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Your personality gets you everywhere or does it, your abbs get you everywhere or do they, your tatts get you everywhere or do they? No its a combination of all them things but mostly personality, what does it for you? I know a few would say a pretty penis is for them but truth be known what is it that gets you noticed?  |
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"My body gets me noticed.
My personality soon gets them to fuck off though  "
Sure that’s not true!
But there is some truth that people with strong bright-side characteristics ( pretty, good body, overly optimistic, over confident ) often have higher numbers of de-trailers because the personality is under developed. This is my experience of hundreds of talent reviews and psychometric tests , very high correlation, at the top end at least |
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"My body gets me noticed.
My personality soon gets them to fuck off though
Sure that’s not true!
But there is some truth that people with strong bright-side characteristics ( pretty, good body, overly optimistic, over confident ) often have higher numbers of de-trailers because the personality is under developed. This is my experience of hundreds of talent reviews and psychometric tests , very high correlation, at the top end at least "
Not true because the body isn't that good or because I'm not sufficiently blatant in my misanthropy?  |
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In general the way a person looks gets them a certain distance then personality comes on to play. Unless you're going for a job as a super model then it's looks all the way.
Do they advertise jobs for super models?  |
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"In general the way a person looks gets them a certain distance then personality comes on to play. Unless you're going for a job as a super model then it's looks all the way.
Do they advertise jobs for super models? "
why are you going to apply? |
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I have two things that get me noticed...
Yep my boobs, or my eyes. Either way there's still two or both.
But apparently neither are enough to keep them interested so I have to attempt stimulating conversation instead... |
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"In general the way a person looks gets them a certain distance then personality comes on to play. Unless you're going for a job as a super model then it's looks all the way.
Do they advertise jobs for super models? why are you going to apply? "
Only if they have a short geriatric department |
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By *eliWoman 25 weeks ago
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I don't know. Sometimes it's my appearance. I'm more likely to get the look back/people staring when I talk so it might be my voice. My boobs. I don't think it's one particular thing but I know that I have a great personality, 100%. |
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"In life of you want to get anywhere, be good looking.
People who say personality is most important on fab are full of shit.
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This may be true for women but money is probably top of the list for men. If men have looks and money, they're on to a winner |
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"In life of you want to get anywhere, be good looking.
People who say personality is most important on fab are full of shit.
This may be true for women but money is probably top of the list for men. If men have looks and money, they're on to a winner"
Can't argue with that willy. |
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"In life of you want to get anywhere, be good looking.
People who say personality is most important on fab are full of shit.
This may be true for women but money is probably top of the list for men. If men have looks and money, they're on to a winner
Can't argue with that willy."
I need to start earning more money |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"In life of you want to get anywhere, be good looking.
People who say personality is most important on fab are full of shit.
This may be true for women but money is probably top of the list for men. If men have looks and money, they're on to a winner
Can't argue with that willy.
I need to start earning more money"
You do. Plastic surgery isn't cheap. |
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"In general the way a person looks gets them a certain distance then personality comes on to play. Unless you're going for a job as a super model then it's looks all the way.
Do they advertise jobs for super models? why are you going to apply?
Only if they have a short geriatric department are you short then?
On a good day I skim 5ft half an inch if I back comb my hair. Obviously there's no doubt that I'm geriatric well we could have a hall for Gerrys "
Nicely done! |
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"I have two things that get me noticed...
Yep my boobs, or my eyes. Either way there's still two or both.
But apparently neither are enough to keep them interested so I have to attempt stimulating conversation instead..."
smile maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun"
Jeffrey was "fun"... |
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"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun"
Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring   |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun
Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring "
Can concur |
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"I have two things that get me noticed...
Yep my boobs, or my eyes. Either way there's still two or both.
But apparently neither are enough to keep them interested so I have to attempt stimulating conversation instead..."
Smile aswell, nice smile |
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"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun
Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring "
Thing is i know there needs to be some attraction, this is a sex site afterall so surely if the banter flows, the flirting is on point then that should be enough for a good time? |
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"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun
Jeffrey was "fun"..."
Whose Jeffrey lol |
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"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun
Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring
Thing is i know there needs to be some attraction, this is a sex site afterall so surely if the banter flows, the flirting is on point then that should be enough for a good time?"
Too some you'll be good looking to others you are not and as you get older that applies more |
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"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun
Jeffrey was "fun"...
Whose Jeffrey lol"
Chaucer writes novels |
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"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun
Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring
Can concur"
Right back at you…I find myself falling asleep chatting with you and your face ahhh not even Wrong Turn would have you as an extra. Too scary |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun
Jeffrey was "fun"...
Whose Jeffrey lolChaucer writes novels "
Wrong Jeffrey |
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"Most on here defo go for looks, if you dont look their type they dont even give you chance to chat, just because you dont look a certain way doesnt mean your not fun
Well I am fucked then (not literally) as I am ugly and boring
Thing is i know there needs to be some attraction, this is a sex site afterall so surely if the banter flows, the flirting is on point then that should be enough for a good time?Too some you'll be good looking to others you are not and as you get older that applies more "
Brilliant future looks bleak then |
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For the vast majority of my life I considered myself invisible.
It's only been in the last 10 years that I've realised that I'm not and the last 4 or 5 that I've discovered I have the power to be as visible or invisible as I want to be.
I don't have money so that's a dead end but at the same time I'm uncomfortable with anyone approaching me based purely on my looks.
If they decide I'm a decent human being and as a bonus I'm not hard on the eyes then I'll accept that.
I take the same approach when dealing with others either professionally or socially.
How someone looks doesn't make them any more capable or approachable so it doesn't give them an advantage over others.
In saying that though I have witnessed people who are deemed to be physically attractive getting away with things where others wouldn't and that applies equally within the walls of fab.
It also applies to all genders and sexual orientations and at times may appear shallow but sometimes is extremely dangerous. |
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There is literally nothing about me that gets me noticed when I'm out and about in the real world. I'm fairly quiet and one of those people that goes unnoticed. Which is fine up to a point... like when waiting to be served at a bar...I swear I become ultra invisible then. The rest of the time I'm happy to wear my cloak of invisibility. |
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well i like to think im funny! - does it count that I laugh at my own jokes ! 