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How do you decide yours?
Is there a certain difference between a 37 & 38 year old that makes you cut off at 37? (Example only) 
Or are they decided as a reference to something else? No younger than your fave cousin or not as old as uncle Geoff 
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"Age is pretty irrelevant.
I tend towards people a few years older than me in general.
But I see people in their twenties too. And considerably older. It's more about the person."
I see your preference is the 18-99…. So I see the mixture.
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"I'm not interested in anyone in their 20's/30's or anyone in their 60's.
What made you stop at 55 
5 years older than me is enough "
If only you’d stop by here Soarkle  |
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It is surprising all those preferences that go up to 99 and yet when I recently posted a thread when I entertained a lady in her 70s I received quite a lot of mail saying how disgusting it was although other guys said 99 many of them wouldn’t engage with a lady that age |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Not too young they get over excited at the sight of boobs.
Not too old they get over excited at the sight of boobs."
You forgot the inbetweeners who get over excited at the sight of boobs. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Mine is set as the oldest I’ve slept with before, with a few years leeway. I wouldn’t be interested in someone younger. "
The older we are the more we sleep, unfortunately. |
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Around my age or younger.
Many men don’t age well sadly so anything over my age will not be physically attractive to me. There are a couple of exceptions but even they are only 2 years older than me at most.
Ladies I fancy pretty much all adult ages   |
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"Around my age or younger.
Many men don’t age well sadly so anything over my age will not be physically attractive to me. There are a couple of exceptions but even they are only 2 years older than me at most.
Ladies I fancy pretty much all adult ages "
I’m pretty much the same.
Plus people notoriously lie about their age.
I have been chatting to someone recently and they revealed their age to be 52 not 42 as stated on their profile.
Come on people. Do you really think we won’t notice 10 years age difference? |
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Ours is set slightly lower and slightly over what we would like to meet just because there isn’t that much difference in maturity/looks within those age brackets but we ideally want to meet people around our age. |
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I find it tricky tbh. I prefer meeting people who are youthful in terms of how they act rather than their number of years. I'd 100% have a better time with someone 15 years older than me that I can have a laugh with |
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"What made you stop at 65 OP?"
I like to keep it fairly straight forward so either a decade multiple or middle of that group
Plus I found a couple of ladies (separately) who were in their late 50s and we chatted and hit it off. We’ve known each other a few years now so I decided that maybe I was cutting off too early if I limited to 60
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Around my age or younger.
Many men don’t age well sadly so anything over my age will not be physically attractive to me. There are a couple of exceptions but even they are only 2 years older than me at most.
Ladies I fancy pretty much all adult ages "
This attraction thing is a bit confusing
Are we talking Fab age one is assuming
A few years knocked off here and their
Usually blokes are found out with the absence of hair
Forty nine seems an age that is used a fair bit
Is being fifty to old to admit
Those seeking friends across age range
To me seems somewhat weird and definitely strange
But each to their own and variety is the spice of life
However making whoopy with a ninety nine year old could be fraught with trouble and strife
So I tend to stick to those who remember Andy Pandy and Stingray
Plus or minus a decade either way
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"i think it depends how you have looked after yourself too,,, i know im way to old but some of us oldies can look better than the youngies "
Your photos are very attractive and you carry a suit very well. That is poise and class and those are ageless. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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I’m not interested in men younger than me because of the differences we’d be more likely to have in terms of life experiences and where we are at in life. The tricky bit is finding the sweet spot of older but not too much older as I’d face the same issue with someone who is a pensioner for example. |
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By *4bimMan 24 weeks ago
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"I’m not interested in men younger than me because of the differences we’d be more likely to have in terms of life experiences and where we are at in life. The tricky bit is finding the sweet spot of older but not too much older as I’d face the same issue with someone who is a pensioner for example. "
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See it's a tough one for me
I prefer women my age or older
I prefer men younger
So, for a woman, the ideal age is 45-60
For a man, it's 30-45
You will note though, there isn't an 'only' limit on my age range
There are always exceptions |
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We set youngest age at 46 as my eldest daughter is 41. I am 62 I am healthy and still have a toned body. When people find out my age they do not believe me. Cammy does not look her age. She looks the younger the her siblings |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"See it's a tough one for me
I prefer women my age or older
I prefer men younger
So, for a woman, the ideal age is 45-60
For a man, it's 30-45
You will note though, there isn't an 'only' limit on my age range
There are always exceptions "
I get this as I don’t find myself attracted to women older than me. |
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By *avexxMan 24 weeks ago
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"We set youngest age at 46 as my eldest daughter is 41. I am 62 I am healthy and still have a toned body. When people find out my age they do not believe me. Cammy does not look her age. She looks the younger the her siblings"
.. and you certainly do have a toned body..
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"How do you decide yours?
Is there a certain difference between a 37 & 38 year old that makes you cut off at 37? (Example only)
Or are they decided as a reference to something else? No younger than your fave cousin or not as old as uncle Geoff
Just curious all "
My preferences are pretty open. But for the past few months I've been disappointed when I've realised I've passed beyond so many people's 45 upper limit!
That'll teach me to be honest about my age! |
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On here, I don't feel I'd have much in common with younger people, below 35. And I don't think I'd be attracted to much older than me- though my FWB is nearly 65 . In a club, age range doesn't matter much, as long as there is chemistry. |
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"On here, I don't feel I'd have much in common with younger people, below 35. And I don't think I'd be attracted to much older than me- though my FWB is nearly 65 . In a club, age range doesn't matter much, as long as there is chemistry. "
So how have you come to the conclusion that you wouldn’t be attracted to much older yet your fwb is nearly 2 decades older |
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"On here, I don't feel I'd have much in common with younger people, below 35. And I don't think I'd be attracted to much older than me- though my FWB is nearly 65 . In a club, age range doesn't matter much, as long as there is chemistry.
So how have you come to the conclusion that you wouldn’t be attracted to much older yet your fwb is nearly 2 decades older "
That happened years ago with the help of a guy who believed (wrongly!) that he was my Master at the time. He was messaging men on my behalf (without my knowledge or consent), telling them how much of a slut I was and how I would fuck anybody. My now FWB messaged me to let me know that's what was happening, and, after chatting for a while, we decided to meet as it felt like we'd have great chemistry. We were right! Lol. The "Master" guy got a few chosen words from me, and a block, but he is the reason behind me actually meeting my now FWB. As if it wasn't for that initial message, we would have never met - at that time, I was looking for men not older than 50, I think, and he was not messaging any women younger than 50. So a positive thing came up from bad situation, and it made me rethink my age range. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Old people have a lot to say. I like that "
they talk a lot it’s true. But they don’t know much about interesting things sadly. I don’t want to hear about the war every time |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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I generally think it’s about the person. But I tend to dislike people that make assumptions about people based on age.
People who won’t meet you because you’re the same age as their kid - meh who cares.
People that say they don’t usually meet younger men because they’re xyz - eurgh  |
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By *eliWoman 24 weeks ago
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It wasn't that deep for me.
I thought yep, that sounds good. Clicked. Done.
It doesn't mean my mind or cunt sticks to it. I did have it at 40-55 at one point and then I realised I was finding non-middle aged people attractive.
Think it's because I got over my daddy issues. |
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"I generally think it’s about the person. But I tend to dislike people that make assumptions about people based on age.
People who won’t meet you because you’re the same age as their kid - meh who cares.
People that say they don’t usually meet younger men because they’re xyz - eurgh "
Not saying there's anything wrong in it... But would you reeeeallly want to meet someone older than your parents?
would be some mental barrier with me on that one |
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Mine is based on my preference for men, it's slightly different with women. I have no interest in a guy younger than me, the upper age is a just a nice number to cut it off. I think 17 years older than me if plenty. |
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"Mine is based on my preference for men, it's slightly different with women. I have no interest in a guy younger than me, the upper age is a just a nice number to cut it off. I think 17 years older than me if plenty. "
Which is kind of why I asked ..why 17 years older? Why not 16 or 18? Was it because 55 looks like a good number half decade / middle number that kind of thing ? That’s my curiousity |
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"Mine is based on my preference for men, it's slightly different with women. I have no interest in a guy younger than me, the upper age is a just a nice number to cut it off. I think 17 years older than me if plenty.
Which is kind of why I asked ..why 17 years older? Why not 16 or 18? Was it because 55 looks like a good number half decade / middle number that kind of thing ? That’s my curiousity "
50 is too young and 60 just seems to a bit too far so yeah, 55 was a good cut off for now. |
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"Mine is based on my preference for men, it's slightly different with women. I have no interest in a guy younger than me, the upper age is a just a nice number to cut it off. I think 17 years older than me if plenty.
Which is kind of why I asked ..why 17 years older? Why not 16 or 18? Was it because 55 looks like a good number half decade / middle number that kind of thing ? That’s my curiousity
50 is too young and 60 just seems to a bit too far so yeah, 55 was a good cut off for now. "
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"My lower age preference is always 10 years above my eldest child's age and I adjust it upwards every year. "
What made you choose 10 years older? To ensure there’s a big enough age gap they might not know your child? Or just because 10 years |
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"Age isn't so much of a concern as whether we have a connection and can have a decent conversation about common interests (not just sex)."
Have you found those at the bottom of your limit to have common interests? |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"I generally think it’s about the person. But I tend to dislike people that make assumptions about people based on age.
People who won’t meet you because you’re the same age as their kid - meh who cares.
People that say they don’t usually meet younger men because they’re xyz - eurgh
Not saying there's anything wrong in it... But would you reeeeallly want to meet someone older than your parents?
would be some mental barrier with me on that one "
I’ve met people older than my mum and my dad.
One of my current partners is older than my mum. It’s on them. But I don’t want to meet people older than my parents that aren’t interested in meeting me ofc. |
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"My lower age preference is always 10 years above my eldest child's age and I adjust it upwards every year.
What made you choose 10 years older? To ensure there’s a big enough age gap they might not know your child? Or just because 10 years "
Nothing to do with knowing my kids. I have zero interest in anyone of that age so there will always be that buffer |
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I like the older woman, always have done but I think 75 is as high as I'll go, never say never, my lower limit of 40 is largely randomly based on what I imagine is the lowest where we might still have something to talk about. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Not too young they get over excited at the sight of boobs.
Not too old they get over excited at the sight of boobs."
I think you will find that we (the 'too old' generation) do not get over excited as the sight of boobs - the eyesight has failed, so we cannot see them (and we are too vain to put our glasses on, if we can even remember where we put them)  |
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Age is a strange one. You could have a mature 20 year old but you could have an immature 20 year old. The same goes for age 40. We've opened our age bracket from 18-75 for choice of younger people and we've went 15 years older than us. |
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"Old people have a lot to say. I like that they talk a lot it’s true. But they don’t know much about interesting things sadly. I don’t want to hear about the war every time"
Which war? Yugoslav wars? Gulf war? The Troubles? Falklands war? Malaysian revolt to independence? Suez crisis? Mau Mau uprising? Korean war? Can't be WWII, none of us are old enough (actually a few could still be on Fab judging by those who made it across for D-day 80 celebrations) |
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"How do you decide yours?
Is there a certain difference between a 37 & 38 year old that makes you cut off at 37? (Example only)
Or are they decided as a reference to something else? No younger than your fave cousin or not as old as uncle Geoff
We prefer 60+ it adds more a perverted feel which is a turn on for us.
Just curious all "
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"Age is pretty irrelevant.
I tend towards people a few years older than me in general.
But I see people in their twenties too. And considerably older. It's more about the person."
I so misread the last few words and read 'it's all about the pension' |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Age is pretty irrelevant.
I tend towards people a few years older than me in general.
But I see people in their twenties too. And considerably older. It's more about the person.
I so misread the last few words and read 'it's all about the pension' "
Careful it will be the over 60s Oyster card that she wants to snaffle next  |
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I've developed a bit of a thing for younger guys since I joined fab... My lower limit is 25 because apparently that's when the brain is fully developed and I have so child around that age. So it'll probably go up a year as I get older... I don't want to meet anyone my age or older. |
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"How do you decide yours?
Is there a certain difference between a 37 & 38 year old that makes you cut off at 37? (Example only)
Or are they decided as a reference to something else? No younger than your fave cousin or not as old as uncle Geoff
Just curious all "
They need to be older than my eldest child... Who is 31 |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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It's just a guide for us.
At our age we often don't have much in common with under 30s and I think the upper limit is quite fair.
If we connect with someone though the age is irrelevant. We have fucked with a 22 year old in the last few months after an evening out. |
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"I've developed a bit of a thing for younger guys since I joined fab... My lower limit is 25 because apparently that's when the brain is fully developed and I have so child around that age. So it'll probably go up a year as I get older... I don't want to meet anyone my age or older. "
The heart (or whatever we’re thinking with) wants what it wants |
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"How do you decide yours?
Is there a certain difference between a 37 & 38 year old that makes you cut off at 37? (Example only)
Or are they decided as a reference to something else? No younger than your fave cousin or not as old as uncle Geoff
Just curious all
They need to be older than my eldest child... Who is 31"
Seems like a good enough reason |
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"It's just a guide for us.
At our age we often don't have much in common with under 30s and I think the upper limit is quite fair.
If we connect with someone though the age is irrelevant. We have fucked with a 22 year old in the last few months after an evening out."
Well if I ever make it to Brazil before I’m 70 |
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"10 years either side of my own age ..... but given so many people lie about their age on here sometimes older people slip through my filters "
Well luckily I officially make it within the limits without the age lie |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"It's just a guide for us.
At our age we often don't have much in common with under 30s and I think the upper limit is quite fair.
If we connect with someone though the age is irrelevant. We have fucked with a 22 year old in the last few months after an evening out.
Well if I ever make it to Brazil before I’m 70 "
You've a fair bit of time to go ha ha.
We do visit the UK most years too  |
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"It's just a guide for us.
At our age we often don't have much in common with under 30s and I think the upper limit is quite fair.
If we connect with someone though the age is irrelevant. We have fucked with a 22 year old in the last few months after an evening out.
Well if I ever make it to Brazil before I’m 70
You've a fair bit of time to go ha ha.
We do visit the UK most years too "
Well if I can ever show you around Oxfordshire |
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"Mine is just a preference 
Again… that’s fair … but why do you think you chose 30-55? What do you think made you decide 55 was the cut off and 30 was young enough to go to "
Ah that’s because I’m looking for something specific. I’ve also only ticked men. Again because I’m looking for something specific. It’s all still a preference. Because you know… I can |
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I've normally just had sex/relationships with my own age or a bit older. My daughter is 26 so I'm not keen on someone that age, or who wants to call me 'Mummy'
Age is just a number though - there's plenty of old souls out there |
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By *ddie1966Man 24 weeks ago
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No one younger than my youngest . On the upper side, I don't see many members over my upper limit. At the end of the day, though, age is just a number as long as its pleasurable for both parties. |
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"Mine is just a preference
Again… that’s fair … but why do you think you chose 30-55? What do you think made you decide 55 was the cut off and 30 was young enough to go to
Ah that’s because I’m looking for something specific. I’ve also only ticked men. Again because I’m looking for something specific. It’s all still a preference. Because you know… I can "
No I know …. There’s no judgment meant by my questions…. I was just curious how people chose that number …. Nothing more |
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Preference for older, however I work on the assumption that most people knock a few years off their age here, so set it lower than it might otherwise be.
No-one older than my parents (who had me young) would be my hard cut off.
Certainly I’ve sometimes perved over a profile and then clocked someone’s age and thought wow, already thought they looked good, now more so.
Re: younger, tend to find my age, men are still fairly immature, in the ‘wow, boobies’ camp as it were. Not so many single bi ladies around so I don’t feel I’m cutting anyone out by not setting it any lower (with the exception of the gorgeous Miss.Bella of course  ) |
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"Preference for older, however I work on the assumption that most people knock a few years off their age here, so set it lower than it might otherwise be.
No-one older than my parents (who had me young) would be my hard cut off.
Certainly I’ve sometimes perved over a profile and then clocked someone’s age and thought wow, already thought they looked good, now more so.
Re: younger, tend to find my age, men are still fairly immature, in the ‘wow, boobies’ camp as it were. Not so many single bi ladies around so I don’t feel I’m cutting anyone out by not setting it any lower (with the exception of the gorgeous Miss.Bella of course )"
And who’s Miss Bella ? |
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"Preference for older, however I work on the assumption that most people knock a few years off their age here, so set it lower than it might otherwise be.
No-one older than my parents (who had me young) would be my hard cut off.
Certainly I’ve sometimes perved over a profile and then clocked someone’s age and thought wow, already thought they looked good, now more so.
Re: younger, tend to find my age, men are still fairly immature, in the ‘wow, boobies’ camp as it were. Not so many single bi ladies around so I don’t feel I’m cutting anyone out by not setting it any lower (with the exception of the gorgeous Miss.Bella of course )
And who’s Miss Bella ? "
Damn did I say that out loud
(Follow on from a thread yesterday where we discovered she’s outside my filters, just to clarify that I am not stalking ) |
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"Mines set for younger as a guideline half my age plus 7 =37 and upper guideline at 50. Guidelines limit volumes of messages too "
Simialar... Half my age + 7 = 24 for youngest, double that for highest = 48
Fairly good guideline for us |
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"Preference for older, however I work on the assumption that most people knock a few years off their age here, so set it lower than it might otherwise be.
No-one older than my parents (who had me young) would be my hard cut off.
Certainly I’ve sometimes perved over a profile and then clocked someone’s age and thought wow, already thought they looked good, now more so.
Re: younger, tend to find my age, men are still fairly immature, in the ‘wow, boobies’ camp as it were. Not so many single bi ladies around so I don’t feel I’m cutting anyone out by not setting it any lower (with the exception of the gorgeous Miss.Bella of course )
And who’s Miss Bella ?
Damn did I say that out loud
(Follow on from a thread yesterday where we discovered she’s outside my filters, just to clarify that I am not stalking )"
 hello again, I'm going to take off my site supporters filter for a wee while  |
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Strange how people put age limits on there profile and dismiss anyone older out of hand but I am 64 year old and that's what it says on my profile and I have met members of fab at dogging meets and been accepted without a mention of age, one even changed her age limit so I could message her and we have met a number of times since, age is just a number I can still perform as good as any 50 year old |
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"I've upped my younge age limit recently after I had a string of teeny boppers messaging calling me mummy cheers for making me feel old by the way
My older limit is more a guide.. I will and have messaged people older. Really it's just another filter. "
Well I seem to fit in just nicely… between the limits |
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At 52 I have people tell me I look a lot younger, and my mind thinks I am about 32, unfortunately my body thinks my mind is an asshole
Age, it’s a number, try not to set “limits” but look at each individual on and individual basis
Besides did nobody see the 100 year old and 96year old who just got married at Nornmandy…. There’s life in them oldies yet |
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments. "
May I ask what the stereotyping is? |
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No real age limits for us, as it is we have a 32 year age gap between us.
It all depends on the person you're talking to and if you click. That's if they can make conversation as many can't on here lately. |
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments.
May I ask what the stereotyping is? "
We're expected to have certain attitudes, behave a certain way. A lot of people assume men over 60 all need Viagra, older women 'know what they want and how to get it'.
We're all responsible for climate change and house prices and our life was much easier than people have it today.
Every generation is stereotyped. I understand that |
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments.
May I ask what the stereotyping is?
We're expected to have certain attitudes, behave a certain way. A lot of people assume men over 60 all need Viagra, older women 'know what they want and how to get it'.
We're all responsible for climate change and house prices and our life was much easier than people have it today.
Every generation is stereotyped. I understand that"
Oh I didn’t realise that was the thinking |
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments.
May I ask what the stereotyping is?
We're expected to have certain attitudes, behave a certain way. A lot of people assume men over 60 all need Viagra, older women 'know what they want and how to get it'.
We're all responsible for climate change and house prices and our life was much easier than people have it today.
Every generation is stereotyped. I understand that"
Every older woman thread goes this way. ‘Know what they want and how to get it’
Younger people are all immature. We all only care about superficial things. Etc etc. I think both groups love a cheeky ‘for your age’ ah
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"Reference really. Age isn't that important but connection is. The connection is more likely with someone my own age. You get the same references."
agree on this. But I also think in my experience that’s cultural too. GK and Mr Black both get my references. Some people I’ve dated that are my age, don’t.
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments.
May I ask what the stereotyping is?
We're expected to have certain attitudes, behave a certain way. A lot of people assume men over 60 all need Viagra, older women 'know what they want and how to get it'.
We're all responsible for climate change and house prices and our life was much easier than people have it today.
Every generation is stereotyped. I understand that
Oh I didn’t realise that was the thinking "
Not everyone thinks that way but enough do. |
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments.
May I ask what the stereotyping is?
We're expected to have certain attitudes, behave a certain way. A lot of people assume men over 60 all need Viagra, older women 'know what they want and how to get it'.
We're all responsible for climate change and house prices and our life was much easier than people have it today.
Every generation is stereotyped. I understand that
Every older woman thread goes this way. ‘Know what they want and how to get it’
Younger people are all immature. We all only care about superficial things. Etc etc. I think both groups love a cheeky ‘for your age’ ah
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Ah 'for your age' one of my favourite ways to negate a compliment .
Wait until you get 'still' prefacing compliments. That really makes a woman feel special  |
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments.
May I ask what the stereotyping is?
We're expected to have certain attitudes, behave a certain way. A lot of people assume men over 60 all need Viagra, older women 'know what they want and how to get it'.
We're all responsible for climate change and house prices and our life was much easier than people have it today.
Every generation is stereotyped. I understand that
Every older woman thread goes this way. ‘Know what they want and how to get it’
Younger people are all immature. We all only care about superficial things. Etc etc. I think both groups love a cheeky ‘for your age’ ah
Ah 'for your age' one of my favourite ways to negate a compliment .
Wait until you get 'still' prefacing compliments. That really makes a woman feel special "
Wow love the leopard print on you
Old enough to know better and young enough to do it anyways lol |
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments.
May I ask what the stereotyping is?
We're expected to have certain attitudes, behave a certain way. A lot of people assume men over 60 all need Viagra, older women 'know what they want and how to get it'.
We're all responsible for climate change and house prices and our life was much easier than people have it today.
Every generation is stereotyped. I understand that
Every older woman thread goes this way. ‘Know what they want and how to get it’
Younger people are all immature. We all only care about superficial things. Etc etc. I think both groups love a cheeky ‘for your age’ ah
Ah 'for your age' one of my favourite ways to negate a compliment .
Wait until you get 'still' prefacing compliments. That really makes a woman feel special
Wow love the leopard print on you
Old enough to know better and young enough to do it anyways lol "
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I have a rule of thumb, 5 years older than my oldest and with each birthday he has my preference goes up a year, for example it was 28 to 38 and the only reason it was 38 and not 33 is because my own husband would have been too old for me lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments.
May I ask what the stereotyping is?
We're expected to have certain attitudes, behave a certain way. A lot of people assume men over 60 all need Viagra, older women 'know what they want and how to get it'.
We're all responsible for climate change and house prices and our life was much easier than people have it today.
Every generation is stereotyped. I understand that
Every older woman thread goes this way. ‘Know what they want and how to get it’
Younger people are all immature. We all only care about superficial things. Etc etc. I think both groups love a cheeky ‘for your age’ ah
Ah 'for your age' one of my favourite ways to negate a compliment .
Wait until you get 'still' prefacing compliments. That really makes a woman feel special "
Does it?
I must try |
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments.
May I ask what the stereotyping is?
We're expected to have certain attitudes, behave a certain way. A lot of people assume men over 60 all need Viagra, older women 'know what they want and how to get it'.
We're all responsible for climate change and house prices and our life was much easier than people have it today.
Every generation is stereotyped. I understand that
Every older woman thread goes this way. ‘Know what they want and how to get it’
Younger people are all immature. We all only care about superficial things. Etc etc. I think both groups love a cheeky ‘for your age’ ah
Ah 'for your age' one of my favourite ways to negate a compliment .
Wait until you get 'still' prefacing compliments. That really makes a woman feel special
Does it?
I must try "
Do! It's the implied 'even though you're ancient ' that does it. |
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments.
May I ask what the stereotyping is?
We're expected to have certain attitudes, behave a certain way. A lot of people assume men over 60 all need Viagra, older women 'know what they want and how to get it'.
We're all responsible for climate change and house prices and our life was much easier than people have it today.
Every generation is stereotyped. I understand that
Every older woman thread goes this way. ‘Know what they want and how to get it’
Younger people are all immature. We all only care about superficial things. Etc etc. I think both groups love a cheeky ‘for your age’ ah
Ah 'for your age' one of my favourite ways to negate a compliment .
Wait until you get 'still' prefacing compliments. That really makes a woman feel special
Does it?
I must try
Do! It's the implied 'even though you're ancient ' that does it. "
The compliment must be extraordinary to follow that line |
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"Another part of our decision to meet 50+ is the stereotyping of our age group by younger people (I'm aware that is a stereotype in itself). I notice it a lot on here in attitude and comments.
May I ask what the stereotyping is?
We're expected to have certain attitudes, behave a certain way. A lot of people assume men over 60 all need Viagra, older women 'know what they want and how to get it'.
We're all responsible for climate change and house prices and our life was much easier than people have it today.
Every generation is stereotyped. I understand that
Every older woman thread goes this way. ‘Know what they want and how to get it’
Younger people are all immature. We all only care about superficial things. Etc etc. I think both groups love a cheeky ‘for your age’ ah
Ah 'for your age' one of my favourite ways to negate a compliment .
Wait until you get 'still' prefacing compliments. That really makes a woman feel special
Does it?
I must try
Do! It's the implied 'even though you're ancient ' that does it.
The compliment must be extraordinary to follow that line "
Oh they don't actually say it but what else could it mean |
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By *oxy jWoman 24 weeks ago
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"Age comes with experience its all about the pleasure "
yep totally agree age comes with experience sadly for a lot that involves crap sex you'll be surprise how many enjoy crap sex the thank god its over type ...
my age preference is pretty wide open sexual attraction is number one along with the rest of would we be on the same page not just sex wise... the longer ive been on the scene the more selective i get i have moaned lately that i may increase the lower end as younger men seem to be getting more and more childish / penis brain until someone on here said its all ages of men and it got me thinking you know what shes right its all ages not just younger ..
i cant stand immature people i cant stand porn driven sex.... was having a lovely convo with a seemly lovely guy on hear until he felt it was ok to start calling me a slut and i will do what ever he wants ..quite out of the blue too... instant block porn talk always means = crap sex for the woman
im a very open minded broadminded woman have done most things sexually with men and women and very much continue to do so and cant really see that stopping just seeking the same that fits me n hubs dynamic .. age never used to be important but its starting to be now ..social skills as in basic chatting face to face is now affecting all ages alot of men on here (i only meet men on fab) have zero social skills all ages cant even present themselves with a simple profile...
its how you act that really matters be truthful and honest stop the bullshit and stop taking porn so seriously its entertainment not real life and yes age is just a number but at the end of the day a very important number it wont be long before i change mine again at the moment its 26 - 65 im thinking its going to becoming 35 - 55 |
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"Age comes with experience its all about the pleasure
yep totally agree age comes with experience sadly for a lot that involves crap sex you'll be surprise how many enjoy crap sex the thank god its over type ...
my age preference is pretty wide open sexual attraction is number one along with the rest of would we be on the same page not just sex wise... the longer ive been on the scene the more selective i get i have moaned lately that i may increase the lower end as younger men seem to be getting more and more childish / penis brain until someone on here said its all ages of men and it got me thinking you know what shes right its all ages not just younger ..
i cant stand immature people i cant stand porn driven sex.... was having a lovely convo with a seemly lovely guy on hear until he felt it was ok to start calling me a slut and i will do what ever he wants ..quite out of the blue too... instant block porn talk always means = crap sex for the woman
im a very open minded broadminded woman have done most things sexually with men and women and very much continue to do so and cant really see that stopping just seeking the same that fits me n hubs dynamic .. age never used to be important but its starting to be now ..social skills as in basic chatting face to face is now affecting all ages alot of men on here (i only meet men on fab) have zero social skills all ages cant even present themselves with a simple profile...
its how you act that really matters be truthful and honest stop the bullshit and stop taking porn so seriously its entertainment not real life and yes age is just a number but at the end of the day a very important number it wont be long before i change mine again at the moment its 26 - 65 im thinking its going to becoming 35 - 55"
Very well said, I very much agree! |
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"Preference for older, however I work on the assumption that most people knock a few years off their age here, so set it lower than it might otherwise be.
No-one older than my parents (who had me young) would be my hard cut off.
Certainly I’ve sometimes perved over a profile and then clocked someone’s age and thought wow, already thought they looked good, now more so.
Re: younger, tend to find my age, men are still fairly immature, in the ‘wow, boobies’ camp as it were. Not so many single bi ladies around so I don’t feel I’m cutting anyone out by not setting it any lower (with the exception of the gorgeous Miss.Bella of course )
And who’s Miss Bella ?
Damn did I say that out loud
(Follow on from a thread yesterday where we discovered she’s outside my filters, just to clarify that I am not stalking )
hello again, I'm going to take off my site supporters filter for a wee while "
What, I missed this |
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