To expect guys to be candid on here. I get really frustrated on here when you have been talking to someone for weeks, then when you have an agreeable date agreed they drop the A-bomb.
I try to put as much information on my profile about who and what am looking for without it becoming like a terms and conditions read.
Anything else I try to get over early in the conversation, so I know we are compatible in the bedroom. Ask them what they are looking for some guys will just reply fun, which could be going on a ferris wheel.
I've had loads that late on when near agreeing a time and date. Will reveal they dress up to, or want to wear my stockings. Today a guy said can I bring my wife's knicker for him to wear.This after over a month in regular chat. No previous hint whatsoever, otherwise it would have a straight get lost from me.
Why not reveal your kinks on your profile or early in a conversation rather than waiting until the last moment. Sorry rant over  |
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I used to list all my likes and dislikes etc on my profile OP, along with my explicit pics and vids. Problem was people either didn’t read it and asked me dumb questions that instantly got my back up, or preferred wanking over the idea of me, with the odd message from me, rather than actually arranging to meet me.
If there are things that are a dead flat non-starter for you, you need to ask them bluntly, and as early as possible. No different to asking for a facepic within a message or two… I don’t want to waste someone’s time if we’re not compatible xx |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 30 weeks ago
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"To expect guys to be candid on here. I get really frustrated on here when you have been talking to someone for weeks, then when you have an agreeable date agreed they drop the A-bomb.
I try to put as much information on my profile about who and what am looking for without it becoming like a terms and conditions read.
Anything else I try to get over early in the conversation, so I know we are compatible in the bedroom. Ask them what they are looking for some guys will just reply fun, which could be going on a ferris wheel.
I've had loads that late on when near agreeing a time and date. Will reveal they dress up to, or want to wear my stockings. Today a guy said can I bring my wife's knicker for him to wear.This after over a month in regular chat. No previous hint whatsoever, otherwise it would have a straight get lost from me.
Why not reveal your kinks on your profile or early in a conversation rather than waiting until the last moment. Sorry rant over "
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"Sounds like they've been stringing you along and I'm guessing would have been a no show for the meet.
Block them, its their loss. Your worth more than that"
You could be right. Bit in some cases I think they forget previous conversation, remember some have been talking for a few weeks, and accidentally let slip unintentionally. |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 30 weeks ago
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"I've had loads that late on when near agreeing a time and date. Will reveal they dress up to, or want to wear my stockings. Today a guy said can I bring my wife's knicker for him to wear.This after over a month in regular chat. No previous hint whatsoever, otherwise it would have a straight get lost from me.
Why not reveal your kinks on your profile or early in a conversation rather than waiting until the last moment. Sorry rant over "
I can relate strongly. The "surprise crossdresser" meet has happened to me on numerous occasions.
I'd honestly rather they just said they dress-up right from the start with pics.
A Lot of the time though the surprise crossdressers are not really serious dressers, they're just men who like wearing pants or tights (there is a difference), and just want to do it around someone "safe".
I'm not necessarily put off by someone who dresses, but I am if it's a reveal I didn't anticipate. This is essentially wasting my time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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I would say it was more down to nerves. They've most probably have been blocked, rejected and abused so often previously, that by accepting them, talking and even agreeing to meet, they feel they can tell you. Possibly even the fact you're a TV/TS, you'll be able to understand more? Don't know.
At least they are telling you before you meet, those that do of course. You've still got the option to tell them to Foxtrot Oscar.
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I'm not suggesting you've given them grief btw |
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Yes had that also. 