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So ladies, show of hands who gets disappointed when guys talk the big talk then fail to deliver!?
I find most guys go in for the kill from the off. Total turn off for me, dont know about you?
I mean you wouldnt race a ferrari without warming the engine first right!? |
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By *rRiosMan 31 weeks ago
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"So ladies, show of hands who gets disappointed when guys talk the big talk then fail to deliver!?
I find most guys go in for the kill from the off. Total turn off for me, dont know about you?
I mean you wouldnt race a ferrari without warming the engine first right!? "
How do you mean “go in for the kill”? |
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear? "
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in  |
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"So ladies, show of hands who gets disappointed when guys talk the big talk then fail to deliver!?
I find most guys go in for the kill from the off. Total turn off for me, dont know about you?
I mean you wouldnt race a ferrari without warming the engine first right!?
How do you mean “go in for the kill”? "
No warmup action so to speak. Most go down n give my poor clit a rude awakening lol
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear?
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in "
I get disappointed that i put my all into it and most just wanna bang n feel like they are king if the studs.
I put effort into finding out what they like, from clothing to sexual acts and act n dress accordingly when we meet.
A lot of guys dont bother |
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By *rRiosMan 31 weeks ago
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"So ladies, show of hands who gets disappointed when guys talk the big talk then fail to deliver!?
I find most guys go in for the kill from the off. Total turn off for me, dont know about you?
I mean you wouldnt race a ferrari without warming the engine first right!?
How do you mean “go in for the kill”?
No warmup action so to speak. Most go down n give my poor clit a rude awakening lol
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Gotcha. I only have the empirical evidence of one but I tend to be a tad more tactile. Different strokes for different folks quite literally  |
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear?
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in
I get disappointed that i put my all into it and most just wanna bang n feel like they are king if the studs.
I put effort into finding out what they like, from clothing to sexual acts and act n dress accordingly when we meet.
A lot of guys dont bother"
Sounds like you're more after love making than after a good fuck. Of course they just want to bang! They're not dating you |
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear?
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in
I get disappointed that i put my all into it and most just wanna bang n feel like they are king if the studs.
I put effort into finding out what they like, from clothing to sexual acts and act n dress accordingly when we meet.
A lot of guys dont bother"
I assure you. There is a small collection of men here and out in the wider world, who won't just put a quick bang before actually finding out what turns their partner on.
I would much rather know, I'm teasing, pleasing, and enjoying the moment together with someone.
Than just feel like I'm using them as a flashlight.
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"Yes yes yes! I even say on my profile that I cum from oral and only want to meet if you’re happy to provide it. I still only get made to cum once or twice a year  "
Same! I mean i can through penetration but usually at a slow pace. Oral is so enjoyable but ive had guys miss it, bite it n treat it like they are trying to start a fire! |
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear?
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in
I get disappointed that i put my all into it and most just wanna bang n feel like they are king if the studs.
I put effort into finding out what they like, from clothing to sexual acts and act n dress accordingly when we meet.
A lot of guys dont bother
Sounds like you're more after love making than after a good fuck. Of course they just want to bang! They're not dating you"
Sex should be enjoyed, if i wanted a quick fuck id have one but i always make it clear i like a long session.
Shouldnt have to date someone to get enjoyable sex |
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear?
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in
I get disappointed that i put my all into it and most just wanna bang n feel like they are king if the studs.
I put effort into finding out what they like, from clothing to sexual acts and act n dress accordingly when we meet.
A lot of guys dont bother"
You're seeing the wrong blokes  |
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear?
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in
I get disappointed that i put my all into it and most just wanna bang n feel like they are king if the studs.
I put effort into finding out what they like, from clothing to sexual acts and act n dress accordingly when we meet.
A lot of guys dont bother
Sounds like you're more after love making than after a good fuck. Of course they just want to bang! They're not dating you
Sex should be enjoyed, if i wanted a quick fuck id have one but i always make it clear i like a long session.
Shouldnt have to date someone to get enjoyable sex "
It helps if you are with someone who knows what they are doing, I still hear a lot of guys take what they want then fall asleep 
I take time to make sure the lady gets what she deserves. After all she's gone to the trouble of getting her kit off. Surely it's the least a guy can do. |
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear?
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in
I get disappointed that i put my all into it and most just wanna bang n feel like they are king if the studs.
I put effort into finding out what they like, from clothing to sexual acts and act n dress accordingly when we meet.
A lot of guys dont bother
You're seeing the wrong blokes "
Clearly. Thing is how do you tell without trying? Every guy thinks hes the best lol |
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear?
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in
I get disappointed that i put my all into it and most just wanna bang n feel like they are king if the studs.
I put effort into finding out what they like, from clothing to sexual acts and act n dress accordingly when we meet.
A lot of guys dont bother
Sounds like you're more after love making than after a good fuck. Of course they just want to bang! They're not dating you
Sex should be enjoyed, if i wanted a quick fuck id have one but i always make it clear i like a long session.
Shouldnt have to date someone to get enjoyable sex
It helps if you are with someone who knows what they are doing, I still hear a lot of guys take what they want then fall asleep
I take time to make sure the lady gets what she deserves. After all she's gone to the trouble of getting her kit off. Surely it's the least a guy can do. "
You sir are one of v few! Bravo x |
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear?
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in
I get disappointed that i put my all into it and most just wanna bang n feel like they are king if the studs.
I put effort into finding out what they like, from clothing to sexual acts and act n dress accordingly when we meet.
A lot of guys dont bother
I assure you. There is a small collection of men here and out in the wider world, who won't just put a quick bang before actually finding out what turns their partner on.
I would much rather know, I'm teasing, pleasing, and enjoying the moment together with someone.
Than just feel like I'm using them as a flashlight.
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See i absolutely agree with you!
Teasing, touching and having fun. I truely believe sex should be enjoyed. Give each other what they need n want and take time to find out what that is. Just because its a swingers life doesnt mean it should be fuck n go.
Thetes a whole social side that many just arent interested in.
Im in it to give a guy an experience not just a night/ day of sex |
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear?
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in
I get disappointed that i put my all into it and most just wanna bang n feel like they are king if the studs.
I put effort into finding out what they like, from clothing to sexual acts and act n dress accordingly when we meet.
A lot of guys dont bother
I assure you. There is a small collection of men here and out in the wider world, who won't just put a quick bang before actually finding out what turns their partner on.
I would much rather know, I'm teasing, pleasing, and enjoying the moment together with someone.
Than just feel like I'm using them as a flashlight.
See i absolutely agree with you!
Teasing, touching and having fun. I truely believe sex should be enjoyed. Give each other what they need n want and take time to find out what that is. Just because its a swingers life doesnt mean it should be fuck n go.
Thetes a whole social side that many just arent interested in.
Im in it to give a guy an experience not just a night/ day of sex "
You should be made to feel like the world revolves around you. Regardless of gender, sex, role, social status. |
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I'd never meet anyone who liked to brag in advance about how good they were at any sex act. Just, bleurgh.
It can be disappointing on occasion if they give up too soon, or change what they're doing just as they've found what works. Mostly I've had very positive experiences. One guy gave me such a powerful orgasm that it triggered a huge headache at the base of my skull! |
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"I'd never meet anyone who liked to brag in advance about how good they were at any sex act. Just, bleurgh.
It can be disappointing on occasion if they give up too soon, or change what they're doing just as they've found what works. Mostly I've had very positive experiences. One guy gave me such a powerful orgasm that it triggered a huge headache at the base of my skull!"
I only gaurentee disappointment. |
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Flicking the tip of the tongue quickly over the clit- man, who told them we like that? And then after 15 seconds they stick the fucking fingers in….
After 1 minute they think they’ve done it “for hours” and seek the blowjob…  |
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"Oh ive no doubt! So whats your bug bear?
I don't really one. Much like life I find you get out what you put in.
If something is disappointing for me, I generally blame myself. For either a, allowing myself to be in that situation or b, not putting my absolute all in
I get disappointed that i put my all into it and most just wanna bang n feel like they are king if the studs.
I put effort into finding out what they like, from clothing to sexual acts and act n dress accordingly when we meet.
A lot of guys dont bother
You're seeing the wrong blokes
Clearly. Thing is how do you tell without trying? Every guy thinks hes the best lol "
We just say that to get your knickers off, next time ask for a CV and references |
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"Flicking the tip of the tongue quickly over the clit- man, who told them we like that? And then after 15 seconds they stick the fucking fingers in….
After 1 minute they think they’ve done it “for hours” and seek the blowjob… "
It was in orange is the new black 
Different women like different things, what hits the spot for you then? |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I find giving a woman oral pleasure immensely satisfying and a massive turn on ))………. At the start , middle , and ending ……….. my tongue goes everywhere and anywhere, more orgasms the better) |
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"Flicking the tip of the tongue quickly over the clit- man, who told them we like that? And then after 15 seconds they stick the fucking fingers in….
After 1 minute they think they’ve done it “for hours” and seek the blowjob… "
id gladly do it for hours , love it …….. pussy worship and devotion xx |
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"Flicking the tip of the tongue quickly over the clit- man, who told them we like that? And then after 15 seconds they stick the fucking fingers in….
After 1 minute they think they’ve done it “for hours” and seek the blowjob… "
Exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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One thing I miss about my ex. Never really cared about sex (both of us) but getting to spend time going down on her for however long, sometimes taking my sweet as time, was genuinely the best. |
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The ones who 'can do it for hours' are a pain at club gangbang events.
Not for them the problem of getting hard enough to roll a condom on with everyone watching. It doesn't even matter that their winkle hasn't got a hope in hell. They are the great continualinguists.
They can put in their profile that every woman they have ever licked has come continuously and they themselves will never ask for anything in return.
Like fuck they won't be hoping! |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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After Ferrari’s engine issues yesterday in Canada this made me laugh.
I’m amazing at oral. Best you’ll ever have probably. The trick? I’m thinking about my work emails so I don’t don’t have to focus on how insanely boring sex is |
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"Before I go down on a woman she has to pass the finger test. No likey no licky.
How does that work?
Is it a scientific process?"
Gently finger her (if she doesn't like being fingered then play with her clit if you can) and surreptitiously sniff your finger(s). This can be achieved when kissing her breasts where you take a crafty sniff of your digits.
Or, if she's going down on you and her nether regions are within reach slip a finger in and sniff.
If you don't like the smell then don't go down. Not scientifically accurate but works for me, as per my 'all clear' text received this morning after a full and thorough MOT. |
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"I read somewhere once. I takes up to 20 minutes for the clit to become fully erect and turned on.
Ever since, I've always taken my time."
Yes I find this. Some men have no patience or thunk that the harder the better/quicker. I guess its very subjective but when it's right it's sooo right. 
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"Yes yes yes! I even say on my profile that I cum from oral and only want to meet if you’re happy to provide it. I still only get made to cum once or twice a year
Same! I mean i can through penetration but usually at a slow pace. Oral is so enjoyable but ive had guys miss it, bite it n treat it like they are trying to start a fire! "
Do you like fingers or a toy at the same time. |
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"Before I go down on a woman she has to pass the finger test. No likey no licky.
How does that work?
Is it a scientific process?
Gently finger her (if she doesn't like being fingered then play with her clit if you can) and surreptitiously sniff your finger(s). This can be achieved when kissing her breasts where you take a crafty sniff of your digits.
Or, if she's going down on you and her nether regions are within reach slip a finger in and sniff.
If you don't like the smell then don't go down. Not scientifically accurate but works for me, as per my 'all clear' text received this morning after a full and thorough MOT."
Who says 'Romance is dead'? |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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I never licked or sucked or played with a pussy til I started swinging and every woman I have performed oral on said it’s like I was a natural born cunnilingus expert!
I have however received some feeble attempts of it from some men. And I’m left thinking “if you’ve had practise before how can you be so lame”?
I guess being a woman I knew how I’d like it so just projected that back I suppose! But couldn’t fathom for ages how some men who said they loved it so much were so dismal
Not all I might add. Some have been off the wall great  |
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"I mean you wouldnt race a ferrari without warming the engine first right!? "
Interesting analogy.
I honed my skills in the factory at Maranello.
I can accelerate my tongue from rest to 12,500 rpm in 4.7 seconds now.
And make "vroom! vroom!" sounds x |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Very disappointing when they don't do any oral
Equally disappointing when they go at you like a dehydrated camel
Absolutely exquisite when they have the skills.... and usually the ones that do like don't talk that much about it..... and like to suprise a lady. |
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"I never licked or sucked or played with a pussy til I started swinging and every woman I have performed oral on said it’s like I was a natural born cunnilingus expert!
I have however received some feeble attempts of it from some men. And I’m left thinking “if you’ve had practise before how can you be so lame”?
I guess being a woman I knew how I’d like it so just projected that back I suppose! But couldn’t fathom for ages how some men who said they loved it so much were so dismal
Not all I might add. Some have been off the wall great "
The same can be said of a lot of women who brag about their blow job skills.
If you get unsolicited and regular praise from different people regarding your oral skills then you can presume you are good at what you do. If your praise follows you asking "How was that?" or similar then you aren't as good as you are led to believe. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Now I see it as a must ….. I love to taste and don’t rush away….. to be honest I get the hump if she’s not really into being licked and teased, nothing like feeling her getting wetter and more turned on.
Like someone said it’s a good way to warm up the engine |
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Tbh it's something I only started enjoying in recent years.
IMO, the skill lies in good communication. Not just what she says but reading the reactions to every touch...
I recently had a partner who loved receiving but her clit would also get very sensitive and we had a couple of occasions where she asked me to stop within 10 mins. I thought I was not doing it right but I simply hadn't read that... Learning this helped me adapt the approach.
It's always an amazing feeling knowing that I created such a powerful orgasm with just my tongue
Ps never assume what a previous encounter enjoyed is going to do it again. |
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