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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm talking all nighters and I'm not talking shagging, I am talking actual sleeping
How good are you at it ?
Can you drift off quite easily or do you catch a few winks but are aware of every noise and movement or do you just lie awake waiting for a suitable time to pounce again ?
Does it depend on who the meet is and how often you have met or can you just sleep easy with anyone you have shared a bed with ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the very first meeting i had was an all nighter - not that we slept at all! i was lucky x
do all nighters now with a regular fab friend, its lovely. not sure how he puts up with my snoring tho!!! i just have to make sure he is exhausted before sleep time!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it hard to sleep with someone else, to used to being on my own in bed, I hardly sleep if someone else there and god forbid the ones that like to cuddle all night, I toss and turn far to much for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It isn't something I do.
I did it once, but I'd met the person at chams and kept in touch via here for months. Got me into all sorts of trouble.
Now I like to come home and climb into my own bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm talking all nighters and I'm not talking shagging, I am talking actual sleeping
How good are you at it ?
Can you drift off quite easily or do you catch a few winks but are aware of every noise and movement or do you just lie awake waiting for a suitable time to pounce again ?
Does it depend on who the meet is and how often you have met or can you just sleep easy with anyone you have shared a bed with ?"
Can't do it I need my own bed and being alone |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Generally, I don't sleep. I'll lie there and pretend.
I've only really slept with one meet - and hes a repeat meet, and we saw each other weekly til he went away working in jan...
I've had another meet stay over, and I couldn't sleep with her there - but I'm an insomniac so it was no bother |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it difficult to share a bed with a stranger nowadays, even more so in a strange bed.
Hence I always let the gent know in advance that he is not expected to stay overnight at the hotel, and that he is welcome to stay the night if he wishes. However, I am likely to head home myself.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never do all nighters for that reason, I just can't 'sleep' with someone I don't know really well. I'd be too nervous that I'd snore or worse still fart in my sleep lol   |
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I have had people fall asleep after but they would wake up and leave in the early hours.
I had one fb that I used to sleep over with. He even trusted me enough to go out to work and post the keys back through the letter box.
Now the only sleepover is letsbe |
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Wouldn't be able to sleep with a stranger in the house. Somebody we've met a few times may be a different story but even though I'm a light sleeper and they'd be in the spare room, I'd probably wake to every noise/movement.
Prefer people to leave once play has finished to be honest...
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't do it until I know someone really well, and even then they have to be fairly special.
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I'm the same and they have to be really special...only spent the whole night with one particular man |
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I (D) find it difficult to settle in a strange bed and impossible to settle with a stranger. It took me a long time to sleep properly with Al and 3+ years on I'm still more likely to remain unsettled and wake up at the slighest provocation  |
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I've never done a whole night's sleep with a meet... but then again I don't see the point in them stopping if they are just gonna sleep all night 
It tends to be an hour or so napping and then more sex, then may be another nap and even more sex.
I do like that sleepy sex... when you're both knackered and can barely keep your eyes open, but just gotta do it again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im rubbish at sleeping at the best of times but when he stays over i do sleep better - someone to snuggs in with after all that heavenly sex is a great combo  |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I havent slept with a man regularly up til having a relationship awhile back. With him surprisingly to me it seems I would always fall asleep first which is very unusual for me.
But in general I dont sleep well with men or ladies to be honest.
Used to sleeping alone x |
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I would be really nervous to sleep with a stranger / meet (if I had one ) I imagine getting robbed maybe.
I spose its a matter of trust. Only slept with two guys my OH and one other and too be honest there wasnt much sleeping going on with other  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never done this, I think it would be quite weird having a guy or woman in between the two of us.
If I was a single swinging I would never have someone sleep over. I agree its too intimate for me. |
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It would have to be with someone I have had regular meets with. I think it would be really strange and awkward in the morning.
If I was at their house I wouldn't want to stay the night in bed with the couple and it would be too intimate with a single I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only ever had one guy sleep over, he was travelling and we had a glass of wine or two. I love my own space, my own bed, which is why I don't let guys stop over! |
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"I would be really nervous to sleep with a stranger / meet (if I had one ) I imagine getting robbed maybe. "
That would be my worry. It's different when you're awake and alert but when asleep, they could easily up and out during the night, taking whatever they can find with them.
Plus I've heard enough horror stories of phones, purses, walets and valuables disappearing on meets to make me uncomfortable with a stranger in the house overnight.
Once play has finished, Vince escorts them to the door. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would be really nervous to sleep with a stranger / meet (if I had one ) I imagine getting robbed maybe.
That would be my worry. It's different when you're awake and alert but when asleep, they could easily up and out during the night, taking whatever they can find with them.
Plus I've heard enough horror stories of phones, purses, walets and valuables disappearing on meets to make me uncomfortable with a stranger in the house overnight.
Once play has finished, Vince escorts them to the door. x"
Would quite happily have Vince escort me to the door |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would quite happily have Vince escort me to the door
If you're REALLY lucky, he might escort you to your car.  x"
Sat here merely 3 miles from Watford with fingers,legs and arms crossed that I might get that escort lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't have anyone stay overnight, I'm a bad sleeper. When I do fall asleep I turn the duvet around without realising. "
I sometimes wake up with feet by the head board, I guess I qualify as a pretty restless sleeper! |
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I used to do it with one guy and he was regular, very regular. He used to stay once a week or fortnight. As time went on it got easier but I don't sleep much
I am used to having the bed to myself so the slightest noise would wake me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can sleep stood up on a washing line
I can easily sleep with anyone it don't bother me at all, tho there's not many people I meet off here I choose to spend the whole night with but those who I like enough to do a whole nigher with I can easily drop off no problem then carry on when I wake up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its not something i like or feel entirelly comfortabel with..
first time a guy stayed over, i woke slightly in the morning and let out a rip roarer and was impressed with myself until i realised i wasnt alone
cue the fake gentle snore i started |
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By *orkieMan
over a year ago
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Majority of mine have been overnighters, so I dont really have a problem staying or asking someone to stay. Always liked wake up in the middle of the night sex and the sleepy early morning sessions |
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I couldn't share my bed. Its for me and my cats!
I have slept over in a lorry twice with a guy I knew and a regular guy I see, I stopped over in a caravan with him, but just lay there whilst he was snoring his head off! |
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"its not something i like or feel entirelly comfortabel with..
first time a guy stayed over, i woke slightly in the morning and let out a rip roarer and was impressed with myself until i realised i wasnt alone
cue the fake gentle snore i started "
Hahahahahaha!!! Sounds like something I would do! x |
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I've never had a guy stay over at my house I'd not be ckmfortable with that unless I'd known them a while but have had a couple of over nighters else where and find it awkward if I'm honest particularly as I know I snore which is a shame cos I love sleepy morning sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the meet and if I have been invited to stop the night or if they want to stay the night with me. I love to spoon and fall asleep like this. Miss the closeness of someone's body next to mine at night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do prefer them. Cuddles and morning sex"
 I've done it plenty of times, but always by prior agreement. Sometimes you come across someone who you know it will work with and, afterwards, you can still part and go back to reality and all is fine.
However, it's NOT for everyone and the majority of meets I have had over the years (more than 3/4's) have not been all-nighters as it was simply not the right thing for either or both of us, taking everything into account.
Each to their own.. like anything else in the swinging 'world' - depends on what you want out of it, and how well you can handle any potential fall-out..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm talking all nighters and I'm not talking shagging, I am talking actual sleeping
How good are you at it ?
Can you drift off quite easily or do you catch a few winks but are aware of every noise and movement or do you just lie awake waiting for a suitable time to pounce again ?
Does it depend on who the meet is and how often you have met or can you just sleep easy with anyone you have shared a bed with ?"
With some singletons and couples who have become good friends I do sleep over if invited. I do have to click big time with people and would not sleep over with everyone I meet!!
All parties involved are more than comfortable because of the trust, compatibility and great sex that has developed overtime and makes for a hornier meet in general..
I have no trouble drifting off to sleep and usually sleep through unless awakened by a nudge, nudge, wink, wink... and enjoy the early hours snacking followed by the morning wake up call
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have all nighted, with some but not a lot of sleep, 4 times now on first meet. One was hotel meet. All others were at the good lady's house and all with the exception of one - (my first meet off here who was well weird) - have had me back for more |
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"I'm talking all nighters and I'm not talking shagging, I am talking actual sleeping
How good are you at it ?"
Very good! I give him/her ear plugs to muffle the sound of my snoring!!
"or do you just lie awake waiting for a suitable time to pounce again ? "
I wake up a few times during the night so there will be pouncing and meowing and scratching and more............until the next time I wake up! |
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"I don't normally sleep well in other people's bed, bit with evie I sleep like a baby.
I have the same problem in hotels. "
now i am unemployed you should take me on the road with you....purely to aid a good nights sleep of course |
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