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By *ole.24601 OP Man 25 weeks ago
Sutton Coldfield |
Despite all of the “it’s about personality not looks” type of sayings (which is a nice notion don’t get me wrong) what are peoples thoughts on round bellies on a man?
I have never come across a woman who does not instantly get switched on by a muscular or well defined man. Are there any women out there who genuinely look and prefer the more rounded man to the buff one?
As a BBW admirer, I would always look and prefer the beautiful shape of a curvy woman, and I don’t know if that is common amongst men?
Essentially, is there a BBW admirer version for women ? (Terribly worded question but I hope you get the drift) |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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On fab I’m sure there are. And I think bigger men are seen as more desirable than bigger women in media/ film etc. but yeah I wouldn’t expect it to be the majority who are into big men. But people are. People will be.
I mean people have sex with me and I’ve got a belly. |
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By *ole.24601 OP Man 25 weeks ago
Sutton Coldfield |
"A muscular and well defined man is only attractive to me if I'm already into the person they are.
And no more so than the fat guy that gets me  "
Thanks,
I guess I shouldn’t just generalise really |
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By *ole.24601 OP Man 25 weeks ago
Sutton Coldfield |
"On fab I’m sure there are. And I think bigger men are seen as more desirable than bigger women in media/ film etc. but yeah I wouldn’t expect it to be the majority who are into big men. But people are. People will be.
I mean people have sex with me and I’ve got a belly. "
Thanks for this, it is reassuring |
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By *ing00Man 25 weeks ago
Kettering Area |
I suppose everyone's just into whatever everyone's into..
I'm probably not everyone's cup of tea but hopefully there's an unruly queue who are helplessly driven wild by me (... And then he woke up..  hehe) |
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I love a belly on a guy and my partner is distinctly Santa Clause shaped. Beard, Dad Bod, belly. Makes missionary a bit tricky as I've got a curvy body too. But all that chunk is great for doggy style railing into the pillows. |
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By *rrolloutMan 25 weeks ago
Newcastle-under-Lyme |
Great question, and one I ponder whether it counts again men on here.
The fact is most women on here are deluged with emails. Men are not. On a normal dating site, women wouldn't be so picky about the body... more about whether the man has a cute smile, nice eyes etc and how he actually comes across.
On sites like Fab where it's more about the sex, women can afford to be picky and will more than likely only answer to profiles with the hottest bods and biggest cocks. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Great question, and one I ponder whether it counts again men on here.
The fact is most women on here are deluged with emails. Men are not. On a normal dating site, women wouldn't be so picky about the body... more about whether the man has a cute smile, nice eyes etc and how he actually comes across.
On sites like Fab where it's more about the sex, women can afford to be picky and will more than likely only answer to profiles with the hottest bods and biggest cocks."
I don’t know if that’s true. But if it is, it’s not surprising that people would be most interested in those things. If men were inundated with messages from women they’d probably choose the women they deemed to be most desirable too. That’s the nature of the game. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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From what I’ve seen on here a man’s height and face come up as more important than how “fit” their body is. I’ve also seen a lot of profiles that like a dad bod so having a belly isn’t a deal breaker for many.
That being said if having a belly is something that knocks your confidence then it’s an issue and worth addressing. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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If I was looking for a relationship, I guess body would be slightly less important.
For me, since its just sex I want someone I find physically attractive. Which tends to lean towards the slightly fitter type. |
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For me personally I love guys in good shape big built with nice muscle tone. Love big strong quads on a Man but then I'm married to one so it's what I enjoy. When talking to guys there has to be common interests and feel comfortable we all get on xx |
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"Great question, and one I ponder whether it counts again men on here.
The fact is most women on here are deluged with emails. Men are not. On a normal dating site, women wouldn't be so picky about the body... more about whether the man has a cute smile, nice eyes etc and how he actually comes across.
On sites like Fab where it's more about the sex, women can afford to be picky and will more than likely only answer to profiles with the hottest bods and biggest cocks.
I don’t know if that’s true. But if it is, it’s not surprising that people would be most interested in those things. If men were inundated with messages from women they’d probably choose the women they deemed to be most desirable too. That’s the nature of the game. "
I find muscled dudes off putting. Like they are going to be so vain they'll give me hardly any attention because they'd be too busy trying to catch their own reflection in a mirror. Or that they won't like my plus size body (cant see a meet progressing that far if they don't like my body).
Dad bods rule. Especially big bi ones. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I much prefer a dad bod to gym fit been able to see a man's abs and muscles does nothing for me. Dad bod with a nice bum all the way for me and a nice pair of arms luckily for me my man ticks all my boxes.
Mrs |
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You only have to go to a club or a social event to see the absolute plethora of various body types both male and female.
Women only going for tall ripped men is a fab trope born of sour grapes.
It simply isn't true.
Don't sweat your waistline OP. Play to your strengths |
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"Great question, and one I ponder whether it counts again men on here.
The fact is most women on here are deluged with emails. Men are not. On a normal dating site, women wouldn't be so picky about the body... more about whether the man has a cute smile, nice eyes etc and how he actually comes across.
On sites like Fab where it's more about the sex, women can afford to be picky and will more than likely only answer to profiles with the hottest bods and biggest cocks.
I don’t know if that’s true. But if it is, it’s not surprising that people would be most interested in those things. If men were inundated with messages from women they’d probably choose the women they deemed to be most desirable too. That’s the nature of the game.
I find muscled dudes off putting. Like they are going to be so vain they'll give me hardly any attention because they'd be too busy trying to catch their own reflection in a mirror. Or that they won't like my plus size body (cant see a meet progressing that far if they don't like my body).
Dad bods rule. Especially big bi ones. "
If that's your experience I obviously can't argue with it, but as a generalisation it's odd to assume that all people of a certain body shape are vain just because of the way they look...? |
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By *929Man 25 weeks ago
newcastle |
"Great question, and one I ponder whether it counts again men on here.
The fact is most women on here are deluged with emails. Men are not. On a normal dating site, women wouldn't be so picky about the body... more about whether the man has a cute smile, nice eyes etc and how he actually comes across.
On sites like Fab where it's more about the sex, women can afford to be picky and will more than likely only answer to profiles with the hottest bods and biggest cocks.
I don’t know if that’s true. But if it is, it’s not surprising that people would be most interested in those things. If men were inundated with messages from women they’d probably choose the women they deemed to be most desirable too. That’s the nature of the game.
I find muscled dudes off putting. Like they are going to be so vain they'll give me hardly any attention because they'd be too busy trying to catch their own reflection in a mirror. Or that they won't like my plus size body (cant see a meet progressing that far if they don't like my body).
Dad bods rule. Especially big bi ones.
If that's your experience I obviously can't argue with it, but as a generalisation it's odd to assume that all people of a certain body shape are vain just because of the way they look...? "
Haha reality is quite the opposite once start getting into the training seriously most of us are never happy with how we look rather than vain. Also say on here all fat people are lazy and greedy and watch the fireworks erupt … |
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"I would always pick a slimmer/athletic (doesn't mean a 6 pack) type over a guy with a belly/beer gut. I just don't find it attractive and I don't want to be squished underneath someone. "
Oooh there's hope for me yet then  |
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Lady half of the profile here, I love big guys, I specifically look for big guys, we have many messages from men with 6 packs that go unopened, I have slept with slim and toned men but that's more of a vibe thing at the time
We were at a club a few weeks back and I picked out 2 big guys to go with me and my big guy, and so they were the 3 bears and I was goldilocks! Heaven
Generally speaking most big guys I met have nicer personalities, we ladies can be more comfortable about our own lumps and bumps around them, and who doesn't love a bear hug after sex |
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"I'm glad I haven't got a prominent belly.
It would get in the way of me constantly admiring my lovely cock!"
I was once told by a large dude with a big belly that I would gain 2 inches of cock if I lost 2 stone.
I stared between my legs for a little while, wondering what he could have mistaken for a penis.
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"If I was looking for a relationship, I guess body would be slightly less important.
For me, since its just sex I want someone I find physically attractive. Which tends to lean towards the slightly fatter type. "
I corrected that for you |
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"Great question, and one I ponder whether it counts again men on here.
The fact is most women on here are deluged with emails. Men are not. On a normal dating site, women wouldn't be so picky about the body... more about whether the man has a cute smile, nice eyes etc and how he actually comes across.
On sites like Fab where it's more about the sex, women can afford to be picky and will more than likely only answer to profiles with the hottest bods and biggest cocks.
I don’t know if that’s true. But if it is, it’s not surprising that people would be most interested in those things. If men were inundated with messages from women they’d probably choose the women they deemed to be most desirable too. That’s the nature of the game.
I find muscled dudes off putting. Like they are going to be so vain they'll give me hardly any attention because they'd be too busy trying to catch their own reflection in a mirror. Or that they won't like my plus size body (cant see a meet progressing that far if they don't like my body).
Dad bods rule. Especially big bi ones.
If that's your experience I obviously can't argue with it, but as a generalisation it's odd to assume that all people of a certain body shape are vain just because of the way they look...?
Haha reality is quite the opposite once start getting into the training seriously most of us are never happy with how we look rather than vain. Also say on here all fat people are lazy and greedy and watch the fireworks erupt …"
I am lazy, I must admit, but I'm not greedy. I don't mind giving away one of my dozen sugar doughnuts. |
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As a larger lady, I'm not a fan of very large guys (i know, the cheek of me!)
Initial attraction is the face, always the face. And whether you can make me laugh. A fit body is a bonus, not a prerequisite.
Anyway, you don't seem to have a big belly at all, OP. X
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By *ole.24601 OP Man 25 weeks ago
Sutton Coldfield |
"As a larger lady, I'm not a fan of very large guys (i know, the cheek of me!)
Initial attraction is the face, always the face. And whether you can make me laugh. A fit body is a bonus, not a prerequisite.
Anyway, you don't seem to have a big belly at all, OP. X
Thank you, I would consider that I do but I suppose everyone has their own inner critic
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"As a larger lady, I'm not a fan of very large guys (i know, the cheek of me!)
Initial attraction is the face, always the face. And whether you can make me laugh. A fit body is a bonus, not a prerequisite.
Anyway, you don't seem to have a big belly at all, OP. X
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As a large lady too, a more lean guy had more of a chance of fitting round my curves than a guy who has a belly too. So yes it might seem a bit weird, but lean guys who love squishy bodies aren't complaining.
But for me too, they have to have a nice face, great hugs and are funny and warm to be with.
My biggest turn off is bad teeth |
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By *ullyMan 24 weeks ago
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I am not turned on by muscles or big bellies. Unfortunately though, I have an enlarged liver, (over prescribed Ibuprofen, yes prescribed) also owing to a serious spinal injury my hips are tipped forward, both making it look like I have a gut, but it's not it's solid muscle. We all have little bugbears in a our lives LoL. |
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I'm late to the party and haven't read everything but there is a huge difference to a man who has a large build with good shoulders a wide chest and perhaps a round belly .... which is fine.......
and a fat flabby bloke who just carries far too much weight and has lost muscle tone ......
The two are nothing like each other.
Health is attractive |
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