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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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Do you fancy anyone?
No names obviously but... do you?
Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?
I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions? |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Ah this is depressing.
Yes. Yes I do fancy a couple of people.
Do they fancy me? Maybe one does. The rest do not. Sigh.
I’m obvious when I fancy people yeah. I think they should know. But if I wanted them to know I would tell them with words rather than hoping they get the hint.
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I do fancy people, I fancy some for their looks, some for their personality and some for simply being beautiful people.
I know that in the main that fancying is unrequited but flirty friendships are there and that’s ok with me.  |
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"Do you fancy anyone?
No names obviously but... do you?
Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?
I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"
I have a few ladies I fancy at the moment …. Just not reciprocated unfortunately  |
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I have a hankering for someone (not sure that's a better word than fancy or not, will test it out for a while).
I doubt they have a hankering for me back.
I might make it a tiny bit obvious but not too much  |
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I fancy some someones. I always do. I think falling in love or lust a little bit every single day is an essential, exciting part of being alive.
But that’s just me.
I don’t hide it. I think half the forum can tell when I fancy someone. |
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"Do you fancy anyone?
No names obviously but... do you?
Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?
I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"
Yes I do and yes they do, I make it quite obvious when I do.
There are a few which I find myself drawn to but not going out on a limb yet (forumites) and off forum there’s a potential |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"Ah this is depressing.
Yes. Yes I do fancy a couple of people.
Do they fancy me? Maybe one does. The rest do not. Sigh.
I’m obvious when I fancy people yeah. I think they should know. But if I wanted them to know I would tell them with words rather than hoping they get the hint.
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Wait why is this depressing? Nooooo this is meant to be a cute, happy thread where people can share their happy.
Yeah, it's better for people to make it clear (if they want to) rather than hints. I don't think we (a general we) pick up on hints too well. |
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"I fancy some someones. I always do. I think falling in love or lust a little bit every single day is an essential, exciting part of being alive.
But that’s just me."
I agree |
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"I actually do you know and think it's reciprocated.
I don't know if I'm obvious but I don't try to hide it.
Yay Em! Love this for you, hope you keep an empty laundry basket next. "
One could only dream of such a thing Meli |
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By *.T.Man 24 weeks ago
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I'm in the unrequited club...
Apart from the obvious geography limitations that typically hamper things, I have reached out to her in the past, but haven't manage to tickle her pickle.
I shall continue to admire from afar as I know when not to push.
Fancy? yep.
Admire? 100%
Want to do things with her? Both in and out of the bedroom.
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"There are a few I'm physically drawn to.
I don't know if they know it.
In my mind I've been obvious. But then again I could be a million miles away."
Yeah that's true. Being direct... some people excel at it, others perhaps beat around the proverbial bush a tad. I'd like to think you have been though. |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"I have a hankering for someone (not sure that's a better word than fancy or not, will test it out for a while).
I doubt they have a hankering for me back.
I might make it a tiny bit obvious but not too much "
Hankering makes me think of food. A particular type of food. My fiancé was shocked I'd not heard of this advert so made me watch this hank Marvin advert. 
Why do you doubt it? They've given no indication or you're a bit hard on yourself? |
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Yeah, theres lots i fancy, tbh fab is like a sweet shop to a kid. So much choice but can only manage 1.2, maybe 3 sweets at a time. Does anyone fancy me well I have been verified a few times, so I guess so. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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I adore a few women.
I genuinely fancy someone, and have for a while.
I seriously have the hots for a sexy woman and I have proper got a crush on a third.
So yeh, 3 women are on my mind. |
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By *nnCeeWoman 24 weeks ago
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There's a few people I'd like to get to know better, yes.
There's one person I know likes me, who is awesome, but I don't feel the same way about them and that makes me sad cos I think things would be electric with them, but you can't make your heart feel things it doesn't want to.
I'm not good at hiding how I feel, especially in person. So if I fancy someone most people would be able to tell! Not sure how much that translates onto the forum though.
I'd rather someone tell me outright if they fancied me. I'm not good at reading signs! If it wasn't reciprocated, I would try to let them down gently, I don't think I'm a meanie. |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"I fancy some someones. I always do. I think falling in love or lust a little bit every single day is an essential, exciting part of being alive."
This is so beautifully put. See, more posts like this, from your big brain? It would be glorious. I know you're not keen on Hozier but there's a song called Someone New which perfectly describes that feeling. I adore the rush of feeling alive I get from it.
"I don’t hide it. I think half the forum can tell when I fancy someone."
Not in the slightest Rosie, you're very subtle.
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"Yes, I do. AND I believe it's reciprocated.  That's my face when I receive a message because I have the self-possession of an excited puppy.
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This is so cute and I can see your face doing exactly that. It's nice to lean in to the happiness of a crush/fancy and I love seeing my friends  happy. |
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Not so much on the forums. A few that I find attractive might not do it for me with their negative outlook or posts. Usually the ones I find firing my rockets in threads aren't my type, plus I live miles away from anyone, plus loads more. So there really is no point getting too excited. I do well enough without needing the love of the fora folk. That said there are a few lovely people who I chat to and should the opportunity arise, I would meet up with. |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"There are a few people who are giving us fanny flutters and cock twinges yes.
We are chatting and hopefully they’ll progress into more  
K"
Yay K! I hope they're feeding your voicenote kink and it does progress, x |
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"I have a hankering for someone (not sure that's a better word than fancy or not, will test it out for a while).
I doubt they have a hankering for me back.
I might make it a tiny bit obvious but not too much
Hankering makes me think of food. A particular type of food. My fiancé was shocked I'd not heard of this advert so made me watch this hank Marvin advert.
Why do you doubt it? They've given no indication or you're a bit hard on yourself?"
True! But I say "fancy" with food aswell. I fancy a pizza right now.
Been small indications they might do but who the fuck really knows wihh this place
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"Attracted to a few.
Fancy a handful
And for one or two it's a bit more than fancying.
But each one brightens my day one way or another 
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I just re read and that last sentence made me gag a little but I'm keeping it there for comedic value |
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"There are a few people who are giving us fanny flutters and cock twinges yes.
We are chatting and hopefully they’ll progress into more
K
Yay K! I hope they're feeding your voicenote kink and it does progress, x"
The kink is just for you and your voice - still waiting on your BJ voice note
This isn’t faux flirting - This is real  |
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"There are a few I'm physically drawn to.
I don't know if they know it.
In my mind I've been obvious. But then again I could be a million miles away.
Yeah that's true. Being direct... some people excel at it, others perhaps beat around the proverbial bush a tad. I'd like to think you have been though. "
It's a fine balance between confident/arrogance and subtle. I tend to try to remain subtle.
I don't believe I'm anything special so I don't force myself upon others. However, I'm here and open to conversation, if they chose to make a connection. |
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Not really, I haven't met anyone for ages.... Months! Not even anyone local to crush on... Hoping to change that going forward from this month. So keep fingers crossed for me, I need a little bit of joy in my life |
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"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited
 Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?"
It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited
Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?
It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling "
I’m needing help with rsd |
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"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited
Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?
It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling
I’m needing help with rsd "
Occupational therapy and ADHD focused CBT, look into it Pickle |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited
Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?
It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling
I’m needing help with rsd
Occupational therapy and ADHD focused CBT, look into it Pickle "
If I ever get my diagnosis. but doing cbt soon hopefully for my terribly negative thoughts about myself |
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"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited
Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?
It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling
I’m needing help with rsd
Occupational therapy and ADHD focused CBT, look into it Pickle
If I ever get my diagnosis. but doing cbt soon hopefully for my terribly negative thoughts about myself "
The CBT should really help darling. It certainly helped me. Sending kisses |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited
Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?
It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling
I’m needing help with rsd
Occupational therapy and ADHD focused CBT, look into it Pickle
If I ever get my diagnosis. but doing cbt soon hopefully for my terribly negative thoughts about myself
The CBT should really help darling. It certainly helped me. Sending kisses "
I am not willing to pay for private anymore so I’ll just take what I get. 
But the positive reviews make me optimistic |
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"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited
Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?
It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling
I’m needing help with rsd
Occupational therapy and ADHD focused CBT, look into it Pickle
If I ever get my diagnosis. but doing cbt soon hopefully for my terribly negative thoughts about myself
The CBT should really help darling. It certainly helped me. Sending kisses
I am not willing to pay for private anymore so I’ll just take what I get.
But the positive reviews make me optimistic "
got you a bit of advice on your DMs |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?
I delight in ...
I’m fond of…
I’m bedazzled by…
I’m charmed by…
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I quite like I'm fond of. And also if someone says they're intoxicated by me. Oh, also bewitched. Bedazzled makes me think of Liz Hurley which isn't a bad thing. |
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"Do you fancy anyone?
No names obviously but... do you?
Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?
I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"
There's one or two. Definitely the odd one reciprocated. And I'm obvious as fuck, but only when I want to be |
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I am slightly infatuated by someone at present. I'm trying not to be but you know when someone just does everything for you. They don't know and I'm not sure I want to be rejected so keeping it to myself at mo. |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"There's a few people I'd like to get to know better, yes.
There's one person I know likes me, who is awesome, but I don't feel the same way about them and that makes me sad cos I think things would be electric with them, but you can't make your heart feel things it doesn't want to.
I'm not good at hiding how I feel, especially in person. So if I fancy someone most people would be able to tell! Not sure how much that translates onto the forum though.
I'd rather someone tell me outright if they fancied me. I'm not good at reading signs! If it wasn't reciprocated, I would try to let them down gently, I don't think I'm a meanie. "
No you can't sadly. It's either there or it isn't, well at least the potential is.
You're not a meanie clearly; you want to let people down and don't like the thought of hurting them. That's really sweet, x |
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"Do you fancy anyone?
No names obviously but... do you?
Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?
I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"
I'm not very subtle |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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I fancy pouncing on someone.
I am gitty like a schoolgirl with every exchange with someone.
I visualise someone naked and rubbing their body against mine, their lips pressed against mine, their scent flooding my olfactory nerves and dancing in delight. The thought and mental imagery of this makes me moist at times.
Do they know? I can be overtly direct and obvious. I don’t do good dancing around the bush. Bold and in your face at some point is my style. I doubt they have to question whether I am besotted or not.  |
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By *nnCeeWoman 24 weeks ago
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"There's a few people I'd like to get to know better, yes.
There's one person I know likes me, who is awesome, but I don't feel the same way about them and that makes me sad cos I think things would be electric with them, but you can't make your heart feel things it doesn't want to.
I'm not good at hiding how I feel, especially in person. So if I fancy someone most people would be able to tell! Not sure how much that translates onto the forum though.
I'd rather someone tell me outright if they fancied me. I'm not good at reading signs! If it wasn't reciprocated, I would try to let them down gently, I don't think I'm a meanie.
No you can't sadly. It's either there or it isn't, well at least the potential is.
You're not a meanie clearly; you want to let people down and don't like the thought of hurting them. That's really sweet, x"
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By *nnCeeWoman 24 weeks ago
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"Do you fancy anyone?
No names obviously but... do you?
Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?
I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?
I'm not very subtle "
How could you be, with that appendage  |
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"Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?"
I know I flirt widely on these here forums, but I hope that when I really, really want to get together with someone they know it from our chats in private.
If I’m asking to see you, that’s a pretty heavy hint. |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"I fancy a few people, I’ve a crush on a couple of folks and I’m interested in a few.
I don’t hold with this Highlander approach "
What's the Highlander approach? Generational reference difference. |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"I fancy pouncing on someone.
I am giddy like a schoolgirl with every exchange with someone."
Yes! Giddy. What a perfect word. I'm prone to being a bit giddy. A bit soft and easily excitable and walking around with a smile on my face. I hope that continues for you Bella, x
"I visualise someone naked and rubbing their body against mine, their lips pressed against mine, their scent flooding my olfactory nerves and dancing in delight. The thought and mental imagery of this makes me moist at times. "
I was talking about this earlier with a very dear hobbit friend. You know, about being craved, desired fiercely. When the thought of them ignites a physical response, when it's a Pavlovian reaction to reading them, their name, hearing their voice... I truly adore that energy.
"Do they know? I can be overtly direct and obvious. I don’t do good dancing around the bush. Bold and in your face at some point is my style. I doubt they have to question whether I am besotted or not. "
And again with besotted. The lexicon.  Yes, bold and direct is how I imagine you, that's very much a compliment. |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"What's the Highlander approach? Generational reference difference.
“There can be only one.”
(Watch Highlander, Meli. It’s an all-timer.)"
Because it's you telling me to, I'll briefly consider it for a few minutes before deciding against it. |
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"What's the Highlander approach? Generational reference difference.
“There can be only one.”
(Watch Highlander, Meli. It’s an all-timer.)
Because it's you telling me to, I'll briefly consider it for a few minutes before deciding against it."
You'll enjoy it. You like that fantasy shit. |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"What's the Highlander approach? Generational reference difference.
“There can be only one.”
(Watch Highlander, Meli. It’s an all-timer.)
Because it's you telling me to, I'll briefly consider it for a few minutes before deciding against it.
You'll enjoy it. You like that fantasy epicness."
I do JP, really touched you remembered. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"I fancy someone who I know likes me, but I'm not his type.
Does that matter? If he likes you, he likes you. Why does type come in to it?"
See. I can get this. I've turned down or just generally been a dick with guys before where I don't meet their previous types. |
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"I fancy someone who I know likes me, but I'm not his type.
Does that matter? If he likes you, he likes you. Why does type come in to it?"
By saying "I'm not his type" your entering a self cancelling culture. Where you believe he wouldn't look twice at you based on his past.
What if he's doing the same? |
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By *RWoodyCouple 24 weeks ago
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I think the term 'fancy' fits perfectly Meli, to me it makes it sound like a flirty attraction, far removed from an emotional connection.
Right now, yes I'd say I fancy a couple of people.
Mrs J xx |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"I think the term 'fancy' fits perfectly Meli, to me it makes it sound like a flirty attraction, far removed from an emotional connection.
Right now, yes I'd say I fancy a couple of people.
Mrs J xx"
Ah that's true. Fancy makes sense when applied in a more swinging context, more lust based.
For me, fancy isn't quite an accurate description. A crush? But then that has a slightly... daft and silly connotation.
Anyway, yay to you fancying people! |
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"Do you fancy anyone?
No names obviously but... do you?
Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?
I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"
Yes I do - a few people. In all but one case - no they don't. In one case the one time we met so far ended with her instigating kissing. Am I obvious? Depends on the situation I suppose. Not being obvious enough has cost me in the past so normally no, I'm not.
As for an alternative to 'fancy', how about 'Is there anyone who stirs your soul into an upheaval at the moment?' That's the source of all great literature - an upheaved soul. |
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"Do you fancy anyone? "
No.
"No names obviously but... do you?"
Still no.
"Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone? "
N/A
"I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"
Are you attracted to someone?
Do you want to jump someone's bones? |
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By *eli OP Woman 24 weeks ago
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"Yes I do - a few people. In all but one case - no they don't. In one case the one time we met so far ended with her instigating kissing. Am I obvious? Depends on the situation I suppose. Not being obvious enough has cost me in the past so normally no, I'm not.
As for an alternative to 'fancy', how about 'Is there anyone who stirs your soul into an upheaval at the moment?' That's the source of all great literature - an upheaved soul."
Oh O-F, I hope you find more confidence in yourself to be a bit more... obvious and go for it.
Stirs your soul in to an upheaval... I like it but it sounds tad brutal if that makes sense? Perhaps not in a fun way. I don't think I want anyone to ever upheaval my soul. :D |
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By *batMan 24 weeks ago
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Yes! and Yes!
Fancy can be replaced with desire.
BUT .... see my recent post in the lounge that says more about similar. I'm either grinning like a Cheshire Cat or trying to stifle tears.
Gbat
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"Yes I do - a few people. In all but one case - no they don't. In one case the one time we met so far ended with her instigating kissing. Am I obvious? Depends on the situation I suppose. Not being obvious enough has cost me in the past so normally no, I'm not.
As for an alternative to 'fancy', how about 'Is there anyone who stirs your soul into an upheaval at the moment?' That's the source of all great literature - an upheaved soul.
Oh O-F, I hope you find more confidence in yourself to be a bit more... obvious and go for it.
Stirs your soul in to an upheaval... I like it but it sounds tad brutal if that makes sense? Perhaps not in a fun way. I don't think I want anyone to ever upheaval my soul. :D"
Thank-you Meli. Sadly at my age I doubt any great personality change is going to happen, however much I might wish it.
I was quoting Robert Benchley in the wonderful film Mr Parker and the Vicious Circle which stars Jennifer Jason Leigh as Dorothy Parker. I couldn't think of anything original. I'm such a charlatan.
Lovely new profile pic by the way Meli. |
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"Do you fancy anyone?
No names obviously but... do you?
Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?
I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"
Yes
Yes
Maybe. No
Desire
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Yep. She’s one of my best friends and I can never tell her how I truly feel.
We’ve recently discussed how she’d like another baby, but she doesn’t want to date anyone and a bring a man into her children’s lives… so I half jokingly offered and she thanked me for the offer and kissed my cheek, but we’ve not spoken about it since |
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By *otSoPoshWoman 22 weeks ago
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I currently have a yen and a yearning for someone. And a desire for someone. An attraction to someone as well. Two of them know, I assume... if they don't by now I'm going to have to invest in flipping skywriters... and the third probably has an inkling but it's really just a fun flirtatious friendship and I can't imagine the attraction is reciprocal or requited, which is absolutely fine as I like us as we are. If that makes any sense. |
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"I currently have a yen and a yearning for someone. And a desire for someone. An attraction to someone as well. Two of them know, I assume... if they don't by now I'm going to have to invest in flipping skywriters... and the third probably has an inkling but it's really just a fun flirtatious friendship and I can't imagine the attraction is reciprocal or requited, which is absolutely fine as I like us as we are. If that makes any sense. "
Sky writers aren’t cheap |
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"Do you fancy anyone?
No names obviously but... do you?
Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?
I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?
I'm not very subtle
How could you be, with that appendage "
Lol well it's not always out |
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I don’t.
I spent the last 7 days virtually on the other side of the world, and more than once I was very tempted to delete my account.
I think Fab has served its purpose for me. I have had the most electric and thrilling experiences with the most incredible people. But I have also experienced deep heartbreak and I wonder if the highs are worth the deep lows I get into.
Sex drive is gone -for now- … the joys of menopause I guess- so didn’t delete my account but I think I will just stick around for the forum and the attention I get, haha.
Lol, such an essay to answer such a simple question.
No, I don’t fancy anyone right now.
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By *eli OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Yes, I rather do. It does feel reciprocated. Exciting isn't it!
J
I'm glad this thread was revived. I can come back and say it was reciprocated.
J"
Yay Julie! This makes me so incredibly happy for you. I'm really happy about the bump as well. |
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By *eli OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"Meli
I am intrigued by (and still trying to get a measure of) a forumite who I had not noticed until recently "
So, two weeks later... have you got the measure of the forumite? Intrigued is such a good word. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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I believe there’s someone for everyone to feel attracted to in some way, shape or form here.
If you haven’t found them yet, you will!
My positivity for the day is now done
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I'm keeping this to FABWorld rather than Big World.
Do you fancy anyone?
Yeah, about a dozen "a bit", a few who might become people to meet over the coming years, and one who I'd really like to become a regular lover next year.
No names obviously but... do you?
Honestly Meli - there's a thin line between tautology and rhetoric. I just answered you!
Do they fancy you?
The dozen, a bit; the few, a bit more; the one, more than a bit more.
Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?
Not on the threads - I'll make that clear on private message.
I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?
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"I don’t.
I spent the last 7 days virtually on the other side of the world, and more than once I was very tempted to delete my account.
I think Fab has served its purpose for me. I have had the most electric and thrilling experiences with the most incredible people. But I have also experienced deep heartbreak and I wonder if the highs are worth the deep lows I get into.
Sex drive is gone -for now- … the joys of menopause I guess- so didn’t delete my account but I think I will just stick around for the forum and the attention I get, haha.
Lol, such an essay to answer such a simple question.
No, I don’t fancy anyone right now.
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Same for me, sans “the most electric and thrilling experiences” part.
To the point I needed to give myself a pep talk this morning, and admit that when I feel nauseous with anxiety because I’m supposed to be meeting someone, it’s time for me to go. |
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By *eli OP Woman 22 weeks ago
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"I don’t.
I spent the last 7 days virtually on the other side of the world, and more than once I was very tempted to delete my account.
I think Fab has served its purpose for me. I have had the most electric and thrilling experiences with the most incredible people. But I have also experienced deep heartbreak and I wonder if the highs are worth the deep lows I get into.
Sex drive is gone -for now- … the joys of menopause I guess- so didn’t delete my account but I think I will just stick around for the forum and the attention I get, haha.
Lol, such an essay to answer such a simple question.
No, I don’t fancy anyone right now.
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Hey Avi, honestly any time you want to essay an answer? Feel free to. If anything, my threads are a good place for that.
The highs are always worth the lows. So you feel things deeply. There's the potential for a more keen, sharper hurt. There's also the potential for real joy, the sort of giddy state that readily brings you to a smile when you think of them.
Stick around for the forums, the attention. I think and hope that in time your libido will return. And so will your desire to embrace life, even if it does lead to hurt.
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By *bi HaiveMan 22 weeks ago
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Yes.
There's always someone I fancy.
My partner, obvs, but also other people that I see now and then, some I chat to on here, some I know in vanilla life and some sat round the pool that we're by right now.
There's varying degrees of 'fancying' to me. From a deep, semi permanent/permanent level, through to just a brief moment of 'ooft, they're hot' observation from a distance. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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You'd have to be very picky to find absolutely nobody on here fanciable, I mean there is every kind of everyone here - them fancying you back and being within travelling and accommodating criteria that's another matter.
Fortunately I sleep in the same bed as the one I fancy the most on here  (well normally when I don't leave her at home) |
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