"At what age do you feel that someone is flirting with you becomes someone a being a dirty old perve ?
I feel since my late 40s I am looked at differently when trying to flirt "
If you’re whispering sweet nothings OP that’s flirting. If you’re getting your dick out on the bus that’s being a dirty old perv  |
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By *avexxMan 37 weeks ago
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"At what age do you feel that someone is flirting with you becomes someone a being a dirty old perve ?
I feel since my late 40s I am looked at differently when trying to flirt
If you’re whispering sweet nothings OP that’s flirting. If you’re getting your dick out on the bus that’s being a dirty old perv "
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By *avexxMan 37 weeks ago
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"It depends on *how* you're flirting. I think what was acceptable at 20 is not so much at 40.
Wait until you're knocking on a bit. You daren't look at someone with a twinkle in your eye  "
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"Anything under 15 years or over is just pervy to me.
What if the flirting is coming in the opposite direction
Is it 'pervy' to accept flirts from someone 15+ years younger?"
That's up to the person receiving said flirts! |
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"At what age do you feel that someone is flirting with you becomes someone a being a dirty old perve ?
I feel since my late 40s I am looked at differently when trying to flirt "
I've not had any weird looks yet, I tend to see if there's any flirting from the other person first before I charm them so much that their bra and knickers just fall off |
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"I feel like a right perv now after reading some of these replies 
Ha ha... I guess it depends on how you flirt? I mean I'll flirt with anyone... But it's usually pretty harmless. "
Like giving compliments on how good they're at tieing knots? |
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"It depends on *how* you're flirting. I think what was acceptable at 20 is not so much at 40.
Wait until you're knocking on a bit. You daren't look at someone with a twinkle in your eye "
Everyone knows if you look for longer than 5 seconds then you want them naked in your bed |
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"Anything under 15 years or over is just pervy to me.
What if the flirting is coming in the opposite direction
Is it 'pervy' to accept flirts from someone 15+ years younger?
That's up to the person receiving said flirts! "
I don't get that response
You openly stated that older flirting with younger is 'pervy' (to you), but now it's also up to the older person to also decide if someone flirting with them is pervy or not
Again putting the onus on the older party to make the decision
I get it if a person in their 50's or 60's was flirting with someone in their teens or early 20's, but to someone my age, 15 years younger would be late 30's
We're talking two fully developed and functioning adults with life experience under their belt who understand their wants and needs
Is 15 years in that scenario is 'pervy' from either direction?
Or are we talking age appropriateness on a wider scale? |
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By *ucka39Man 37 weeks ago
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"At what age do you feel that someone is flirting with you becomes someone a being a dirty old perve ?
I feel since my late 40s I am looked at differently when trying to flirt
If you’re whispering sweet nothings OP that’s flirting. If you’re getting your dick out on the bus that’s being a dirty old perv "
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"Anything under 15 years or over is just pervy to me.
What if the flirting is coming in the opposite direction
Is it 'pervy' to accept flirts from someone 15+ years younger?
That's up to the person receiving said flirts!
I don't get that response
You openly stated that older flirting with younger is 'pervy' (to you), but now it's also up to the older person to also decide if someone flirting with them is pervy or not
Again putting the onus on the older party to make the decision
I get it if a person in their 50's or 60's was flirting with someone in their teens or early 20's, but to someone my age, 15 years younger would be late 30's
We're talking two fully developed and functioning adults with life experience under their belt who understand their wants and needs
Is 15 years in that scenario is 'pervy' from either direction?
Or are we talking age appropriateness on a wider scale?"
As I've said...to me I wouldn't entertain someone flirting with me if they were 15 years younger as it doesn't float my boat, same if they were 15 years older than me....if it floats others then that's down to them. |
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By *ags73Man 37 weeks ago
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"At what age do you feel that someone is flirting with you becomes someone a being a dirty old perve ?
I feel since my late 40s I am looked at differently when trying to flirt "
Do I flirt? I dunno, I just talk nonsense and try and have a laugh. Maybe it is flirting, maybe it isn’t, I’m not throwing lines at women to try and seduce them anyways |
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By *ags73Man 37 weeks ago
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"I don't really care.
I've always let women take the lead with that sort of thing. I'm not flirting with anyone unless they started it. "
Do they have to start it?
I genuinely in retrospect can never figure when chatting in person becomes flirting. It just sort of happens |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"I don't really care.
I've always let women take the lead with that sort of thing. I'm not flirting with anyone unless they started it.
Do they have to start it?
I genuinely in retrospect can never figure when chatting in person becomes flirting. It just sort of happens "
Well, I guess I more mean that I won't make any kind of comment that could be deemed inappropriate if unwanted.
As a man that's nearly 40 and most often seems to end up with girls in their early 20s, I don't want to come across as a creepy old perv, even if that's what I am.. |
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"It depends on *how* you're flirting. I think what was acceptable at 20 is not so much at 40.
Wait until you're knocking on a bit. You daren't look at someone with a twinkle in your eye
Everyone knows if you look for longer than 5 seconds then you want them naked in your bed "
Five seconds is an eternity when staring at someone I took my kids out on the train over the bank Holiday and a woman stared so long it made me uncomfortable, but in reality it won't have even been five seconds. She was probably doing what I do though and didn't even realise |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Anything under 15 years or over is just pervy to me.
What if the flirting is coming in the opposite direction
Is it 'pervy' to accept flirts from someone 15+ years younger?"
My girlfriend is 18yrs younger and she made the first move. |
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So I've always been looked at weirdly ha ha
I'm like Sheldon from big bang theory 