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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Small talk oils the wheels of communication I think.
yes have to break the ice iget that but, say it as it is life is to short to chat about the weather x"
But we're British, we always chat about the weather (and we queue) |
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"Small talk oils the wheels of communication I think.
yes have to break the ice iget that but, say it as it is life is to short to chat about the weather x"
Can you give me examples of saying it as it is? |
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"I really prefer a few 'how are yous?' and 'terrible weathers ' before we get down to the north gritty"
Girl let me feel the raindrops falling down all over my love
I want it soakin' wet all over the bed I want the rain to come
Let me feel the raindrops falling down all over my love
I want it soakin' wet all over the bed I want the rain to come
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"Small talk oils the wheels of communication I think.
yes have to break the ice iget that but, say it as it is life is to short to chat about the weather x
But we're British, we always chat about the weather (and we queue)"
Can you kill two birds with one stone? Queue, but also use the opportunity to line up a shag with the person in front? "Nice arse" usually does it, right? |
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"Small talk oils the wheels of communication I think.
This… and good communication leads to many things  "
I think you need to build up, it's establishing trust a bit like an animal circling it's prey  |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Guess it depends on what you mean by small talk?
I like to chat to people and don't really go straight into the sex chat if that's what you mean, so I think I disagree! It's not an ick for me."
By small talk I merely meant the small talk akin to that forced on you say when you’re at the hairdressers or the nail salon. That’s the shit I can’t do.
Small talk in here is not the same. |
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By *jj2012 OP Man 30 weeks ago
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"I really prefer a few 'how are yous?' and 'terrible weathers ' before we get down to the north gritty"
I get you, I guess if the small talk has a bit of banter and a bit conversation it makes the difference x
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"I really prefer a few 'how are yous?' and 'terrible weathers ' before we get down to the north gritty
Girl let me feel the raindrops falling down all over my love
I want it soakin' wet all over the bed I want the rain to come
Let me feel the raindrops falling down all over my love
I want it soakin' wet all over the bed I want the rain to come
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well that would certainly get a weather conversation going |
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"Guess it depends on what you mean by small talk?
I like to chat to people and don't really go straight into the sex chat if that's what you mean, so I think I disagree! It's not an ick for me.
By small talk I merely meant the small talk akin to that forced on you say when you’re at the hairdressers or the nail salon. That’s the shit I can’t do.
Small talk in here is not the same."
Oh yep, I don't chat to my hairdresser! I assumed the OP meant here...
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Guess it depends on what you mean by small talk?
I like to chat to people and don't really go straight into the sex chat if that's what you mean, so I think I disagree! It's not an ick for me.
By small talk I merely meant the small talk akin to that forced on you say when you’re at the hairdressers or the nail salon. That’s the shit I can’t do.
Small talk in here is not the same.
Oh yep, I don't chat to my hairdresser! I assumed the OP meant here...
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I’m assuming he meant here too! I’m just saying the differences in small talk types.
Don’t think OP wants to stick his dick in his hairdresser.  |
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"Guess it depends on what you mean by small talk?
I like to chat to people and don't really go straight into the sex chat if that's what you mean, so I think I disagree! It's not an ick for me.
By small talk I merely meant the small talk akin to that forced on you say when you’re at the hairdressers or the nail salon. That’s the shit I can’t do.
Small talk in here is not the same.
Oh yep, I don't chat to my hairdresser! I assumed the OP meant here...
I’m assuming he meant here too! I’m just saying the differences in small talk types.
Don’t think OP wants to stick his dick in his hairdresser. "
Hey, let's not pre-judge...
"Short back and sides, please, and a quick bunk-up for a tip..." |
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By *jj2012 OP Man 30 weeks ago
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It's obviously nice to be nice and definitely not about going straight into the naughty stuff but definitely not about 20 messages with the hey/hi ect ect aa can go on for week's, it's good to know if have the same intentions from early on as time is valuable so getting to the point is best for both partys early on I say x |
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By *jj2012 OP Man 30 weeks ago
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"Small talk oils the wheels of communication I think.
yes have to break the ice iget that but, say it as it is life is to short to chat about the weather x
Can you give me examples of saying it as it is? "
so reading someone's profile, looking at there pictures and saying hey hope your good I've read profile and your pictures are great, how are you finding it on here and what you looking for on here x |
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"Small talk oils the wheels of communication I think.
yes have to break the ice iget that but, say it as it is life is to short to chat about the weather x
Can you give me examples of saying it as it is? so reading someone's profile, looking at there pictures and saying hey hope your good I've read profile and your pictures are great, how are you finding it on here and what you looking for on here x"
That’s the very small talk that you claim you don't want to get involved with though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Hey, let's not pre-judge...
"Short back and sides, please, and a quick bunk-up for a tip...""
I can’t win with you. x
If he wants quickie with his hairdresser I hope he gets it and it’s good. I only meant I wasn’t assuming he was on about his hairdresser and sex in his OP. x |
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By *jj2012 OP Man 30 weeks ago
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"I'm not a fan of small talk, I'd rather talk about things sincerely.
But that doesn't mean I'm going to jump straight into sex - I just don't like formulaic platitudes "
that's my perception too x |
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Hey, let's not pre-judge...
"Short back and sides, please, and a quick bunk-up for a tip..."
I can’t win with you. x
If he wants quickie with his hairdresser I hope he gets it and it’s good. I only meant I wasn’t assuming he was on about his hairdresser and sex in his OP. x "
Haha, I know. I was only joking! I needed a bigger smiley emoji or something!
I wonder if this exchange counts as small talk...
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By *arl17Man 30 weeks ago
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"Small talk oils the wheels of communication I think.
yes have to break the ice iget that but, say it as it is life is to short to chat about the weather x
Can you give me examples of saying it as it is? "
No example... Just wondering where the bush is? |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Hey, let's not pre-judge...
"Short back and sides, please, and a quick bunk-up for a tip..."
I can’t win with you. x
If he wants quickie with his hairdresser I hope he gets it and it’s good. I only meant I wasn’t assuming he was on about his hairdresser and sex in his OP. x
Haha, I know. I was only joking! I needed a bigger smiley emoji or something!
I wonder if this exchange counts as small talk...
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No, it would be small talk if I asked you where you’ve recently found the most scrumptious almon croissants. |
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By *jj2012 OP Man 30 weeks ago
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Hey, let's not pre-judge...
"Short back and sides, please, and a quick bunk-up for a tip..."
I can’t win with you. x
If he wants quickie with his hairdresser I hope he gets it and it’s good. I only meant I wasn’t assuming he was on about his hairdresser and sex in his OP. x
Haha, I know. I was only joking! I needed a bigger smiley emoji or something!
I wonder if this exchange counts as small talk...
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Hey, let's not pre-judge...
"Short back and sides, please, and a quick bunk-up for a tip..."
I can’t win with you. x
If he wants quickie with his hairdresser I hope he gets it and it’s good. I only meant I wasn’t assuming he was on about his hairdresser and sex in his OP. x
Haha, I know. I was only joking! I needed a bigger smiley emoji or something!
I wonder if this exchange counts as small talk...
No, it would be small talk if I asked you where you’ve recently found the most scrumptious almon croissants. "
Now we're talking...! How could chat about croissants give anyone the ick?!?! |
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By *jj2012 OP Man 30 weeks ago
Barry |
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Hey, let's not pre-judge...
"Short back and sides, please, and a quick bunk-up for a tip..."
I can’t win with you. x
If he wants quickie with his hairdresser I hope he gets it and it’s good. I only meant I wasn’t assuming he was on about his hairdresser and sex in his OP. x
Haha, I know. I was only joking! I needed a bigger smiley emoji or something!
I wonder if this exchange counts as small talk...
No, it would be small talk if I asked you where you’ve recently found the most scrumptious almon croissants. "
Just out of curiosity where are the croissants lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Hey, let's not pre-judge...
"Short back and sides, please, and a quick bunk-up for a tip..."
I can’t win with you. x
If he wants quickie with his hairdresser I hope he gets it and it’s good. I only meant I wasn’t assuming he was on about his hairdresser and sex in his OP. x
Haha, I know. I was only joking! I needed a bigger smiley emoji or something!
I wonder if this exchange counts as small talk...
No, it would be small talk if I asked you where you’ve recently found the most scrumptious almon croissants. Just out of curiosity where are the croissants lol x"
Ask YOLO, I reckon he keeps a list. |
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I will chat to people about anything and everything!! Yes we are all on fab because we like sex, but for me it’s not ALL about sex!! It’s making new naughty friends, and I am unlikely to want to get kinky with someone who I can’t chat to! |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"Who rather straight talk rather than beating around the bush no pun intended  "
I’ll talk to anyone. Straight talk or small talk.
Im getting used to simple talk though thanks to social media (with basic simple dry replies) so that help.  |
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I don't talk about sex with anyone I'm not already having sex with so if they aren't capable of having a conversation that doesn't involve sex we won't be compatible end of.
Small talk is a great filter. |
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By *eliWoman 30 weeks ago
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Yeah... I don't want just sex talk because I'm not here for just sex.
Equally I don't want months of "Hey, how are you? Good thanks, how are you?". I want something that I can sink my teeth in to, that makes me want to reply, find out more about you. Not constantly exchanging the briefest, most tedious of polite sentences.
There's got to be a happy medium. Well, I know there is one. |
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By *ustBoWoman 30 weeks ago
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I like someone who can hold a conversation with me on here. Call that small talk or whatever you like.
Those who want sex talk all the time bore the crap out of me and are usually the ones who are just looking wank material and are also the ones who are more likely not to show up for a meet.
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Sounds like some people don't like to participate in the art of conversation, which I think is essential before I decide I want to meet someone... There has to be chemistry and you know when you know. |
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Too much small talk irritates me, I know a little needs to be done.
By straight talk if you are meaning sexual talk immediately then no that's an even bigger turn off, nothing worse than some bloke that hasn't even seen my face describing what he wants to do to me  |
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It gives me a huge "ick" when you are chatting to someone and all they talk about is what they wanna do to you, everything that comes out their mouth is something sex related.
Or am I getting the impression this is what you want op?:
Hi, wanna bang?
Yes
Meet me here
Ok
You meet less than 2 hours later, you bang and then you are on your way? |
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