homeless.
Never a mess tbh.
Although occasionally stinky.
You be Stinky, I'll be The Brain."
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I’m comfortable in my own skin but it’s crap getting old!
Need little blue pills to get hard, stamina is rubbish and I rarely cum. When I do it’s a teaspoonful. Few years ago I had a glass cutter erection that lasted hours, would keep going for hours and cum in buckets.
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I don’t know if I’ve gotten better at anything or within myself. Makeup skills are pretty reasonable. I wear what’s comfy and suits me which as it turns out can still sit in that femmy queer space without going all TV about it. But 50 years old and fem gay is a pretty dire place to be. Something went terribly wrong. I blame additives in food. Brexit didn’t turn me masc which was a disappointment. Still can’t cook. What a time to be alive. |
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Fashion has never been something I'm bothered about. I've learned to know what clothes suit my shape, whereas I was clueless in my youth.
As for beauty... I've lost the puppyfat moonface and have cheekbones now. That's probably the only improvement |
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I think so. More solid. Look better. Fit as I've ever been, although knees are gone. Can still turn heads. Told I look ten years younger.
Too bad there's no one here to appreciate it, and hasn't been for a long time, my BP's stuffed, my PSA too high, on TRT, and I'm broke as a church rat. I could have been good but once you peak it's a quick way down. |
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By *mooth8Man 16 weeks ago
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Well ive looked at a few of the posters pics and can say i dont know what you looked like years back but you look pretty damn good now!
I'm not sure if I like myself more now but I'm happier that I'm confident in knowing and looking for what I want and not what other people want. |
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Definitely happier with my body and looks now. I used to go to the gym a lot, but I found that I was always hunting for more muscles. 5 years ago I swapped to endurance sports instead (ironman triathlon). I lost some muscle mass, but I'm a lot fitter and happier with the 'new me'. |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Most definitely, I am a better person now than I was in my twenties. Life has taught me some valuable lessons.
( I did have some great fun in my twenties though ) |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"I think I've remained more or less the same.
I look old, I have looked young.
I have become more mature and I thank god for that! There's something a little off putting to me when people make a virtue from remaining immature their entire life"
Uh oh. Think I may have been reprimanded (if the hat fits and all that)! |
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Up until being 50, yes
The last 3 years have taken their toll both physically and emotionally however
I've aged all of a sudden.
I now look my age.
I have changed emotionally too
I am harder in general and quite dismissive of people
I stress about the smallest of inconvenience and my anxiety levels have no apparent ceiling
Overthinking is my new hobby |
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Nope, while I've never been pretty I was much more attractive at 20 than I am at 50.
I've grown comfortable with my looks though (bar the menopausal acne which I devoutly hope will clear up once I'm through it). Not quite the same thing but I no longer feel the discontent I felt in my 20s and 30s, wanting to change, wanting to be different. |
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By *ANDA!Man 12 weeks ago
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As I've got older I've began to give less of a shit what others think. Haircut that wouldn't be out of place on Peaky Blinders, kinda long greying beard, wearer of comic or sci-fi related shirts and rarely seen wearing anything other than jeans and brightly coloured trainers.
If people dont like it, don't look |
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My skin is better
My figure is better
I’ve learned to work with my face
I’ve learned the clothing styles that suit me best
I know what and who I like
I have more wisdom (not that it stops my pulling a Misty each and every day)
I’m enjoying life - which i suspect is the defining thing.
And most of all. I give zero shits about what anyone else thinks about the above |
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"My skin is better
My figure is better
I’ve learned to work with my face
I’ve learned the clothing styles that suit me best
I know what and who I like
I have more wisdom (not that it stops my pulling a Misty each and every day)
I’m enjoying life - which i suspect is the defining thing.
And most of all. I give zero shits about what anyone else thinks about the above "
Copy /paste... Plus add sorting out my crazy hair! |
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