Afternoon all you glorious fabsters 
So I know that the ‘help me’ & ‘why can’t I get a meet’ threads happen all the time … but I just want to know what I’m doing wrong haha I don’t think my photos are that bad… and my bio gives a little bit about me….. so is it just my messages that are failing me ? I try to make a link to things in their bio to chat about ….
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Never had a message from you so can't answer that but if it's your bog standard "how are you" type thing then it's not going to grab anyone's attention.
Patience is the key OP, but being here before, you should know that. |
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Are you looking for profile advice OP as you need to do that openly here for us to be able to answer.
If it’s general advice you will have read it all before on these threads. Make friends. Join in on the forum. Go to organised socials and more than anything just have fun  |
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By *ornycougaWoman 25 weeks ago
NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat |
Deleting a profile and returning doesn't help imho - irrespective of how good your profile is, and how engaging your messages might be - you are still starting as the lowest of the low on here (a new unverified single guy) I'm afraid |
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Well, you're Caucasian and so that works in your favour. You're six foot tall and so that works in your favour. Your phallus has no malice and so that will work in your favour. You are domiciled in Oxford (ok ya) and therefore this should work in your favour. You have an admirable torso (and moreso) and I suspect this will work in your favour.
I have none of the aforementioned and yet things still work in my favour.
Give it time and you'll be fine. |
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Good pics op, but your bio doesn't really give me any sense of what you're into and what you'd offer a meet.
If you can maybe expand on it and put a bit of your personality into it.
For me if I find a profile bland, unless the message is amazing, I tend to not take it any further. |
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"Never had a message from you so can't answer that but if it's your bog standard "how are you" type thing then it's not going to grab anyone's attention.
Patience is the key OP, but being here before, you should know that."
More patience needed then  |
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"Deleting a profile and returning doesn't help imho - irrespective of how good your profile is, and how engaging your messages might be - you are still starting as the lowest of the low on here (a new unverified single guy) I'm afraid"
That’s true… I should have just hidden the profile and come back to it…. But we go again |
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"Well, you're Caucasian and so that works in your favour. You're six foot tall and so that works in your favour. Your phallus has no malice and so that will work in your favour. You are domiciled in Oxford (ok ya) and therefore this should work in your favour. You have an admirable torso (and moreso) and I suspect this will work in your favour.
I have none of the aforementioned and yet things still work in my favour.
Give it time and you'll be fine."
Now that’s a very clever response … see that’s the wordsmanship I need |
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"Good pics op, but your bio doesn't really give me any sense of what you're into and what you'd offer a meet.
If you can maybe expand on it and put a bit of your personality into it.
For me if I find a profile bland, unless the message is amazing, I tend to not take it any further. "
Bio needs more… got it |
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