Commonly men tend towards spontaneous sexuality, women tend to be more reactive.
*Tend towards. Some, not all.
But also, as a woman, if I want a quick fuck, I've got people I can call and know I have a hassle free and already known to be good time lined up. Arranging to meet a complete stranger, dealing with logistics and safety for them to potentially either flake out and not show up or do show up be decidedly mediocre in bed, really kill my "I want to fuck right now" vibe right off. I'll just call a fuck buddy or visit a club instead. |
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"Commonly men tend towards spontaneous sexuality, women tend to be more reactive.
*Tend towards. Some, not all.
But also, as a woman, if I want a quick fuck, I've got people I can call and know I have a hassle free and already known to be good time lined up. Arranging to meet a complete stranger, dealing with logistics and safety for them to potentially either flake out and not show up or do show up be decidedly mediocre in bed, really kill my "I want to fuck right now" vibe right off. I'll just call a fuck buddy or visit a club instead."
That’s very well answered.
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Spontaneous for men on Fab sometimes seems to equal...
'Are you free right now?' (at 3am on a Sunday)
'I can pick you up from your house in the car now' (from a total randomer)
'Can you come round mine now and fuck me, whilst the Mrs is asleep?' (ummm  )
My spontaneous - I may chat to you, see if we're compatible and you're not a psychopath. I may have some time within the next month to meet for a coffee  |
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"Spontaneous with someone I know , like...into...fuck yes.
Otherwise absolutely not...
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Oh. Very this too.
Late night horny and some random I've never spoken to messages me at midnight asking if I want to go over and suck their dick? Fuck no.
Late night horny and someone that I'm into asks if I want to ch0ke on their dick at stupid o'clock? Get driving bitch  |
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It's not for me in the slightest which will come as no surprise to anyone who knows me.
I like the eroticism of anticipation, the enjoyment of being able to relax fully around someone, someone who knows my body and I theirs.
That desire... for me it's really important. I think spontaneous could be hot but only if it's someone I already know. We talk. I've kissed them. And many others thing. |
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"It's not for me in the slightest which will come as no surprise to anyone who knows me.
I like the eroticism of anticipation, the enjoyment of being able to relax fully around someone, someone who knows my body and I theirs.
That desire... for me it's really important. I think spontaneous could be hot but only if it's someone I already know. We talk. I've kissed them. And many others thing. "
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"Spontaneous with someone I know , like...into...fuck yes.
Otherwise absolutely not...
Oh. Very this too.
Late night horny and some random I've never spoken to messages me at midnight asking if I want to go over and suck their dick? Fuck no.
Late night horny and someone that I'm into asks if I want to ch0ke on their dick at stupid o'clock? Get driving bitch "
Beep beep bitch |
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