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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Yes.
I am super up front with men I want to fuck.
When I find a woman hot I just get tongue tied and panic  "
Yes hahaa! I just go all coy and smile like a shy 5 year old  |
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"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women
Yep, me too
Get a room you two  "
Don’t be a spoil sport Paul lol, let them carry on, I was enjoying the flirty exchange between them lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women
Yep, me too "
Me three. I turn into a gritty schoolgirl who has never even been kissed.
I cringe at the sight of what I must look like trying to flirt with a woman. |
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In the real world I'm not very good at flirting with anyone 
On here I can just about flirt with men, to a degree. With women, I think I just come across like the annoying one in the ladies on a night out, that just won't piss off and shut up  |
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"In the real world I'm not very good at flirting with anyone
On here I can just about flirt with men, to a degree. With women, I think I just come across like the annoying one in the ladies on a night out, that just won't piss off and shut up "
I like those ones, it's usually me |
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"In the real world I'm not very good at flirting with anyone
On here I can just about flirt with men, to a degree. With women, I think I just come across like the annoying one in the ladies on a night out, that just won't piss off and shut up
I like those ones, it's usually me "
It's always me |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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I keep it very real and open with all females , cut all pretence and sarcasm etc until I know them better (still have a laugh) . Respect both parts of a couple but perhaps it’s an inbuilt nod to us both knowing all the unwritten rules and associated crap females generally have imposed on them socially .
Or maybe I just like birds lol
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 30 weeks ago
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Actually, I flirt like a wanton hussy here. Put me in a real life situation, and I won't do anything - too worried I'm imposing myself on someone and coming off as a dick.
I'd be such a disappointment if I ever went to a social.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"With this knowledge we, women, would be a right group together in the same room trying to flirt with one another.
I'm surprised any women ever get it on with other women, based on this "
For me, there’s a difference between flirting with just any women and those women that I know are bi/gay. The latter, I have no problem. Otherwise, I stumble and trip over my own two feet and do wonder how I manage to end up with women full stop. |
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"Actually, I flirt like a wanton hussy here. Put me in a real life situation, and I won't do anything - too worried I'm imposing myself on someone and coming off as a dick.
I'd be such a disappointment if I ever went to a social. "
I'm certain you wouldn't, but also, this is me too
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"I don't flirt with either sex "
This is so me, I’m the worst flirt in the world and have no idea when someone might be flirting with me. To me knowledge no one has ever done it in the wild  |
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I think there's a different way society views bisexuality in different genders. It's about being open and exploding for women, and for many men it's shameful and full of the need to keep it hidden.
So I think for men they get more to the point when flirting and it's less of a romantic or intimate endeavor. |
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"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women
Yep, me too
Me three. I turn into a gritty schoolgirl who has never even been kissed.
I cringe at the sight of what I must look like trying to flirt with a woman. "
You're all women, you must know how you want to be approached/seduced. I can't believe you can be worse than us guys. You have a distinct advantage here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women
Yep, me too
Me three. I turn into a gritty schoolgirl who has never even been kissed.
I cringe at the sight of what I must look like trying to flirt with a woman.
You're all women, you must know how you want to be approached/seduced. I can't believe you can be worse than us guys. You have a distinct advantage here "
Ironically, we aren’t a carbon copy of one another. I may like to be approached and seduced in a completely different way than the next lady, etc. Individualistic and all that.  |
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"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women
Yep, me too
Me three. I turn into a gritty schoolgirl who has never even been kissed.
I cringe at the sight of what I must look like trying to flirt with a woman.
You're all women, you must know how you want to be approached/seduced. I can't believe you can be worse than us guys. You have a distinct advantage here
Ironically, we aren’t a carbon copy of one another. I may like to be approached and seduced in a completely different way than the next lady, etc. Individualistic and all that. "
Strange isn’t it? |
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"Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.
This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame
Some do "
They notice and don't flirt back or they flirt and I don't notice?
This is a minefield ughhh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women
Yep, me too
Me three. I turn into a gritty schoolgirl who has never even been kissed.
I cringe at the sight of what I must look like trying to flirt with a woman.
You're all women, you must know how you want to be approached/seduced. I can't believe you can be worse than us guys. You have a distinct advantage here
Ironically, we aren’t a carbon copy of one another. I may like to be approached and seduced in a completely different way than the next lady, etc. Individualistic and all that.
Strange isn’t it? "
Unthinkable! |
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"Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.
This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame
Some do
They notice and don't flirt back or they flirt and I don't notice?
This is a minefield ughhh"
On fab just use
And if you really mean it
* secret code |
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"I don't know how to flirt with either so I'm equally useless
I just chat and wait hoping someone I like makes the first move "
This is me also
I find it hard to read people if they like me or not  |
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"With this knowledge we, women, would be a right group together in the same room trying to flirt with one another. "
Where can I sign up
Terrible at flirting with the men folk, god help me with the ladies |
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"Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.
This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame
Some do
They notice and don't flirt back or they flirt and I don't notice?
This is a minefield ughhh
On fab just use
And if you really mean it
* secret code "
Five fluttery eyelashes....got it |
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By *eliWoman 30 weeks ago
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Yes. Well, I don't think I flirt really. But let's pretend I do. I don't know, with men it's a different style? Women it's more friendly and silly. Until I realise that there's mutual attraction.
There are a couple of women who give me bi-panic. One I'm seeing next weekend - she's adorable and so smart. And cute and a great kisser and we can spend ages kissing and then it's interspersed with giggles because she'll break off and say how beautiful I am. Which really brings out the bi-panic.
I want to learn how to flirt with anyone. Everyone. Should make that a resolution. |
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"Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.
This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame
Some do
They notice and don't flirt back or they flirt and I don't notice?
This is a minefield ughhh
On fab just use
And if you really mean it
* secret code "
Cheat codes |
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"Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.
This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame
Some do
They notice and don't flirt back or they flirt and I don't notice?
This is a minefield ughhh
On fab just use
And if you really mean it
* secret code
Cheat codes "
Sowwy. There’s nobody else here though… it’s still a secret  |
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It used to be awful when we started this account and having to watch C flirt with women on chat
In the end I had to check things before she sent anything
Now, she flirts more with women than men - she said she finds it much easier with women now and harder with men!…
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"It used to be awful when we started this account and having to watch C flirt with women on chat
In the end I had to check things before she sent anything
Now, she flirts more with women than men - she said she finds it much easier with women now and harder with men!…
K"
Sorry, this tickled me
I've got these "checking homework" type vibes |
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Went out with a guy several months ago. Quiet pub, quiet bar, no one else around.
Chatted about this and that, normal stuff. Had a little kiss near the end.
Next day, he said he didn't feel the vibe on the date. I said no worries and thank you. We're still friends and chat sometimes.
But in my head, I was thinking, "Date ? Was this meant to be a date ? I thought it was just a guy chat in a pub."
I had no idea it was a "date" as such.
Then again, I am not a "flirter" with men or women. It's not part of my vocabulary or in my comfort zone. But I certainly didn't expect I should "flirt" with a guy.
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