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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago
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Just a reminder of the wows you make in front of every one and then do the opposite on here.
Maybe a little guilt trip that's all.
like we said that's just our take on it.
as for the pics you could do that via private message if you needed to.
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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago
shrewsbury |
yes happily 15 years
it was a big step for us to start swinging 10 or so years ago.
nothing to do with jealousy
the moral guilt thing was the biggest hurdle.
about what people would think of us
we are not judging anyone so not looking for any arguments
just asked what other peoples views were
I they are different from ours or not we don't mind
as we said It was more of a guilt trip.
seeing the pics.
we are not bible bashers either
perhaps we are just a bit old fashioned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes happily 15 years
it was a big step for us to start swinging 10 or so years ago.
nothing to do with jealousy
the moral guilt thing was the biggest hurdle.
about what people would think of us
we are not judging anyone so not looking for any arguments
just asked what other peoples views were
I they are different from ours or not we don't mind
as we said It was more of a guilt trip.
seeing the pics.
we are not bible bashers either
perhaps we are just a bit old fashioned."
but you don't have to be married to have moral misgivings |
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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago
shrewsbury |
Do you only meet unmarried couples?
our profile shows some of the meets we have had..
its not the marriage wow bit it was just the wedding dress pics
as we keep saying we are not judging just asked if anyone else had the same thoughts.
It would not stop us meeting a Cpl that had a wedding pic on the profile either.
just not what we would do.
love /personal intimacy/ wows
are different from recreational sex and social fun and we will keep a clear line between the 2.
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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the price of wedding photography - get every single use you can of the buggers! Besides, its the day you are going to look your very best
All seriousness tho - I'm not sure this is the time or place for them, but each to their own. If they feel happy sharing them, then good for them  |
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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago
shrewsbury |
You say you're not judging but you are completely
No we are not all we said was how it made US feel and asked what everyone thought.
we now feel like the ones being judged for asking the question.
wedding dresses are associated with churches not swingers clubs that's all
we were thinking.
sorry for asking your opinions we don't post here very often and now realise why now.
we will keep our thoughts to ourselves in future.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But if it was just about the dress why mention vows at all? It seems another thread along the lines of 'this is our opinion, if others don't agree we will make a big show of saying we won't be posting on here again'  |
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Hhmm, we aren't comfortable about seeing wedding pics on profiles either.
We aren't saying its wrong or right, but we all are allowed to have our likes/dislikes and preferences.
Slightly off topic, this site appears to have different guidelines, as opposed to its sister site, about what pics are acceptable.....there are pics on here showing other people clearly in the background/pics of children in the background too......
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We wouldn't use our wedding pictures they're over 25 years old for a start and we feel that they are representative of a part of our relationship that we don't want to share here.
If someone else does want to use theirs that's up to them but it's not something I like to see. |
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"You say you're not judging but you are completely
No we are not all we said was how it made US feel and asked what everyone thought.
we now feel like the ones being judged for asking the question.
wedding dresses are associated with churches not swingers clubs that's all
we were thinking.
sorry for asking your opinions we don't post here very often and now realise why now.
we will keep our thoughts to ourselves in future.
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Don't let this one experience put you off. I've seen plenty if posts where people express shock at seeing wedding photos . Join in, express your opinion it's what makes it fun
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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago
shrewsbury |
Their pics, their profiles, if they are happy to display their wedding pics, then it is entirely their prerogative, whether others like it or not!
Our posting was more about how it made us feel and questioned weather our reaction to it was in the minority or not.
it was not about was it right or wrong to use wedding pics or not that's their choice.
it caused us to think about how we felt about it that's all.
the profile in question only had 2 photos on it one showed a close up of the naked ladies genitals the other was full length wedding picture of them both. |
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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago
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It seems another thread along the lines of 'this is our opinion, if others don't agree we will make a big show of saying we won't be posting on here again
Our comment about not posting was based on the reply's suggesting that our thoughts made us unsuitable for this site - we call that being judged just because we raised the issue.
we did not state that the people showing wedding pics where scum or immoral or anything else detrimental
we just asked a question about what other people thought about it and if anyone else thought the same as we did. |
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