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Do meets actually happen on here?
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Been here for 6 weeks now. Had what I thought at the time was a progressive conversations with 7 different singles and couples. All has gone well up until arrangements made to meet either social settings or private. After that it’s silence. They agree to meet but then cut contact.
I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.
Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.
I stress not all females on this site have the attitude iv come across. Iv had some wonderful conversations with gorgeous women on here but Iv also been shocked at some of the replies from let’s say lesser attractive females (some built like cement trucks)
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See, it's the last comment that is the killer
Why should women 'built like cement trucks' not have choice on who they chat to or meet?
It reads like you think they should just accept or be grateful for any offers they get
I dare say that comment alone will make you unattractive to a lot of other women too |
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"Been here for 6 weeks now. Had what I thought at the time was a progressive conversations with 7 different singles and couples. All has gone well up until arrangements made to meet either social settings or private. After that it’s silence. They agree to meet but then cut contact.
I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.
Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.
I stress not all females on this site have the attitude iv come across. Iv had some wonderful conversations with gorgeous women on here but Iv also been shocked at some of the replies from let’s say lesser attractive females (some built like cement trucks)
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I dont think your doing yourself any favours here op, you're narrative Is, how so I say it, what's the word. That's it
Fucked
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"Been here for 6 weeks now. Had what I thought at the time was a progressive conversations with 7 different singles and couples. All has gone well up until arrangements made to meet either social settings or private. After that it’s silence. They agree to meet but then cut contact.
I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.
Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.
I stress not all females on this site have the attitude iv come across. Iv had some wonderful conversations with gorgeous women on here but Iv also been shocked at some of the replies from let’s say lesser attractive females (some built like cement trucks)
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Yes they do. Some dont ask for or give veries either. You defo have a way with words that screams self entitlement. Just be friendly, if it happens it happens |
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Yes they happen.
I'm sure them cement trucks will be all over you now!
Why are you even messaging "cement trucks" anyway? Are you that desperate you've just messaged anyone with tits regardless of if you find them attractive?
I mean chances are looking great for you now you've insulted the people you want to meet.
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By *eliWoman 33 weeks ago
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Op, you're allowed to be a bit bummed that people keep on going silent once you've agreed to meet each other. I'd find that really frustrating as well.
I think yes, sure, some women do act like cocks and men can enable that with heaps of false platitudes about an elbow or a zoomed in cleavage.
I don't think someone's value is based on their aesthetic though. If that's a problematic view you've expressed before I can understand why people have gone silent on you.
We shouldn't think someone's merit, their worth is based on their appearance. Fat or slim. People can be absolute weapons regardless of their appearance. That's the issue you should be looking at, not misdirection of your disappointment causing you to have such disdain for fat women. |
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OP I will leave everyone else to flail you alive over the cement comment - my observation would be that those 7 “progressive” conversations were not actually with coupes or ladies. You have very likely been talking to a guy in each one of them. |
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I can sort of see his point from a couples profile on the looks department, in the non fab world me and the Mrs are pretty equal on the looks department, whereas on fab she could have her pick of gorgeous guys a lot more handsome than me but I'm probably not going to find anyone as good looking as her. So I sort of see where he's coming from even though I don't like the way he's put it. |
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Your profile is blank…so not sure what you are expecting. Also I can probably guess the single women you were chatting too…weren’t actually women 
Just because someone doesn’t want to meet you, doesn’t mean they aren’t meeting others. |
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There are all shapes and sizes on this site and the complete spectrum across what society / media / entitled misogynistic dickheads determines what is deemed to be conventionally attractive. There are more, what can only be described as less than desirable blokes on here than you could believe (just take a scroll through VideoChat streams and see them tugging away at themselves to confirm this observation), yet they’re generally a happy bunch and some of them connect and get meets..
Logically we must assume you have been messaging women you have called ‘cement trucks’ otherwise you wouldn’t have complained about their negative responses. Bet you would have met them if any had agreed to meet? Take it down a notch, pump those brakes and best keep opinions to yourself.
Meets do happen on here, socials happen here, parties arranged, clubs and festivals…
There’s a lot of sex happening because of this site - I’m at a party tonight (people I’ve never met before) and a first meeting with a gorgeous woman tomorrow evening who I’m going to pound through the mattress. Try harder, be nice, don’t complain, positive vibes only…
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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""Built like cement trucks- you've just killed yourself on fab"!
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I think they call it Fabacide, at least that’s what they called it the last time I committed it |
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Did you send them a face pic op? You must ensure it's similar to someone they like "on the telly". 95% or below similarity is not acceptable unfortunately.
Said with tongue in cheek! Just treat fab as a social club and join in with chat. |
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""Built like cement trucks- you've just killed yourself on fab"!
There should be a "Fabiside" emoji. "
I highly doubt a few people blocking him on a miniscule part of the site only a fraction of user's venture into is going to spoil his chances .
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Yes, all the time.
You're very new and it pays to have realistic expectations only here.
As well as to show respect for everyone here, especially those who you may have need to count on, for support. Your words "not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited' are perhaps just a little unwise |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"Been here for 6 weeks now. Had what I thought at the time was a progressive conversations with 7 different singles and couples. All has gone well up until arrangements made to meet either social settings or private. After that it’s silence. They agree to meet but then cut contact.
I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.
Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.
I stress not all females on this site have the attitude iv come across. Iv had some wonderful conversations with gorgeous women on here but Iv also been shocked at some of the replies from let’s say lesser attractive females (some built like cement trucks)
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Us women that are built like cement trucks, are actually attractive to some men, actually, quite a lot of men. But well done for making it easier for us to filter you out |
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By *oozleMan 33 weeks ago
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Yes meets do indeed happen, but effort, attraction and conversations are what make all the difference… read profiles, contribute to forums, write stories etc, this will all help with people getting to know you and building friendships and socials etc. Go to clubs and meet also, that’s a good way to see people from here I have heard. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"Been here for 6 weeks now. Had what I thought at the time was a progressive conversations with 7 different singles and couples. All has gone well up until arrangements made to meet either social settings or private. After that it’s silence. They agree to meet but then cut contact.
I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.
Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.
I stress not all females on this site have the attitude iv come across. Iv had some wonderful conversations with gorgeous women on here but Iv also been shocked at some of the replies from let’s say lesser attractive females (some built like cement trucks)
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Cement trucks??? Ouch. |
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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago
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"Been here for 6 weeks now. Had what I thought at the time was a progressive conversations with 7 different singles and couples. ……..
Iv also been shocked at some of the replies from let’s say lesser attractive females (some built like cement trucks)
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I wonder if they know who they are ….
*shakes head.
Some thoughts you should keep to yourself. |
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"OP, it ain't just guys this happens to. Spend my time chatting to guys on here for them to just disappear.
But then I remember that I resemble a cement truck. *Shrugs*
Shit happens "
Definitely my kind of truck!! |
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"Been here for 6 weeks now. Had what I thought at the time was a progressive conversations with 7 different singles and couples. All has gone well up until arrangements made to meet either social settings or private. After that it’s silence. They agree to meet but then cut contact.
I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.
Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.
I stress not all females on this site have the attitude iv come across. Iv had some wonderful conversations with gorgeous women on here but Iv also been shocked at some of the replies from let’s say lesser attractive females (some built like cement trucks)
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Thet do. 
But not for everyone. |
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