I’ve got the urge to participate in one but I’m really worried!
So for those experienced amongst you, what’s it like being the one invited to play with a couple? I’m worried the nerves will get to me and I won’t be able to “perform” or worse, be a two shunts a grunt kinda guy and leave feeling embarrassed 
I’m sure I’m making myself sound like such an amazing catch to any prospective couples  |
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Why does 2 shunts and a grunt mean you have to leave embarrassed?
Take a few minutes to recompose yourself and get back on it.
Nerves are natural, but until you put yourself in the situation, you won’t know how your mind or body will react.
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If that’s a concern for you then focus on foreplay for the female. meets aren’t just about penetration! hands, tongue and lips all help, focus on the woman’s pleasure before sex and even if it’s 2 pumps and a grunt chances are she will still have enjoyed her self  |
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I didn't rise to the occasion my first time with a couple. Or the second time.
It wasn't a problem at all and there's plenty fun to be had.
In both cases I mentioned the possibility that it might happen to the couple's because I know myself and it's natural for me if I'm nervous.
They didn't mind at all. And it passed.
Good communication, particularly with for a first experience, is really the key to everything. |
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We wouldn’t see it as a problem if a gent we invited has a problem showing his excitement or over excitement.
The more everyone relaxes the more normality resumes and over thinking stops.
Everyone has been there at some point (myself included) and if the focus moves from the issue and do something else instead, it’ll sort itself out soon enough.
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Being nervous and can't get it up or two pumps and wham is very very common on the first meet, normally it's takes the second meeting to get over that.
The thing is join in and lots of foreplay so you get a second invite. |
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By *omRachCouple 31 weeks ago
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Plenty more to do than just sticking your dick inside her. You have (im assuming here) 2 hands and sets of fingers, a mouth and most of all a brain with an extremely sexy imagination.
Use all of those assets to the best of your ability and I'm pretty sure those nerves and feelings of insecurity will disappear pretty quickly.
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