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"Do you drive alone, work alone, play alone, swim alone, drink alone, eat alone?  "
Well I don't drive, so I guess I do most of the above alone. Maybe socialise and eat, or drink with friends or family. Bit weird if we didn't do it solo though, right?  |
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Pretty much everything. I've never understood this idea that it's odd to do things like go to the cinema or a gig on your own. If you want to see a film or a band and no-one you know wants to go then why not - it's not like you'll be talking throughout even if you did go with a friend. |
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I do a lot alone. Sometimes it’s a case if I don’t do it on my own then it will not happen. I like it to happen! Cinema, theatre, holidays, - you can do what you want when you want. No one to check in with. Especially a holiday. |
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"I do a lot alone. Sometimes it’s a case if I don’t do it on my own then it will not happen. I like it to happen! Cinema, theatre, holidays, - you can do what you want when you want. No one to check in with. Especially a holiday. "
exactly this and you're comfortable with it |
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By *mmaleiaWoman 25 weeks ago
East Northamptonshire |
I do most things by myself, if I cross empty diaries with a friend who’s free, then I’ll arrange to do something with them.
I learnt a long time ago it’s best to just crack on with your life, otherwise you’ll always be waiting to do stuff with others |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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I do. Only recently I've been taking a colleague to and from work but mainly on my own if driving anywhere.
I go to the cinema on my own.
I go to gigs in my own.
I don't mind so much as I don't want to lose out just because I don't have company. |
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I live alone. I went travelling alone but met some amazing friends along the way. I used to travel a lot for work too and that was mostly on my own so I would often go to the restaurants and museums/ exhibits I wanted to go to alone. I went to some really beautiful places with work and I wasn’t going to let the fact I was alone keep me in the hotel during the evenings. I love having friends around me but I’m also just as comfortable in my own company. I would never miss out on something just because I didn’t want to do it alone.
I do prefer company/an audience when I wank though  |
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A lot of things.
Mrs Wick suffers from chronic fatigue, and often…..violent migraines too. So most of daily life is carried out alone. We embrace the times when neither ailment strikes, and we can do shit together. |
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"I live alone. I went travelling alone but met some amazing friends along the way. I used to travel a lot for work too and that was mostly on my own so I would often go to the restaurants and museums/ exhibits I wanted to go to alone. I went to some really beautiful places with work and I wasn’t going to let the fact I was alone keep me in the hotel during the evenings. I love having friends around me but I’m also just as comfortable in my own company. I would never miss out on something just because I didn’t want to do it alone.
I do prefer company/an audience when I wank though "
I also live alone, also comfortable in my own skin being alone. Though I don't want to go on holiday alone. I did that once, not for me.
When you want an audience for your wank next time, call me. Mind if I bring some mates and popcorn? |
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By *ornycougaWoman 25 weeks ago
NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat |
Basically if I want to do something and family and friends aren't available/don't want to do it - then I do it alone. I'm long past the stage of feeling like 'Billy no mates' when I am alone |
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Pretty much everything although I send invites out to it all.
Probably comes across as needy but I'll happily spend the time either way just like to include people and enjoy the dynamic even if it's simply a parallel play thing ie we both do our separate things but together XD ..
Don't think many people get it |
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"I live alone. I went travelling alone but met some amazing friends along the way. I used to travel a lot for work too and that was mostly on my own so I would often go to the restaurants and museums/ exhibits I wanted to go to alone. I went to some really beautiful places with work and I wasn’t going to let the fact I was alone keep me in the hotel during the evenings. I love having friends around me but I’m also just as comfortable in my own company. I would never miss out on something just because I didn’t want to do it alone.
I do prefer company/an audience when I wank though "
really you sound like me  |
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Yet in these thoughts my self almost despising,
Haply I think on thee, and then my state,
Like to the lark at break of day arising
From sullen earth, sings hymns at heaven’s gate;
For thy sweet love remembered such wealth brings
That then I scorn to change my state with kings. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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Day to day, I pretty much do most things. Make my food alone, work alone, go to the gym alone. When I go out though, I'd still rather be with my friends than be by myself even though it's something I wish I was more comfortable doing. |
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"Day to day, I pretty much do most things. Make my food alone, work alone, go to the gym alone. When I go out though, I'd still rather be with my friends than be by myself even though it's something I wish I was more comfortable doing."
why do you feel uncomfortable with friends though?
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By *ustBoWoman 25 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I spend most of my time alone when I'm not in work. I have family and friends I do see but day to day stuff I am by myself with just my dogs for company. In a lot of ways it suits me as I'm quite introverted.
I do however wish I was more comfortable or confident in going places alone. But I tend to chicken out on the day even when I have planned to.
I do enjoy the company of close friends and family. But we all have lives and it can be a difficult at times to meet up. But I know they are always there for me and that works both ways.
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Day to day, I pretty much do most things. Make my food alone, work alone, go to the gym alone. When I go out though, I'd still rather be with my friends than be by myself even though it's something I wish I was more comfortable doing.
why do you feel uncomfortable with friends though? "
Ahhh sorry, probably the way I worded it. I meant I wish going out on my own was something I was more comfortable with |
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"Day to day, I pretty much do most things. Make my food alone, work alone, go to the gym alone. When I go out though, I'd still rather be with my friends than be by myself even though it's something I wish I was more comfortable doing.
why do you feel uncomfortable with friends though?
Ahhh sorry, probably the way I worded it. I meant I wish going out on my own was something I was more comfortable with "
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I like going to art galleries and museums on my own - then it’s at my pace - not hurried or having to wait around for others.
It’s a selfish thing but I like it plus I like the solitude in these places it give's time and space to think
I love my mates and friendships ( been a best man 5x !!! It’s on my CV )
But in those two places - like my own company
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I do most things alone and that’s how I prefer it. If I do make plans to see people, I usually regret it, as I find going ‘out out’ quite stressful. I live alone and work from home. I got to the gym, go shopping and walk my dog alone. My friendship circle is small and that’s how I prefer it. I enjoy spending time with my sister but that’s about it. |
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"I do most things alone and that’s how I prefer it. If I do make plans to see people, I usually regret it, as I find going ‘out out’ quite stressful. I live alone and work from home. I got to the gym, go shopping and walk my dog alone. My friendship circle is small and that’s how I prefer it. I enjoy spending time with my sister but that’s about it."
Yup. If I had a quid for every time I was let down with people bailing or forgetting plans |
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