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By *ea monkey OP Man 26 weeks ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I’ve just been having a look through these updates and lists, and I’ve realised that quite a few are inactive, don’t interact or have rejected me. In those terms these lists require a level of culling and curation that I haven’t undertaken in a while.
My question, dear fabbers, is how often do you check and curate your friends and hot lists? |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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I went through my friends list recently and got rid of people that don’t talk to me. And then got rid of people whose updates annoy me from my hotlist.
I’d say once every 3/4 months. Which is longer than I’m usually on the site at a time |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"My friends list is always kept under 10, I'd only look at culling if a hot number 11 came along.
 Well hello
(I’m kidding. Be nice)"
I'm only currently at 7 so I have available spaces. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"My friends list is always kept under 10, I'd only look at culling if a hot number 11 came along.
Well hello
(I’m kidding. Be nice)
I'm only currently at 7 so I have available spaces. "
Though all my friends have to agree to have sex with me at some point. It's in the small print. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"My friends list is always kept under 10, I'd only look at culling if a hot number 11 came along.
Well hello
(I’m kidding. Be nice)
I'm only currently at 7 so I have available spaces.
Though all my friends have to agree to have sex with me at some point. It's in the small print. "
Oh I hope you like short kings |
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By *ucka39Man 26 weeks ago
Newcastle |
I cull at times but also leave them be, as few have went AWOL which normal life has most likely taken an important role
Hot list I just leave them swimming around in the pond/pool  many have also went AWOL |
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Hotlist is B's territory. Friends I check every so often but rarely remove someone. It's a mixture of friend-friends and sex-friends. I'm not great at messaging but I like seeing their photos and statuses come up. 
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"I’ve just been having a look through these updates and lists, and I’ve realised that quite a few are inactive, don’t interact or have rejected me. In those terms these lists require a level of culling and curation that I haven’t undertaken in a while.
My question, dear fabbers, is how often do you check and curate your friends and hot lists? "
I totally need to sort both lists out lol |
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By *eliWoman 26 weeks ago
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Hotlist, rarely. Don't really use it.
Friends list... if I've not spoken to someone for a bit, if it feels lacklustre, weird or I'm at a point where I'd rather they didn't have access to my photos I remove them.
It really varies though. I can not talk to some people for months and think nothing of it. Other people; a few attempts at conversation and I'll remove them.
I don't have a big friends list - currently at 9 and I'm happy to stick with that. Rarely go above 15. |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 26 weeks ago
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Friends list is only for people I've actually met in real life so it's extremely small.
Hotlist isn't necessarily a list of people who I think are hot, some people are only on there because one wrong move & there's half a chance they might be relegated to the block list.
The block list I'll periodically remove inactive accounts to free up space. There's a lot of people in there who just set up an account for the weekend or something and then never logged in again, which shows I'm quite good at identifying waste profiles. |
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"My friends list is always kept under 10, I'd only look at culling if a hot number 11 came along.
Well hello
(I’m kidding. Be nice)
I'm only currently at 7 so I have available spaces. "
Welllll hello  haha
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My friends list is never more than 20. And most of them I chat to on other platforms or see regularly.
I often remove newbies that I get chatting to and then it peters out for some reason. Just lashed 2, as we speak  |
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I alternate between friends and hotlist monthly. This month was hotlist where I removed inactive people and ones I no longer want to see updates from.
At the end of next month I’ll do the same with friends. |
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"I’ve just been having a look through these updates and lists, and I’ve realised that quite a few are inactive, don’t interact or have rejected me. In those terms these lists require a level of culling and curation that I haven’t undertaken in a while.
My question, dear fabbers, is how often do you check and curate your friends and hot lists? "
Once you’re on them you’re on them for me
I never look at them |
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By *ea monkey OP Man 26 weeks ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I’ve just been having a look through these updates and lists, and I’ve realised that quite a few are inactive, don’t interact or have rejected me. In those terms these lists require a level of culling and curation that I haven’t undertaken in a while.
My question, dear fabbers, is how often do you check and curate your friends and hot lists?
Once you’re on them you’re on them for me
I never look at them "
No retreat, no surrender |
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"I’ve just been having a look through these updates and lists, and I’ve realised that quite a few are inactive, don’t interact or have rejected me. In those terms these lists require a level of culling and curation that I haven’t undertaken in a while.
My question, dear fabbers, is how often do you check and curate your friends and hot lists?
Once you’re on them you’re on them for me
I never look at them
No retreat, no surrender "
Absofuckinglutely |
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By *bi HaiveMan 26 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
I don't have a huge friends list. Some people I've met aren't even on there.
Hotlist is generally for those that pique my interest for potential contact down the line, but as I rarely send messages these days some come and go on that.
I don't think I've deleted anyone off the friends list since last summer.  |
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By *eah BabyCouple 26 weeks ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Friends list is mainly people we have met so they will stay on friends, hotlist hasn’t changed in a long time as not deleted and not added anyone as currently being lazy fabsters lol |
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OP, something on here really upset me a couple of weeks ago and I wiped out the whole profile, friends, hotlist, messages, few pictures left.
Could have probably gone unlos instead but just couldn’t make it.
I’m not proud of my attitude but too late now. Just wanted to say sometimes things like that happen as well. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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I currently have the largest friends list I’ve ever had with seven total people. For the first time ever I have two people I’ve never met before. Totally living wild these days!
I am a fussy lady and will delete people without warning when we’re not communicating, meeting or planning to meet anytime soon. I don’t see the reason to keep them as a friend with access to my top secret friends only gallery if we haven’t engaged in friendship in some way.
My hotlist, I rarely use it. I forget my rhyme or reason for adding people to it. I’ve gone back months later and asked myself why did I add this person?
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"My friends list is always kept under 10, I'd only look at culling if a hot number 11 came along.
Well hello
(I’m kidding. Be nice)
I'm only currently at 7 so I have available spaces.
Though all my friends have to agree to have sex with me at some point. It's in the small print. "
I'm sure it says somewhere that it's all friends at the same time |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"My friends list is always kept under 10, I'd only look at culling if a hot number 11 came along.
You have friends???
Well that’s a newsflash worthy of knocking Trump off the headlines "
Well, more hot acquaintances. Fab calls them friends. |
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I use my Høtlïst as a hierarchical system based on current friendships, intrigue and opportunities. It's a curated list representing those with whom I'm already acquainted and/or chatting. The list also represents those rare gems I would like to meet, irrespective of the outcome or intentions.
It also serves as useful filter for following the notable status updates of wit, humour and imagery.
After nearly four years on here I've accumulated about 9 friends in total and it rarely goes beyond double figures. I don't send friend requests. They're usually incoming and even then I am discerning with whom I connect it with.
Periodically I'll do a purge of my Friends List if there is any form of 'inactivity' in whatever shape or form. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"I use my Høtlïst as a hierarchical system based on current friendships, intrigue and opportunities. It's a curated list representing those with whom I'm already acquainted and/or chatting. The list also represents those rare gems I would like to meet, irrespective of the outcome or intentions.
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He means those with their tits out |
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"I use my Høtlïst as a hierarchical system based on current friendships, intrigue and opportunities. It's a curated list representing those with whom I'm already acquainted and/or chatting. The list also represents those rare gems I would like to meet, irrespective of the outcome or intentions.
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He means those with their tits out"
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I'm still waiting for your FR, wench. |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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I love seeing friends and hotlists updates... I do change my holist every now and then
I haven't removed any friends, even when we rarely speak, as it just seems rude  |
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"My friends list is always kept under 10, I'd only look at culling if a hot number 11 came along.
You have friends???
Well that’s a newsflash worthy of knocking Trump off the headlines
Well, more hot acquaintances. Fab calls them friends."
Ahh that makes more sense, I was beginning to lose faith in your abrasive nature |
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