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Getting cheeky cheeky on a first meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP 41 weeks ago
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Just a simple question because one of my friends went on a date which someone on a different platform and he basically got lucky lucky after only speaking to her the day before just a question are you someone that would actually sleep with that person after knowing them just for one day  |
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"Just a simple question because one of my friends went on a date which someone on a different platform and he basically got lucky lucky after only speaking to her the day before just a question are you someone that would actually sleep with that person after knowing them just for one day "
In clubs, we've had sex with people we've never even exchanged names with.
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Just a simple question because one of my friends went on a date which someone on a different platform and he basically got lucky lucky after only speaking to her the day before just a question are you someone that would actually sleep with that person after knowing them just for one day
In clubs, we've had sex with people we've never even exchanged names with.
Cal"
This what it's about, it's not dating, it's a sex site  |
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"I thought meet was bad enough.
Then there came playdate.
And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.
Sad times.  "
I loathe the words meet and playdate, glad to see someone else on my wave length lol.
I've had socials that had led to the bedroom very quickly, even when the intention wasn't too play but it's happened.
I've never used to dating apps for actual, one on one dating before, only to find a fwb and never just jumped into bed with someone, unless I'm meeting them souly for the purpose of having sex and well, I'm not there to chit chat lol |
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By *eliWoman 41 weeks ago
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"I thought meet was bad enough.
Then there came playdate.
And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.
Sad times.
As soon as a saw the thread title I thought of you  "
This is the worst thing you've ever typed.
I don't want to be associated with "meet".
Can you imagine?
'Hey Nell, you free next week? I'd really like to spend some naughty time with you and have some cheeky cheeky on our meet. Mmmmmm*'
*because they're the sort of person in my mind who would type mmmmm.
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"Just a simple question because one of my friends went on a date which someone on a different platform and he basically got lucky lucky after only speaking to her the day before just a question are you someone that would actually sleep with that person after knowing them just for one day "
Most of my meeting people through Fab or at clubs has been quite spontaneous from a short lead time I'd say.
Some , we've stayed in touch and met again a number of times and some fairly regularly.
I've ground that often planning far ahead, it can just fizzle out.
Of course, timing can be off and life gets in the way so it cannot really be helped.
I'm very relaxed and easy about it all. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"I thought meet was bad enough.
Then there came playdate.
And now there's cheeky cheeky on a meet.
Sad times.
I loathe the words meet and playdate, glad to see someone else on my wave length lol.
I've had socials that had led to the bedroom very quickly, even when the intention wasn't too play but it's happened.
I've never used to dating apps for actual, one on one dating before, only to find a fwb and never just jumped into bed with someone, unless I'm meeting them souly for the purpose of having sex and well, I'm not there to chit chat lol"
I like a meet |
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"As others have observed - that is what the site is actually about. There has been an influx of people over the years who now treat it as a dating site but that just seems weird to me."
I don't think so. I think you just change what your looking for & move around in different circles.
Fab is huge with lots of sub-groups and many groups never use the forums which is more the dating side of fab |
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"Let me guess
He didn't want to date her again cause he thinks he can't talk a woman seriously if she has sex on the first date "
^^ this 100%
Saying that I love first date fucking and if the other person doesn’t take me seriously after that it’s very much their loss  |
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By *TG3Man 41 weeks ago
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"Just a simple question because one of my friends went on a date which someone on a different platform and he basically got lucky lucky after only speaking to her the day before just a question are you someone that would actually sleep with that person after knowing them just for one day "
well i used to but I've moved on from that now friends first lovers second |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Got to be honest at a club you don't normally get there name until after playing and then you forget it by the time you get home
You don't need to know someone to have sex. Its only sex after all. |
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We chatted to a guy on Sunday, met for a drink on Monday and as the vibe was there and the attraction between C and him was hot, we ended up inviting him home.
If you’re in a club sometimes you don’t even know someone’s name 
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"Just a simple question because one of my friends went on a date which someone on a different platform and he basically got lucky lucky after only speaking to her the day before just a question are you someone that would actually sleep with that person after knowing them just for one day "
In a club, yes.
Private meets, no. If they're coming into my home I need to have had a social with them first and see if we click. |
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I always social first with no guarantees, because I never know if I want to fuck someone until I’ve met them.
Some socials end up with a good fumble in the car afterwards, and the odd one has been known to end in a dash to the Premier Inn next door to book a room.
One things for sure though… if the guy called it ‘cheeky cheeky’ my panties would be staying firmly on x |
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the other thing here is that not many guys actually deliver what they say they are going to deliver and the ability to actually put a date and time in a diary to turn up is beyond them !! or their wifes dont let them out! |
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"the other thing here is that not many guys actually deliver what they say they are going to deliver and the ability to actually put a date and time in a diary to turn up is beyond them !! or their wifes dont let them out!"
lol this |
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