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Have you found the person you are looking for on here yet?
What is the type of person you are looking for?
I’m looking for 30+ curvy/bbw woman that is into black men. Can travel into London to meet for a drink every now and then and take it from there…. |
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By *eliWoman 25 weeks ago
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There isn't one.
I've never actively looked for any person on here. There's not a type, physical or mental that I'm particularly searching for.
However... I've found people. They've found me. We've found each other. I've found some beautiful souls who I'm firm friends with - ones who make my soul light up with joy when I hear from them or near them.
And then are those who... well I find myself back in this corner of their life. On their screen. Quickly fall in to an easy familiarity with potential and hope in the missives we exchange. I find myself smiling and thinking about them during the day. Conversations that stimulate, enrich and enhance. Wanting to learn them on a level I don't easily feel. Wanting to be seen by them. Known.
Not looking makes it all the more sweeter when the right person does come in to my life.  |
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My quest … to find someone who can make me laugh so much whilst drinking tea, it then comes down my nose !
Not a good sight … but it’s about communication for me and seeing that ignited spark spread to deeper enriched inner glow |
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By *bi HaiveMan 25 weeks ago
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'The person' ? Yes and no.
I've found an amazing partner. They're awesome.
I've also found others. Some local and some not so local.
I guess it depends what people are looking for? If it's just that one person then that's fine. If it's a case of seeking different people for different reasons then that's equally good.
I've always found that looking for someone specific is a much harder process than just looking for 'people' and finding the right fit that works for you both, be that a relationship, regular friends or just people you enjoy occasional social/physical time with.
Letting things evolve naturally opens a lot of doors and helps find the right fits for any scenarios.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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Founds lots of lovely people
And a few not so lovely ones
Don't really think this is the place for one special one .... but maybe time will prove me wrong. |
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By *mf123Man 25 weeks ago
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I did once it burned hot as the sun but when the wings melted the fall was so bloody long and far to travel so iv decided i wamt what i dont want so i keep my feet on the ground |
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"Have you found the person you are looking for on here yet?
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OP, I don't find them. They find me. As arrogant as that sounds it's actually quite arrogant as it sounds, but in fact quite true."
You lucky guy |
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"There isn't one.
I've never actively looked for any person on here. There's not a type, physical or mental that I'm particularly searching for.
However... I've found people. They've found me. We've found each other. I've found some beautiful souls who I'm firm friends with - ones who make my soul light up with joy when I hear from them or near them.
And then are those who... well I find myself back in this corner of their life. On their screen. Quickly fall in to an easy familiarity with potential and hope in the missives we exchange. I find myself smiling and thinking about them during the day. Conversations that stimulate, enrich and enhance. Wanting to learn them on a level I don't easily feel. Wanting to be seen by them. Known.
Not looking makes it all the more sweeter when the right person does come in to my life. "
Great response. I know exactly how you feel about wanting to be seen by them. We have to press on though. Great pictures by the way Meli. Definitely my top fab crush  |
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Like others, I've found people.
Some are my people. Some have irrevocably changed me. Those two groups aren't a complete overlap. Some I've lost, some barge into my house when I least expect it.
The sex and attraction is almost the least of it. |
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"Not quite yet, although chatting to some delightful and sexy women a wee bit far for sporadic get together, but I’m hopeful (fingerscrossed)
What is too far for you? "
For a booty call? Probably 40 miles (national speed limit = 30mins) but for a meet without expectation with someone I get on with could be the other side of the world  |
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"Have you found the person you are looking for on here yet?
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OP, I don't find them. They find me. As arrogant as that sounds it's actually quite arrogant as it sounds, but in fact quite true.
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You lucky guy"
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Luck and providence has very little to do with it and occasionally it's a double edge sword: some of them are quite mediocre. We men are allowed to have preferences too. |
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I've met some lovely people, I've made some good friends. I haven't found "the person" here, and I don't expect to find them anywhere now. I think the most I could ever hope for would be to find friends with whom sex might happen once in a while, but that hasn't happened yet. I live in hope that it might. Sometimes the sex thing is just an itch that needs scratching, and a fuck buddy would do, but again it hasn't happened.
Who knows, everything might change tomorrow. But it probably won't. |
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"I've met some lovely people, I've made some good friends. I haven't found "the person" here, and I don't expect to find them anywhere now. I think the most I could ever hope for would be to find friends with whom sex might happen once in a while, but that hasn't happened yet. I live in hope that it might. Sometimes the sex thing is just an itch that needs scratching, and a fuck buddy would do, but again it hasn't happened.
Who knows, everything might change tomorrow. But it probably won't."
I so want to believe it will, the moment we stop looking. |
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It seems to me that Fab is a site where people are looking primarily for experiences/situations rather than people. Most profiles I see (couples in particular) are looking for people (within certain parameters) to fulfil particular scenarios.: MMF, gangbang, cuckolding etc etc
Perhaps that is why the romantically inclined often struggle to find "the" person they're looking for. |
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By *rAitchMan 25 weeks ago
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Nope, not met anyone, and can't remember I last had a chat conversation on here. However, I've not looked.
The older I get, the more I enjoy my own company. Would be nice to have a chat every now and then, though. |
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"I still haven't found, what I'm looking for.
You hooooooo 
My vagina has never dried up quicker than upon hearing the words...you hoooooooo
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In the latest research I heard it’s as dry as your wit  |
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