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Nope. I did it all for reasons that were good enough at the time, so the only thing to "erase" (update, technically) is better self-awareness.
"Nothing's good or bad, but thinking makes it so."
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"What erase like kill?  is that the real meaning of 'body count'?
I knew it! "
I knew that 'nice' was just a front. Behind those kind considerate responses to threads is a cold calculating ruthless killer - no doubt your patio contains more secrets than those hidden at Misty Manor |
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"What erase like kill? is that the real meaning of 'body count'?
I knew it!
I knew that 'nice' was just a front. Behind those kind considerate responses to threads is a cold calculating ruthless killer - no doubt your patio contains more secrets than those hidden at Misty Manor "
Damn! Did I just give the game away? |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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""There are no mistakes in life some people say
And it's true sometimes you can see it that way"
- Bob Dylan"
Girls' faces formed the forward path from phony jealousy
To memorizing politics of ancient history
Flung down by corpse evangelists, unthought of, though somehow
Ah, but I was so much older then. I'm younger than that now - also Bob Dylan |
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Not proud of this one but I did leave a relationship (mother of my child) to have sex with someone else and pursue a relationship with them - I clearly wasn't completely happy or content. And I didn't cheat.
But Was still a huge error and ended up being the worse couple of years of my life with the new person who subsequently cheated on me... So maybe there was a little karma involved and I deserved it. |
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"I regret some of the opportunities I said no to and should have definitely taken. I said no because I was married… and it was the right thing to do. Bloody moral compass!!  "
Not should - would love to have been able to take!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"Partners yes.
Sexual encounters no "
In the opposite I think. So far the partners have been ok. No surprises yet. But who knows what their internet history contains |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"Not proud of this one but I did leave a relationship (mother of my child) to have sex with someone else and pursue a relationship with them - I clearly wasn't completely happy or content. And I didn't cheat.
But Was still a huge error and ended up being the worse couple of years of my life with the new person who subsequently cheated on me... So maybe there was a little karma involved and I deserved it. "
Maybe. But you live and learn. It’s not who you are, clearly. Just a mistake. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe 
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that  "
Look at us
Look at us
Who’d have thought?
Not me |
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Younger me would say yes but old fart me would say no as you always learn something or rather you should ?? if i'd known she was a 100% physco though..now that's a whole different story lol ( mr4 here) but mrs4 and i laugh about it that so called joint experience now but was rather stressful at the time xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Look at us
Look at us
Who’d have thought?
Not me
Fab fate for sure?  "
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Now I feel like a right tart!
All my “bodies” are under that patio  "
In my defence I was a snake hipped guitar wielding spandex clad rocker in the 80’s and a lot of the girls… took advantage of my good nature!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Now I feel like a right tart!
All my “bodies” are under that patio "
Where are the teeth? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"I don't know. A part of me thinks one, yes I would. But then I learnt a lot about myself and have grown in confidence and knowledge of who I am and what's important to me. Maybe I would."
So…
Would you? |
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By *eliWoman 30 weeks ago
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"I don't know. A part of me thinks one, yes I would. But then I learnt a lot about myself and have grown in confidence and knowledge of who I am and what's important to me. Maybe I would.
So…
Would you? "
I don't know, you little flirt. I don't know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"I don't know. A part of me thinks one, yes I would. But then I learnt a lot about myself and have grown in confidence and knowledge of who I am and what's important to me. Maybe I would.
So…
Would you?
I don't know, you little flirt. I don't know. "
I’m SHOCKED by your answer  |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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I have a good ponder and my answer is no. Yes I have encounters where maybe I haven't been at my best. But would I forget about them. No.
They are learning experiences. |
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By *nnCeeWoman 30 weeks ago
East of Eden, West of Hell |
There are a couple who I look back at now and think "yeah, I probably shouldn't have gone there", but hindsight is 20:20, isn't it?!
Like with everything I've done in life (as others have said), I made decisions with the information and feelings which I had, at the time. It's only afterwards you can look back and judge yourself.
So, no regrets per se, but perhaps some not brilliant decisions made! |
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Nope, definitely not. Cos it’s all LEARNING innit.
Seriously though, I have very few regrets in life for this reason. Even when things have massively gone to shit it’s all fertiliser for those potatoes growing in the dark.
Mrs TMN x |
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Now I feel like a right tart!
All my “bodies” are under that patio
Where are the teeth?"
Gone… obvs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Now I feel like a right tart!
All my “bodies” are under that patio
Where are the teeth?
Gone… obvs "
Damn. I need a new wisdom one. Nvm |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"Nope, definitely not. Cos it’s all LEARNING innit.
Seriously though, I have very few regrets in life for this reason. Even when things have massively gone to shit it’s all fertiliser for those potatoes growing in the dark.
Mrs TMN x"
I hate you x |
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"Only one Fab encounter. My body count is very low, though, so there's not actually that much to regret "
My fab body count is ridiculously low.. real world… in the past moreso… not so low - as i said .. it was the girls faults with their boobs and stuff… beguiling me… |
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Now I feel like a right tart!
All my “bodies” are under that patio
Where are the teeth?
Gone… obvs
Damn. I need a new wisdom one. Nvm "
You don’t need wisdom teeth darling |
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"Nope, definitely not. Cos it’s all LEARNING innit.
Seriously though, I have very few regrets in life for this reason. Even when things have massively gone to shit it’s all fertiliser for those potatoes growing in the dark.
Mrs TMN x"
Sexy potatoes?
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"Nope, definitely not. Cos it’s all LEARNING innit.
Seriously though, I have very few regrets in life for this reason. Even when things have massively gone to shit it’s all fertiliser for those potatoes growing in the dark.
Mrs TMN x
Sexy potatoes?
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Nuh uh, just regular ones. It’s only the eggs that are sexy. |
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"Nope, definitely not. Cos it’s all LEARNING innit.
Seriously though, I have very few regrets in life for this reason. Even when things have massively gone to shit it’s all fertiliser for those potatoes growing in the dark.
Mrs TMN x
I hate you x"
Love you too x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Now I feel like a right tart!
All my “bodies” are under that patio
Where are the teeth?
Gone… obvs
Damn. I need a new wisdom one. Nvm
You don’t need wisdom teeth darling "
Ah. I thought that’s how I got smarter. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"Yeah, if I had the chance to go back and do it again, I wouldn't have sex with certain people but I don't regret it to the point it bothers me. Chalk it down as experience and move on."
Charge it to the game yeah |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"The one who lied about being pregnant when I was a young lad, I'd probably take that one off my list. That was stress I didn't particularly enjoy "
No but it’s character building apparently |
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Now I feel like a right tart!
All my “bodies” are under that patio
Where are the teeth?
Gone… obvs
Damn. I need a new wisdom one. Nvm
You don’t need wisdom teeth darling
Ah. I thought that’s how I got smarter. "
You’re already smart. Just pretend to be a dickhead |
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"The one who lied about being pregnant when I was a young lad, I'd probably take that one off my list. That was stress I didn't particularly enjoy
No but it’s character building apparently "
Now look at me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Now I feel like a right tart!
All my “bodies” are under that patio
Where are the teeth?
Gone… obvs
Damn. I need a new wisdom one. Nvm
You don’t need wisdom teeth darling
Ah. I thought that’s how I got smarter.
You’re already smart. Just pretend to be a dickhead "
That’s what Dory says? Just keep being a dickhead.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Now I feel like a right tart!
All my “bodies” are under that patio
Where are the teeth?
Gone… obvs
Damn. I need a new wisdom one. Nvm
You don’t need wisdom teeth darling
Ah. I thought that’s how I got smarter.
You’re already smart. Just pretend to be a dickhead
That’s what Dory says? Just keep being a dickhead.
"
Ah no I re read that quote |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"The one who lied about being pregnant when I was a young lad, I'd probably take that one off my list. That was stress I didn't particularly enjoy
No but it’s character building apparently
Now look at me "
Shining.
Flourishing.
All because of her |
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Now I feel like a right tart!
All my “bodies” are under that patio
Where are the teeth?
Gone… obvs
Damn. I need a new wisdom one. Nvm
You don’t need wisdom teeth darling
Ah. I thought that’s how I got smarter.
You’re already smart. Just pretend to be a dickhead
That’s what Dory says? Just keep being a dickhead.
Ah no I re read that quote "
. Just be a good dickhead is Dory’s actual quote |
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"Nope, definitely not. Cos it’s all LEARNING innit.
Seriously though, I have very few regrets in life for this reason. Even when things have massively gone to shit it’s all fertiliser for those potatoes growing in the dark.
Mrs TMN x
Sexy potatoes?
Nuh uh, just regular ones. It’s only the eggs that are sexy."
I can tell! I didn't even get a Mrs TMN x...I'm in the "no kiss potato zone" and I'm going off to cry into my candied bogies now! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 30 weeks ago
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"No, but then my body count is far less than most would believe
Same
Mine is less than my age!!
Mines not even half that
Now I feel like a right tart!
All my “bodies” are under that patio
Where are the teeth?
Gone… obvs
Damn. I need a new wisdom one. Nvm
You don’t need wisdom teeth darling
Ah. I thought that’s how I got smarter.
You’re already smart. Just pretend to be a dickhead
That’s what Dory says? Just keep being a dickhead.
Ah no I re read that quote
. Just be a good dickhead is Dory’s actual quote "
Well I remember that NOW  |
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"Do you have any sexual encounters or partners that you would erase from your list if you could? "
Nope, I'm still a virgin, so..........
Seriously though, no not one.
They were moments in time, the right moment at that time.
Relationships may not end well, but they were perfect in those moments.
Does that make sense? |
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"Nope, definitely not. Cos it’s all LEARNING innit.
Seriously though, I have very few regrets in life for this reason. Even when things have massively gone to shit it’s all fertiliser for those potatoes growing in the dark.
Mrs TMN x
Sexy potatoes?
Nuh uh, just regular ones. It’s only the eggs that are sexy.
I can tell! I didn't even get a Mrs TMN x...I'm in the "no kiss potato zone" and I'm going off to cry into my candied bogies now!"
I like your youthful long haired potato pic though
Mrs TMN x |
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"Do you have any sexual encounters or partners that you would erase from your list if you could? "
Only one!!!
I have had meets that some would class as a bad meet but in hindsight they have been memorable.
I look back and have a chuckle to myself  |
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