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By *rispyDuck OP Man 25 weeks ago
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Saw this on LadBible.
Dying wife (for the sake of inclusivity let’s just say) dying partner asked their spouse if they could sleep with an Ex 1 last time? 
If this was your dying partner asking you this, how would you feel about it & what would be your response? |
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"Saw this on LadBible.
Dying wife (for the sake of inclusivity let’s just say) dying partner asked their spouse if they could sleep with an Ex 1 last time?
If this was your dying partner asking you this, how would you feel about it & what would be your response? "
I don't own my wife! If she wants to sleep with someone else, that's HER choice and not mine.
Simple really
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From a monogamous point of view yes the dieing partner will die soon and will have had their wish of one last ex fuck. But its a shitty thing to ask of the current partner,they'll probably be left with a sense of betrayal, they weren't the ones to be cherished before death and wondering if they were good enough for they whole relationship |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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If it was some random then of course - but an ex? Bit of a face slap
Put the shoe on the other foot and play it with a man saying the same thing - I guarantee you'd all be calling him a douche bag |
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"Saw this on LadBible.
Dying wife (for the sake of inclusivity let’s just say) dying partner asked their spouse if they could sleep with an Ex 1 last time?
If this was your dying partner asking you this, how would you feel about it & what would be your response? "
of course its a dying wish.  |
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I'd tell him to pick anyone else, because she's a prick & I wouldn't want my last memories of him with someone who already caused a lot of strain on our relationship.
Anyone else I'd say go for it if I couldn't give it. |
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"I'd tell him to pick anyone else, because she's a prick & I wouldn't want my last memories of him with someone who already caused a lot of strain on our relationship.
Anyone else I'd say go for it if I couldn't give it."
shes /he's dying any day now |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"From a monogamous point of view yes the dieing partner will die soon and will have had their wish of one last ex fuck. But its a shitty thing to ask of the current partner,they'll probably be left with a sense of betrayal, they weren't the ones to be cherished before death and wondering if they were good enough for they whole relationship"
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"I'd tell him to pick anyone else, because she's a prick & I wouldn't want my last memories of him with someone who already caused a lot of strain on our relationship.
Anyone else I'd say go for it if I couldn't give it.shes /he's dying any day now "
Then fuck it have a wank instead |
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By *ullyMan 25 weeks ago
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Mmmm moot point, my late wife's dying thoughts were for me. I would have done anything for her, but there was no one before or with me/us, so of course I would agree.
That said over 9 years passed and I still feel terribly guilty about going out, or having fun even, I also feel guilty I could'nt save her.
We had a pretty unusual marriage inasmuch as she knew I was /Bi even before we met and was totally O.K with that all our time together. She knew it was an itch she could not scratch. |
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"I'd feel very sad that when they were dying their thoughts turned to a relationship that was over. However I'd agree because once someone is dead it's all over. "
Just pondered necrophilia for a mo then |
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"From a monogamous point of view yes the dieing partner will die soon and will have had their wish of one last ex fuck. But its a shitty thing to ask of the current partner,they'll probably be left with a sense of betrayal, they weren't the ones to be cherished before death and wondering if they were good enough for they whole relationship"
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Ffs….. what category of dysfunctional moral dilemma does this thread sit in?
Have I been completely misguided to think swingers as actually normal people that would separate their hedonistic pursuits when the mortal coil demanded. |
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By *agatoXXXMan 25 weeks ago
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I would have been on the othe side of this, with the dying ex. If she had asked for me to sleep withher one last time, she'd have died unfulfilled. I don't know if she did, in the end, but I can only hope so.
I'm just happy to have outlived her. |
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"Ffs….. what category of dysfunctional moral dilemma does this thread sit in?
Have I been completely misguided to think swingers as actually normal people that would separate their hedonistic pursuits when the mortal coil demanded."
It's not a question for swingers it's a question for the public that happens to being asking on a swinger site. The persons dying wish was to sleep with their ex. they weren't a swinger (might have been who knows), but its not a normal question in the first instance, coil or no coil. |
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"Ffs….. what category of dysfunctional moral dilemma does this thread sit in?
Have I been completely misguided to think swingers as actually normal people that would separate their hedonistic pursuits when the mortal coil demanded.
It's not a question for swingers it's a question for the public that happens to being asking on a swinger site. The persons dying wish was to sleep with their ex. they weren't a swinger (might have been who knows), but its not a normal question in the first instance, coil or no coil. "
The origin of the idea (lad bible) isn’t known for swinging accepted, the fact remains the OP posted it to be read by this community which is by default a swinging platform |
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If she asked to fuck her ex, I'd definitely put it down to the meds as she absolutely hates his guts and hasn't seen him bar bumping into him socially twice in the past decade or so.
He on the other hand, I've no doubt would absolutely love another go. |
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By *a LunaWoman 25 weeks ago
South Wales |
Probably pack my bags and leave them to it.
There are dying wishes like “let’s go to Morocco” or “let’s buy that sofa from Loaf we saw on the ad”.
Asking to fuck an ex partner isn’t really cricket is it. Dying doesn’t give them the excuse to be a thoughtless bonehead. |
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By *rispyDuck OP Man 25 weeks ago
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Haha some varying intereting answers
I honestly wouldn’t know what to think about that!
On 1 hand had they asked to sleep with a random stranger ‘yes think would be ok with that’ but an Ex! Think would leave me thinking ‘had they been thinking of getting back of fucking their Ex all this time we been together?’
It’s a dilemma for sure haha |
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As I’m not monogamous if my husband wanted to sleep with anyone at any point it’s generally not an issue. It would have to be an absolute nutcase for me to have a problem with it…. Then as a deathbed wish I would overlook it anyway.
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"As I’m not monogamous if my husband wanted to sleep with anyone at any point it’s generally not an issue. It would have to be an absolute nutcase for me to have a problem with it…. Then as a deathbed wish I would overlook it anyway.
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I haven't met any woman in person that would tolerate much in the way of conversation about an ex in positive or glowing fashion let alone a wee shag before I popped me clogs |
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"Saw this on LadBible.
Dying wife (for the sake of inclusivity let’s just say) dying partner asked their spouse if they could sleep with an Ex 1 last time?
If this was your dying partner asking you this, how would you feel about it & what would be your response? "
Happy to arrange it for after she had died  |
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