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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Ex gf took me to court to try and take my house. We never even lived together!
She lost but the stress and cost! Grrrr "
Jeezo that's fucked up! I hope you managed to recover financially again. |
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"Ex gf took me to court to try and take my house. We never even lived together!
She lost but the stress and cost! Grrrr
Jeezo that's fucked up! I hope you managed to recover financially again. "
Thankfully never heard from her again!
Just moved on and with my wife of 23 years now |
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She throw crockery at my head she was angry and violet. Apart from being dangerous to my health it seemed such a waste of good dinnerware. Occasionally other heavy items for variety. I didn't mind her hitting me so much, I could manage that but I hated nice things getting smashed.
Mr |
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By *929Man 25 weeks ago
newcastle |
The main one that bugged me was after we split she Claimed child benefit and whatever the other one called child tax or something for our son who lived with me and she only sees for 5 minutes a time on his birthday and Christmas and she gave him fuck all of it. This went on about 2 years as I was under the impressing I was entitled to nowt but someone said I’d get child benefit only 20 quid a week or so but better than nowt then when I applied I got an extra form back with the ref “rival claim” so got my daughter to ask and sure enough she admitted she had been since she moved out
The main thing that annoyed me was after she married some little ex gutter junkie bum she still carried on claiming it. Like a mug I agreed to say that wor Liam had only just came to live with me to avoid her getting done for fraud and paying loads back only reason I did it was we share custody of my daughter and if her mam was made poorer it would effect her
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By *rAitchMan 25 weeks ago
Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe |
"She throw crockery at my head she was angry and violet. Apart from being dangerous to my health it seemed such a waste of good dinnerware. Occasionally other heavy items for variety. I didn't mind her hitting me so much, I could manage that but I hated nice things getting smashed.
Mr"
Was she purple with rage? |
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"She throw crockery at my head she was angry and violet. Apart from being dangerous to my health it seemed such a waste of good dinnerware. Occasionally other heavy items for variety. I didn't mind her hitting me so much, I could manage that but I hated nice things getting smashed.
Mr
Was she purple with rage?"
Ha, dyslexia and an (ironically) unhelpful auto-spell strikes again.
For the record her complexion was more of a rouge when angry. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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Worst thing my ex did was try and use my kids as a weapon.
Trying to turn them against me and it actually worked for a while which broke my heart.
Fast forward a few years.
They’ve grown up and see her what she really is.
All good now |
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"Worst thing my ex did was try and use my kids as a weapon.
Trying to turn them against me and it actually worked for a while which broke my heart.
Fast forward a few years.
They’ve grown up and see her what she really is.
All good now "
I can resonate with this shitty situation but glad it’s turned out good as it did for me too   |
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Told me to get an abortion at 20 wks after I got pregnant.. after 4 miscarriages and specialist treatment.
On a lighter note he could never find anything bc he refused to move his eyeballs to the left or the right! |
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By *irthandgirthMan 25 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
"Worst thing my ex did was try and use my kids as a weapon.
Trying to turn them against me and it actually worked for a while which broke my heart.
Fast forward a few years.
They’ve grown up and see her what she really is.
All good now "
I've also had that. My daughter went no contact with me for well over a year due to her mum painting me as a shit dad etc. I do feel a little smug that my daughter now lives with me, and we holiday together every Christmas (which her mother never allowed after we split) |
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He would drink himself into oblivion most weekends and was a horrible, argumentative, nasty dr*nk. He used to sit up until the small hours gambling online. When he’d lost all of his money, he would then wake me up around 4-5am and hassle me to transfer money to him and wouldn’t let me go back to sleep until I had. |
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Never knew of a single thing lol it was multiple singular issues. Too personalized to state them all. But it was when I was working away a lot that I realized how different we were and we slowly drifted apart and got divorced. The only reason we got together was her love of BBC while we lived in Africa. After leaving there and eventually went to Oz where she could only have BWC that we started seeing our issues together. |
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By *oobaaMan 25 weeks ago
South Shields |
"woke up one morning with her sitting on top of me with a knive at my throat accusing me of having an affair with her friend.
Left that afternoon.
Did you though?"
Yep..it was coming and I shouldnt have stayed so long but we have a son together and a 25 year age difference |
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I don't hate my ex so guess I'm insane! My ex last told me she loved me on her birthday, last year, on the holiday of a life time in the Caribbean, but she also sent a message to someone else the same day saying she loved him and would rather have been with him. She finished with me when we got back and blocked me everywhere I never got an explanation just excuses of everything I did wrong, she never apologised for anything ever!
Then she got back in touch with me some months later when she'd finished with him, we met socially, but it was just playing at being friends, I suspect it was just a stop gap to fill a void maybe even an intention to hurt me again but I hope not. Sadly I still loved her and still do, so it hurts me every single day knowing she's making the same mistakes over and over again, which will eventually end with her being hurt yet again. Some say I'm lucky and had a narrow escape, sadly I just miss her and wish she could see what's going wrong with her life and that she has what she is looking for right in front of her if only she'd look more closely instead of looking for something that doesn't exist. I was ready to marry her, I'd still give everything up for her. But she's now putting herself at risk, everything she does just gets more and more extreme as she tries to control everything and everyone around her! |
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Would drop hints for a cuppa. I make a good cuppa.
Would then ask for it in a standard-sized mug, not the dinky cute mug.
Would then drink about one third of it, which wouldn't have been enough to even fill the dinky mug.
Would very, very occasionally offer to make a cup of tea for us both.
It was insipid piss 80% of the time. No - not just my categorisation. She didn't like it either.
The other 20% were my "things can only get better" naive hope.
I never let her loose on the coffee after the first occasion...there's only so much trauma one can invite in willingly, and February 11th 1991, 7.08pm was that trauma.
None were reasons for divorce though - that was just life doing its other things. |
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Plenty, but I suspect there was plenty about me that boiled her piss to - in the end we drifted apart pretty much led separate social lives and were basically just house sharing. So I left, i also gave her the house as she's a money grabbing bitch and I'm not and couldn't be arsed with the argument  |
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Mainly the fact he didn't see his (our) son and still, to this day, cannot behave like an adult regarding his relationship with our son. The ex is a man of 40, for reference. I managed well enough without the child support, I just worked my fucking arse off and Mr KC did too, for a child who wasn't/isn't his. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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"Mainly the fact he didn't see his (our) son and still, to this day, cannot behave like an adult regarding his relationship with our son. The ex is a man of 40, for reference. I managed well enough without the child support, I just worked my fucking arse off and Mr KC did too, for a child who wasn't/isn't his. "
That’s the mark of a real man right there. Kudos |
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"Mainly the fact he didn't see his (our) son and still, to this day, cannot behave like an adult regarding his relationship with our son. The ex is a man of 40, for reference. I managed well enough without the child support, I just worked my fucking arse off and Mr KC did too, for a child who wasn't/isn't his.
That’s the mark of a real man right there. Kudos "
We're still together over 20yrs later, my son was 18 months old when we got together and will be 22 later this year. Mr KC is an absolute giant among men (for many reasons!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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"Mainly the fact he didn't see his (our) son and still, to this day, cannot behave like an adult regarding his relationship with our son. The ex is a man of 40, for reference. I managed well enough without the child support, I just worked my fucking arse off and Mr KC did too, for a child who wasn't/isn't his.
That’s the mark of a real man right there. Kudos
We're still together over 20yrs later, my son was 18 months old when we got together and will be 22 later this year. Mr KC is an absolute giant among men (for many reasons!)"
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By *ANDA!Man 25 weeks ago
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Jeez....where to start.
Subjected my youngest daughter to horrendous verbal and mental abuse from her then partner a few years ago and she's still dealing with it now.
Let my 3 youngest kids live in an absolute hovel (unknown to me i might add) which was in such a state when social services came to visit they stayed for 3hrs helping her clean up.
Abandoned/disowned my 3 older kids and thinks she sun shines out of the youngest's arse
Pretended she was going to take her own life and sparked a small scale hunt for 6hrs, all because she disowned our oldest daughter but in doing so lost her only babysitter for the youngest.
Stated playing Mother of the Year for the youngest when I raised court action against her for residency of the youngest
Blames me for her living in a shithole because "I didn't do enough to support her" |
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My first wife’s one tone drone voice when nagging. She had an amazing figure that men literally die for. But not an ounce of personality. Everything and everyone was beneath her. She was definitely the trophy wife. I was Drained of life, she had to go. When I left her , it was the best thing I ever did? But, it came with consequences. She threatened me with police, saying she’d make up an abuse charge. She did exactly that. I got arrested and I got drilled by the police. Her downfall was, when questioned by the magistrate in court, she kept falling over her own lies. I was relieved when a not guilty verdict was reached. I’m a happy and wiser man now. Beauty is literally skin deep. So choose wisely. |
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so fucking annoying 
