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definition of a time waster????
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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my lovely single mate thinks a time waster is someone who doesnt give her what she wants!!! they can even turn up and still be a time waster under that definition lol xxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell her to get a grip!
A TW is someone who fails to turn up at the agreed time/place withouth any notification, for no valid reason except he/she has changed his/her mind at the last minute.
Or those who agree to have more than one meet at the same time, and pick and choose what they percieved as the best offer, and drop the others as if they are hot potatoes without so much as a sorry!
Or prick/fanny-teasers who pretend they are interested, and then drop the bombshell when asked to fix a time/date to meet, and say they are only kidding, and not really ready to meet etc...
That's what I can think of so far  |
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By *im53Man
over a year ago
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Tell her to get a grip!
A TW is someone who fails to turn up at the agreed time/place withouth any notification, for no valid reason except he/she has changed his/her mind at the last minute.
Or those who agree to have more than one meet at the same time, and pick and choose what they percieved as the best offer, and drop the others as if they are hot potatoes without so much as a sorry!
Or prick/fanny-teasers who pretend they are interested, and then drop the bombshell when asked to fix a time/date to meet, and say they are only kidding, and not really ready to meet etc...
That's what I can think of so far "
fully agree with you there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i sort of started it tongue in cheek as per my mates quote - it just seems to me that the label is used too othen and is attibuted to widely 
having said that i give it to anyone who cancels at the last minute leaving us high and dry - i dont mind anything else as it happens  |
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Tell her to get a grip!
A TW is someone who fails to turn up at the agreed time/place withouth any notification, for no valid reason except he/she has changed his/her mind at the last minute.
Or those who agree to have more than one meet at the same time, and pick and choose what they percieved as the best offer, and drop the others as if they are hot potatoes without so much as a sorry!
Or prick/fanny-teasers who pretend they are interested, and then drop the bombshell when asked to fix a time/date to meet, and say they are only kidding, and not really ready to meet etc...
That's what I can think of so far
fully agree with you there "
Me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could also add to that those that pretend to meet your profile, say all the right things even when you meet face to face but when it comes down to playing suddenly they dont like anything 'wierd'...but still expect a shag lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my lovely single mate thinks a time waster is someone who doesnt give her what she wants!!! lol xxxxxxx"
I laughed outloud at the above.....
bless her wee cotton socks.. maybe she didn't turn the other party on.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could also add to that those that pretend to meet your profile, say all the right things even when you meet face to face but when it comes down to playing suddenly they dont like anything 'wierd'...but still expect a shag lol!"
nah, that's just a selfish lying twat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not sure if I would consider those who "think" they are ready for NSA fun, then find they are not during or after the meet as TWs.
The notion of NSA fun is not to everyone's taste, and peeps won't know if it is for them or not until they try IMHO |
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"I am not sure if I would consider those who "think" they are ready for NSA fun, then find they are not during or after the meet as TWs.
The notion of NSA fun is not to everyone's taste, and peeps won't know if it is for them or not until they try IMHO "
Thats true, and we also meet people for a no pressure drink to see if we get along and many times don't fancy them and hence don't play but we're always dead honest and up front about it! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not sure if I would consider those who "think" they are ready for NSA fun, then find they are not during or after the meet as TWs.
The notion of NSA fun is not to everyone's taste, and peeps won't know if it is for them or not until they try IMHO
Thats true, and we also meet people for a no pressure drink to see if we get along and many times don't fancy them and hence don't play but we're always dead honest and up front about it! Z"
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If I cancel a meet, I do so with as much advance notice as possible.
I apologised to a potential playmate that I was due to meet this weekend, cancelled the meet due to ill health a few days ago, then accepted another meet this morning from someone else when I was feeling better.
I should have contacted my original date to give him the first refusal and I did not, and felt bad about it. So I told him what happened and apologised instead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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your all timewasters
I been sat here, pants round my ankles... pointing north ...
and no one jumped on and bounced....
give me strength .......
pulls pants up and away to get ice cream..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your all timewasters
I been sat here, pants round my ankles... pointing north ...
and no one jumped on and bounced....
give me strength .......
pulls pants up and away to get ice cream..... "
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I have been busy! Can't do that many things at the same time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your all timewasters
I been sat here, pants round my ankles... pointing north ...
and no one jumped on and bounced....
give me strength .......
pulls pants up and away to get ice cream.....
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I have been busy! Can't do that many things at the same time! "
let you off xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You could also add to that those that pretend to meet your profile, say all the right things even when you meet face to face but when it comes down to playing suddenly they dont like anything 'wierd'...but still expect a shag lol!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Timewaster also include the majority of people who contact us wanting to meet and when we say yes it's the last we hear from them.
Single males who contact us even though our profile says we are not looking for single males
It all takes time to deal with |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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Timewasters are those couples who send us winks, friends invites and never a decent message. Who are over 50, overweight, bald and live 4 hours away.
If they READ our profile . . . . !!
Anyway, we appreciate all the great guys and couples we HAve met and don't take it to heart.
Happy xmas everyone.
Hugs
Jane x |
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"Timewasters are those couples who send us winks, friends invites and never a decent message. Who are over 50, overweight, bald and live 4 hours away.
If they READ our profile . . . . !!
Anyway, we appreciate all the great guys and couples we HAve met and don't take it to heart.
Happy xmas everyone.
Hugs
Jane x"
Surely they're just wasting their own time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a few guys contact me and after about 2 days have stopped talking. I make it clear on my profile that I dont meet straight away and even then maybe just for a coffee. What it gives me is an indication of whether I would be bothered to make an effort to meet them. I love banter and to me thats half of the fun in meeting. You can learn an awful lot about people in their responses to your emails.
However each to their own. If I wanted a quick meet I would just myself up the the calendar and my expectations would be completey different as there would be no way of getting to know someone in advance.
If I was stood up I would be grateful as it would have meant he was a crap shag anyway and thats why he didnt come |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's another TW: said he would ring in 10min, that's about 1h ago!
Text again and no reply, so I shall do other things instead! "
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The said gentleman did text and apologise, and he had a valid reason for the delay  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me a time waster is someone who dont turn up when arranged or keep cancelling meets repeatedly, as people with familys etc is acceptable to have to cancel every now and again because we never know whats going to turn up with kids, work etc but those who do it on a regular basis are just pissing about in my opinion, i dont class people who you chat to but never arrange a meet with as time wasters, im happy to chat to anyone if it comes to nothing so be it, till they have agreed to meet me they have made no commitment to me there for have not wasted my time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people didn’t have any time to waste then nobody would be logged in to this site, some people just take things far to seriously "
Sorry to here you think being on the site is a waste of your time, for us it is never that, we get to chat to new people and old friends, read interesting views of others, find out what's going on in the scene, make new friends and much more.
Do we take it seriously, your dead right we do, I don't have sex with anyone without giving it serious consideration |
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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago
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Tell her to get a grip!
A TW is someone who fails to turn up at the agreed time/place withouth any notification, for no valid reason except he/she has changed his/her mind at the last minute.
Or those who agree to have more than one meet at the same time, and pick and choose what they percieved as the best offer, and drop the others as if they are hot potatoes without so much as a sorry!
Or prick/fanny-teasers who pretend they are interested, and then drop the bombshell when asked to fix a time/date to meet, and say they are only kidding, and not really ready to meet etc...
That's what I can think of so far
fully agree with you there
Me too."
and me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If people didn’t have any time to waste then nobody would be logged in to this site, some people just take things far to seriously
Sorry to here you think being on the site is a waste of your time, for us it is never that, we get to chat to new people and old friends, read interesting views of others, find out what's going on in the scene, make new friends and much more.
Do we take it seriously, your dead right we do, I don't have sex with anyone without giving it serious consideration "
Hence the at the end, but since you never picked up on that, then it was just a humorous attempt at trying to say that some people confuse passing time with wasting time.
So none of us would be logged in if we never had the time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell her to get a grip!
A TW is someone who fails to turn up at the agreed time/place withouth any notification, for no valid reason except he/she has changed his/her mind at the last minute.
Or those who agree to have more than one meet at the same time, and pick and choose what they percieved as the best offer, and drop the others as if they are hot potatoes without so much as a sorry!
Or prick/fanny-teasers who pretend they are interested, and then drop the bombshell when asked to fix a time/date to meet, and say they are only kidding, and not really ready to meet etc...
That's what I can think of so far "
What you said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"your all timewasters
I been sat here, pants round my ankles... pointing north ...
and no one jumped on and bounced....
give me strength .......
pulls pants up and away to get ice cream..... "
honest to god im still giggling at that one lol  |
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