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Finally asked my wife
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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If she'd be interested in going on here as a couple as she's shown some interest in soft swing or being a voyeur with a view to visit a club.
She's up for it so I'll hopefully have a profile up soon. She's not aware I'm here.
It was worth having that chat and the sex after was also great.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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"Will you be deleting this profile then? Might be best to come clean on this one op before you even start on the journey together, will only come out eventually x"
Delete will be the best option.
I've wanted to try new things for ages hence checking this site out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing  "
Agreed, be honest is the best option |
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Keep your profile but change your text to say just looking and hopefully have a couples profile one day,
Before you ask her show her your profile then ask what she thinks about setting up a couples profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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"Keep your profile but change your text to say just looking and hopefully have a couples profile one day,
Before you ask her show her your profile then ask what she thinks about setting up a couples profile "
I think it's best to delete.
Just have fun together |
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option "
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr "
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago "
I'll have to live with that shame. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago
I'll have to live with that shame."
A lot of couples also have single profiles - but probably best to save that step until you've tried the couples profile.
You may find that she gets a lot more attention than you and may want her own singles profile (are you ready for that?) |
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago "
I would go as far as saying more then half the Men who are on the site without their partner knowing use fab like a porn site, Somewhere to get off and fantasise about fucking other Women without going through with it, I recon being on here for 4 weeks he could get away saying something that |
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago
I would go as far as saying more then half the Men who are on the site without their partner knowing use fab like a porn site, Somewhere to get off and fantasise about fucking other Women without going through with it, I recon being on here for 4 weeks he could get away saying something that "
And that makes it right how?... |
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago
I'll have to live with that shame."
Your dishonest behaviour caused your own shame, and so you should live with it....
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By *oxy jWoman 25 weeks ago
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a swinging couple starting off on a lie ...what could possibly go wrong ... only strong trusting loving open couples survive this scene the fact your going to lie about already being on here to her is not the sign of a open honest relationship
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago
I would go as far as saying more then half the Men who are on the site without their partner knowing use fab like a porn site, Somewhere to get off and fantasise about fucking other Women without going through with it, I recon being on here for 4 weeks he could get away saying something that
And that makes it right how?..."
Depends how you look at it or how she looks at it, As far as we know the op is just using the site like a porn site so if his wife is ok with him watching porn then it shouldn't be that much of a issue, Its better then lying to her that he's never been on fab |
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By *ornycougaWoman 25 weeks ago
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr "
My thoughts exactly. What a lucky woman his Mrs is. Not |
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago
I would go as far as saying more then half the Men who are on the site without their partner knowing use fab like a porn site, Somewhere to get off and fantasise about fucking other Women without going through with it, I recon being on here for 4 weeks he could get away saying something that
And that makes it right how?...
Depends how you look at it or how she looks at it, As far as we know the op is just using the site like a porn site so if his wife is ok with him watching porn then it shouldn't be that much of a issue, Its better then lying to her that he's never been on fab"
What a load of bollocks, you justify his shitty behaviour, you are just a bigger part of the problem as he is IMHO......
Being a part of a swinging couple thr bedrock is trust and honesty not fucking lies....
Mr |
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago
I would go as far as saying more then half the Men who are on the site without their partner knowing use fab like a porn site, Somewhere to get off and fantasise about fucking other Women without going through with it, I recon being on here for 4 weeks he could get away saying something that
And that makes it right how?...
Depends how you look at it or how she looks at it, As far as we know the op is just using the site like a porn site so if his wife is ok with him watching porn then it shouldn't be that much of a issue, Its better then lying to her that he's never been on fab"
Bollocks! |
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago
I would go as far as saying more then half the Men who are on the site without their partner knowing use fab like a porn site, Somewhere to get off and fantasise about fucking other Women without going through with it, I recon being on here for 4 weeks he could get away saying something that
And that makes it right how?...
Depends how you look at it or how she looks at it, As far as we know the op is just using the site like a porn site so if his wife is ok with him watching porn then it shouldn't be that much of a issue, Its better then lying to her that he's never been on fab
Bollocks! "
To add - the fact the profile states looking for no strings sex says differently!
Trying to justify showing your cock to anyone and everyone, interacting with people and looking for sex as similar to watching porn is absolutely ridiculous.
There's no justification to being a lying cheat. |
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago
I would go as far as saying more then half the Men who are on the site without their partner knowing use fab like a porn site, Somewhere to get off and fantasise about fucking other Women without going through with it, I recon being on here for 4 weeks he could get away saying something that
And that makes it right how?...
Depends how you look at it or how she looks at it, As far as we know the op is just using the site like a porn site so if his wife is ok with him watching porn then it shouldn't be that much of a issue, Its better then lying to her that he's never been on fab
Bollocks!
To add - the fact the profile states looking for no strings sex says differently!
Trying to justify showing your cock to anyone and everyone, interacting with people and looking for sex as similar to watching porn is absolutely ridiculous.
There's no justification to being a lying cheat."
Fucking staight |
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago
I would go as far as saying more then half the Men who are on the site without their partner knowing use fab like a porn site, Somewhere to get off and fantasise about fucking other Women without going through with it, I recon being on here for 4 weeks he could get away saying something that
And that makes it right how?...
Depends how you look at it or how she looks at it, As far as we know the op is just using the site like a porn site so if his wife is ok with him watching porn then it shouldn't be that much of a issue, Its better then lying to her that he's never been on fab
What a load of bollocks, you justify his shitty behaviour, you are just a bigger part of the problem as he is IMHO......
Being a part of a swinging couple thr bedrock is trust and honesty not fucking lies....
Mr "
I'm not justifying anything, Just giving my opinion on a no win situation , He's asked her about swinging so he either lies about ever being on fab or he tells her he's set up a profile and been on fab for 4 weeks just looking |
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago
I would go as far as saying more then half the Men who are on the site without their partner knowing use fab like a porn site, Somewhere to get off and fantasise about fucking other Women without going through with it, I recon being on here for 4 weeks he could get away saying something that
And that makes it right how?...
Depends how you look at it or how she looks at it, As far as we know the op is just using the site like a porn site so if his wife is ok with him watching porn then it shouldn't be that much of a issue, Its better then lying to her that he's never been on fab
What a load of bollocks, you justify his shitty behaviour, you are just a bigger part of the problem as he is IMHO......
Being a part of a swinging couple thr bedrock is trust and honesty not fucking lies....
Mr
I'm not justifying anything, Just giving my opinion on a no win situation , He's asked her about swinging so he either lies about ever being on fab or he tells her he's set up a profile and been on fab for 4 weeks just looking "
Still a load of bollocks, you are justifying the arse end out it.....simples.....have a good night
Mr |
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"Make sure she doesn’t find this profile then. You might need to sleep with one eye open
I'll hide it once we're on
Not delete it? Swinging takes a lot of trust least do the decent thing
Agreed, be honest is the best option
Bit late for that I honesty I'm thinking
Mr
I was thinking the same. Think that horse bolted a while ago
I would go as far as saying more then half the Men who are on the site without their partner knowing use fab like a porn site, Somewhere to get off and fantasise about fucking other Women without going through with it, I recon being on here for 4 weeks he could get away saying something that
And that makes it right how?...
Depends how you look at it or how she looks at it, As far as we know the op is just using the site like a porn site so if his wife is ok with him watching porn then it shouldn't be that much of a issue, Its better then lying to her that he's never been on fab
What a load of bollocks, you justify his shitty behaviour, you are just a bigger part of the problem as he is IMHO......
Being a part of a swinging couple thr bedrock is trust and honesty not fucking lies....
Mr
I'm not justifying anything, Just giving my opinion on a no win situation , He's asked her about swinging so he either lies about ever being on fab or he tells her he's set up a profile and been on fab for 4 weeks just looking
Still a load of bollocks, you are justifying the arse end out it.....simples.....have a good night
Mr "
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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OP, this site can be quite judgemental. For people living a lifestyle that others might judge, some like to take the moral high ground. It is actually quite fascinating - brutal, but fascinating.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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Very judgemental bunch on here.
I'm OK with it, it's just their opinion.
I can only hope they feel better now they've given me a ruddy good telling off for my shameful behaviour.
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"Very judgemental bunch on here.
I'm OK with it, it's just their opinion.
I can only hope they feel better now they've given me a ruddy good telling off for my shameful behaviour.
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I don't like people cheating as I wouldn't like it done to me but its your life so do what you want, If I was in your situation I'd come clean about the profile,
Don't be surprised if someone has already screenshot the page ready to remind you at a later date, Some people love a good drama |
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"Very judgemental bunch on here.
I'm OK with it, it's just their opinion.
I can only hope they feel better now they've given me a ruddy good telling off for my shameful behaviour.
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OP, only you know the reasons that brought you to this site without your partners knowledge or consent.
However, you have been very brave to broach the subject with her and you have had a positive response.
How you address the fact you've been here as a single is a matter for you.
This is your fab life. No one else's.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Very judgemental bunch on here.
I'm OK with it, it's just their opinion.
I can only hope they feel better now they've given me a ruddy good telling off for my shameful behaviour.
OP, only you know the reasons that brought you to this site without your partners knowledge or consent.
However, you have been very brave to broach the subject with her and you have had a positive response.
How you address the fact you've been here as a single is a matter for you.
This is your fab life. No one else's.
Good luck. "
Nice response. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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"Very judgemental bunch on here.
I'm OK with it, it's just their opinion.
I can only hope they feel better now they've given me a ruddy good telling off for my shameful behaviour.
OP, only you know the reasons that brought you to this site without your partners knowledge or consent.
However, you have been very brave to broach the subject with her and you have had a positive response.
How you address the fact you've been here as a single is a matter for you.
This is your fab life. No one else's.
Good luck. "
Positive words and I'm incredibly thankful for your kind reply.
It was hard to discuss with her and I'm glad I did.
Thank you again.
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By *oxy jWoman 25 weeks ago
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"Very judgemental bunch on here.
I'm OK with it, it's just their opinion.
I can only hope they feel better now they've given me a ruddy good telling off for my shameful behaviour.
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you posted on a open forum where others will debate as long as no ones rude or being a bully then once you post its a free for all .... the cornerstone of swinging is strong loving trusting open with each other couples ... youve started with a lie..
and i agree with what someone else has said there will be someone on here whos already screenshot your profile hoping to catch you out as thats what some on here love to do ... lies never stay covered they always rear their ugly head at some point ... |
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"Very judgemental bunch on here.
I'm OK with it, it's just their opinion.
I can only hope they feel better now they've given me a ruddy good telling off for my shameful behaviour.
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It's good you can make a joke about going behind your partners back, I reckon she'd roll around the floor if you told her. |
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talk about being deceitful 