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Why is it so hard to get women to look at me?
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I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. |
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"Because I only get men looking me. I don’t mind that, but I’d like at least one lady  "
I'll double check, but I'm pretty sure I don't have a penis down there.
Women live in ninja mode unless they're new usually. |
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By *igR93Man 25 weeks ago
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Be more confident in yourself, you don’t know if women are looking at you and if they aren't, the best thing anybody can have that makes them attractive is an endless persona of confidence
Asking why people aren’t looking at you is just going to make you seem a little needy.. |
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"Because I only get men looking me. I don’t mind that, but I’d like at least one lady
I'll double check, but I'm pretty sure I don't have a penis down there.
Women live in ninja mode unless they're new usually."
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"Be more confident in yourself, you don’t know if women are looking at you and if they aren't, the best thing anybody can have that makes them attractive is an endless persona of confidence
Asking why people aren’t looking at you is just going to make you seem a little needy.."
Evidently I am needy  |
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"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. "
Many women look in ninja mode so you can't see they've looked unless they fab your pics, could be many reasons could be your first pic, could be your bi, could be location, age, height just be patient you'll get there in the end  |
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"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. Many women look in ninja mode so you can't see they've looked unless they fab your pics, could be many reasons could be your first pic, could be your bi, could be location, age, height just be patient you'll get there in the end "
The most sensible thing Fred has said for a good few days.
On this occasion, listen to him OP.
Good luck  . |
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"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. Many women look in ninja mode so you can't see they've looked unless they fab your pics, could be many reasons could be your first pic, could be your bi, could be location, age, height just be patient you'll get there in the end
The most sensible thing Fred has said for a good few days.
On this occasion, listen to him OP.
Good luck ."
I'm always sensible just not news worthy |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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Also women get bombarded with 100s of messages from lots of desperate men on here,no wonder they are very picky, be nice, curious and patient then hopefully you will find someone. Good luck |
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"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. Many women look in ninja mode so you can't see they've looked unless they fab your pics, could be many reasons could be your first pic, could be your bi, could be location, age, height just be patient you'll get there in the end
The most sensible thing Fred has said for a good few days.
On this occasion, listen to him OP.
Good luck .I'm always sensible just not news worthy "
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It's worse when they're not in Ninja mode and then they look at you. Then you realise all this time they've not been looking at you. In your head they were looking at you, but in reality they rarely look at you. Even after writing this someone might look at. But realistically, they won't look at me.
If they're in Ninja mode, I'll never find out if they did look at me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.
Run a mile.
Max crisp
That’s your next profile name"
I like Max Crisp. Dry sense of humour. Up for a roast. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.
Run a mile.
Max crisp
That’s your next profile name
I like Max Crisp. Dry sense of humour. Up for a roast.
Ruins sausages "
Thin Richmond is a good profile name too. |
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"If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.
Run a mile.
Max crisp
That’s your next profile name
I like Max Crisp. Dry sense of humour. Up for a roast.
Ruins sausages
Thin Richmond is a good profile name too."
Just don’t pop them in Max crisp.
End up with twiglets |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.
Run a mile.
Max crisp
That’s your next profile name
I like Max Crisp. Dry sense of humour. Up for a roast.
Ruins sausages
Thin Richmond is a good profile name too.
Just don’t pop them in Max crisp.
End up with twiglets "
Never liked twiglets. Left you with sticky brown fingers. |
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I’ve just worked out, how to use stealth/ninja mode. He he! But what I don’t understand, is that if all of these women are looking at me sneakily, you’d assume that at least one would want to chat. Am I that unappealing? Perhaps I am. I really don’t understand women…like at all. Time for some introspection.  |
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"I’ve just worked out, how to use stealth/ninja mode. He he! But what I don’t understand, is that if all of these women are looking at me sneakily, you’d assume that at least one would want to chat. Am I that unappealing? Perhaps I am. I really don’t understand women…like at all. Time for some introspection. "
yes but for a guy it helps that you show as looking otherwise you're invisible all the time  |
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By *host63Man 25 weeks ago
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"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. "
My advice is simply to not worry about it.
If women don't look a you return the favour.
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"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. "
Know the feeling buddy |
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"I’ve just worked out, how to use stealth/ninja mode. He he! But what I don’t understand, is that if all of these women are looking at me sneakily, you’d assume that at least one would want to chat. Am I that unappealing? Perhaps I am. I really don’t understand women…like at all. Time for some introspection. "
Have you read profiles? Sent messages to people that match what you are looking for? It's not a quick process on here. |
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"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. "
If you are valuing your worth through responses (or lack of) on here, you set yourself up for a bumpy ride
My sexuality, my physical attractiveness to others and my socio-sexual interactions are just a minute part of my worth
In terms of how I find others to enjoy sex with, Fab isn't and never has been a major player
I enjoy the forums, I enjoy a perve at pics and I have enjoyed the meets I've had from here
Enjoy your time here
Enjoy those people you do meet
There will always be an element of lack of response |
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"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. "
Ninja innit |
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"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change.
Ninja innit "
Yes fam
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"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change.
Ninja innit
Yes fam
Mr "
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