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Can be just as hard for the other person too, they may want to reciprocate,but just ain’t feeling it. Wanting to love someone who deserves loving is just as tough |
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By *929Man 25 weeks ago
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I done it for 15 years (due to kids) I knew more or less from the start there were happy times don’t get me wrong was just thinking this the other day watching the Christmas 2013 video when kids were just 4 and 6 (she ran off with someone else a few weeks later before coming back) and thinking if she had even been able to bring herself to feel the slightest thing for me life could have turned out so much different but can’t change what other people think or feel |
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"I done it for 15 years (due to kids) I knew more or less from the start there were happy times don’t get me wrong was just thinking this the other day watching the Christmas 2013 video when kids were just 4 and 6 (she ran off with someone else a few weeks later before coming back) and thinking if she had even been able to bring herself to feel the slightest thing for me life could have turned out so much different but can’t change what other people think or feel "
You made me feel sad about that, really. Can be a softy at times. Sorry to hear but hope all better and healed now  |
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"Can be just as hard for the other person too, they may want to reciprocate,but just ain’t feeling it. Wanting to love someone who deserves loving is just as tough "
Great point. I wish I could have been in love with my ex. |
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"No I soon go off people if it's not requited. Not a fan of smacking my head against a brick wall."
I'm like that. If a person doesn't want me I soon don't want them. It's not ideal in some ways but it makes life easier |
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"I done it for 15 years (due to kids) I knew more or less from the start there were happy times don’t get me wrong was just thinking this the other day watching the Christmas 2013 video when kids were just 4 and 6 (she ran off with someone else a few weeks later before coming back) and thinking if she had even been able to bring herself to feel the slightest thing for me life could have turned out so much different but can’t change what other people think or feel "
Are you saying that you were together for 15 years, had children and she never loved you? |
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Going to disagree on that one.
When two people love each other, but other factors make the relationship impossible or toxic.
E.g. loving someone who loves you, but has a mental illness that makes attachment a trigger, such as fear of abandonment in BPD for example. Where they sabotage the relationship and then hurt themselves out of regret, cyclically. Watching someone you love do that is gut-wrenching.
But unrequited love sucks too. |
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By *929Man 25 weeks ago
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"I done it for 15 years (due to kids) I knew more or less from the start there were happy times don’t get me wrong was just thinking this the other day watching the Christmas 2013 video when kids were just 4 and 6 (she ran off with someone else a few weeks later before coming back) and thinking if she had even been able to bring herself to feel the slightest thing for me life could have turned out so much different but can’t change what other people think or feel
You made me feel sad about that, really. Can be a softy at times. Sorry to hear but hope all better and healed now "
Thank you my friend yes better now I still and always will miss having a family but If she was at my door begging me to take her back with 10 million quid in her purse I’d say no |
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By *929Man 25 weeks ago
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"I done it for 15 years (due to kids) I knew more or less from the start there were happy times don’t get me wrong was just thinking this the other day watching the Christmas 2013 video when kids were just 4 and 6 (she ran off with someone else a few weeks later before coming back) and thinking if she had even been able to bring herself to feel the slightest thing for me life could have turned out so much different but can’t change what other people think or feel
Are you saying that you were together for 15 years, had children and she never loved you?"
Yes she fell pregnant very early after a few months, she ran off with someone else while pregnant before coming back, ran off with another bloke again in early 2014, left again in 2015 after I’d just bought a house for us (swears nobody else was involved and do believe her that time) always told me “the kids won’t be young forever” and how we could never have what her and her ex had ect to me living with my kids was worth it still |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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"I've never experienced it. I don't think I want to.
I'm too much of a slut for reciprocated lust and feelings and desire to know someone. "
Well I have never sought out unrequited lust. It just happens. Not being someone’s type or not being quite enough etc. blah blah. You know the rest 
Sad times |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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There's unrequited lust masquerading as love.
Then you see their Facebook page 20 years later and thank the gods you never married that nerdy little turd in Ottawa with his geeky wife.
Thank gods I met The Redhead.
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"There's unrequited lust masquerading as love.
Then you see their Facebook page 20 years later and thank the gods you never married that nerdy little turd in Ottawa with his geeky wife.
Thank gods I met The Redhead.
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Plus bigamy |
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"There's unrequited lust masquerading as love.
Then you see their Facebook page 20 years later and thank the gods you never married that nerdy little turd in Ottawa with his geeky wife.
Thank gods I met The Redhead.
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I'm in purchasing because when I was 22 I really fancied a buyer and I wangled my way into the desk next to his (HR didn't go for my suggestion that we share a chair).
He was gorgeous and older and cool and I lusted after him long after we stopped working together. He inspired so very many masturbatory fantasies that the mention of his (fairly common) name made me come over all unnecessary.
In 2017 I was finishing a 6 month contract at a company and he came to pick the role up from me and he was an absolute arsehole. I wanted to go back to 22 year old me and give her a slap upside the head; what the hell was I thinking? |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Imagine all those people in the world who don't even get a handjob from another person.
Think yourself lucky, Pickle."
Are you saying you gave Mr P a handjob?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 25 weeks ago
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"Imagine all those people in the world who don't even get a handjob from another person.
Think yourself lucky, Pickle.
Are you saying you gave Mr P a handjob? "
I fucking wish |
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