 |
By *afarka OP Man 31 weeks ago
South of France & London |
So he's friends with a couple and there is quite a bit of bantz especially with the female. They message a bit and send the odd kiss. All harmless but he wonders if she might actually be up for some fun based on a few things she said in passing. Nothing blatantly obvious. Any advice I can give him on testing the water from those who might have taken the plunge with close friends? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *bi HaiveMan 31 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
I stick a 'x' on the end of messages to some friends. Means nothing.
I get them in messages from clients too. And 'banter'.
Pretty sure they're not swingers and don't want to fuck me though.
Never assume. And is it worth risking fucking up a good friendship over?  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Invite them round for a BBQ, say two weeks away.
Setup a little WhatsApp group to plan the evening. Seriously if everyone is cool with it - you'll know.
If there's anything there you'll be fucking before...
I was going to say the steak's done... You guys start without me, I'll catch up. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Invite them round for a BBQ, say two weeks away.
Setup a little WhatsApp group to plan the evening. Seriously if everyone is cool with it - you'll know.
If there's anything there you'll be fucking before...
I was going to say the steak's done... You guys start without me, I'll catch up. "
Better still, instead of a bbq, tell them that you will be hosting a spitroast. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Invite them round for a BBQ, say two weeks away.
Setup a little WhatsApp group to plan the evening. Seriously if everyone is cool with it - you'll know.
If there's anything there you'll be fucking before...
I was going to say the steak's done... You guys start without me, I'll catch up.
Better still, instead of a bbq, tell them that you will be hosting a spitroast."
Hmmmm I love it with stuffing and apple sauce. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Invite them round for a BBQ, say two weeks away.
Setup a little WhatsApp group to plan the evening. Seriously if everyone is cool with it - you'll know.
If there's anything there you'll be fucking before...
I was going to say the steak's done... You guys start without me, I'll catch up.
Better still, instead of a bbq, tell them that you will be hosting a spitroast.
Hmmmm I love it with stuffing and apple sauce."
And the option to stick a generous helping of pork between baps. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I'd suggest dropping into a conversation with them both that you are on a swingers site, maybe after a few drinks!. But don't ask them openly, just see where the conversation leads and if they are swingers or interested I'm sure they'll ask. I'd not recommend just coming out and asking if he wants you to fuck his wife, could end in a punch up.
Mrs |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
