Just out of curiosity why do guys when leaving a veri when they have met a lady or a couple always put “treat her/them with the respect she/they deserve” surely that would be a natural thing to do without telling other people to do it.
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I agree... It seems an odd statement to make, when respect should be at the forefront of anyone's mind when they're meeting and hoping for an enjoyable experience.
I wonder if it's simply that they've seen it written on other verifications so think it's fab etiquette - in much the same way people blindly add in the utterly useless legal warnings to their bios. |
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"Just out of curiosity why do guys when leaving a veri when they have met a lady or a couple always put “treat her/them with the respect she/they deserve” surely that would be a natural thing to do without telling other people to do it.
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Reason 1 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.
Reason 2 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.
But mostly it's .......
Reason 3 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure. |
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By *nnCeeWoman 32 weeks ago
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"Just out of curiosity why do guys when leaving a veri when they have met a lady or a couple always put “treat her/them with the respect she/they deserve” surely that would be a natural thing to do without telling other people to do it.
Reason 1 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.
Reason 2 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.
But mostly it's .......
Reason 3 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure. "
I've yet to read one which says
"Please feel free to use and abuse, they love it! And even if they do, if you do it enough, they'll come to expect it"  |
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By *TG3Man 32 weeks ago
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"Just out of curiosity why do guys when leaving a veri when they have met a lady or a couple always put “treat her/them with the respect she/they deserve” surely that would be a natural thing to do without telling other people to do it.
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Its just words that fill the space, think about their profiles then you'll understand |
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"Just out of curiosity why do guys when leaving a veri when they have met a lady or a couple always put “treat her/them with the respect she/they deserve” surely that would be a natural thing to do without telling other people to do it.
Reason 1 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.
Reason 2 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.
But mostly it's .......
Reason 3 : They are unimaginative twonks who read something once and thought it sounded gentlemanly and fail to realise that it puts them right back in the Edwardian period when all women were no more than chatel to be beaten and taken at his leisure for his pleasure.
I've yet to read one which says
"Please feel free to use and abuse, they love it! And even if they do, if you do it enough, they'll come to expect it" "
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"I think it's because they believe that most women/couples don't deserve respect. "
Don't deserve or don't get?
When I read though some of the threads there's often a clear lack of respect, maybe "treat him/her/them with respect" is attempting to correct it?
*I'm not disrespecting your comment |
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"I think it's because they believe that most women/couples don't deserve respect.
Don't deserve or don't get?
When I read though some of the threads there's often a clear lack of respect, maybe "treat him/her/them with respect" is attempting to correct it?
*I'm not disrespecting your comment "
Don't deserve. Before I start I know it's not all men.
Some men do think of women and couples who have multiple partners as less worthy of respect. When they meet someone who is a normal, nice, straightforward person they think they're an exception and more worthy. |
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"I think it's because they believe that most women/couples don't deserve respect.
Don't deserve or don't get?
When I read though some of the threads there's often a clear lack of respect, maybe "treat him/her/them with respect" is attempting to correct it?
*I'm not disrespecting your comment "
 . I know |
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"I think it's because they believe that most women/couples don't deserve respect.
Don't deserve or don't get?
When I read though some of the threads there's often a clear lack of respect, maybe "treat him/her/them with respect" is attempting to correct it?
*I'm not disrespecting your comment
Don't deserve. Before I start I know it's not all men.
Some men do think of women and couples who have multiple partners as less worthy of respect. When they meet someone who is a normal, nice, straightforward person they think they're an exception and more worthy."
I see where you're coming from.
I recall a thread comment a while from a man castigated women for having multiple sexual partners.
Thought I'd woken up in the dark ages. |
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I think some are sincere when they say it, much like "I had such a nice time with xyz, she's very nice" but they use the respect thing instead because they are trying to convey they are really nice.
Some obviously put it because they have seen others put it. |
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"I think it's because they believe that most women/couples don't deserve respect.
Don't deserve or don't get?
When I read though some of the threads there's often a clear lack of respect, maybe "treat him/her/them with respect" is attempting to correct it?
*I'm not disrespecting your comment
Don't deserve. Before I start I know it's not all men.
Some men do think of women and couples who have multiple partners as less worthy of respect. When they meet someone who is a normal, nice, straightforward person they think they're an exception and more worthy."
Maybe if they had more respect for themselves they'd meet normal, nice, straightforward people more often |
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