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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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Do you enjoy having time to just relax and do nothing? Make plans for "fun", socialise and stuff? Or would you rather be busy all the time?
I hate time off work, and I can't choose when I'm off. I like to be busy, I like having a million things to do all the time, it suits me better.
When I'm not busy, I procrastinate, I over think, I over eat, I cry, I sleep less - how this is possible I don't know.
So if someone can dick-stract me that would be most appreciated. Thanks.
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By *assy69Man 36 weeks ago
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"Do you enjoy having time to just relax and do nothing? Make plans for "fun", socialise and stuff? Or would you rather be busy all the time?
I hate time off work, and I can't choose when I'm off. I like to be busy, I like having a million things to do all the time, it suits me better.
When I'm not busy, I procrastinate, I over think, I over eat, I cry, I sleep less - how this is possible I don't know.
So if someone can dick-stract me that would be most appreciated. Thanks.
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I hate sitting at home and doing nothing so like to be busy. If I have time off and need that quiet then I have to go and camp out in the middle of nowhere with no access to the world so that I can immerse myself in the peace  |
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My days off used to be spent just lying in bed most of the day, especially if doughnut was working but since we had a life changing start to the year (relationship wise) I've tried my best to make my days off count and not waste my days, mostly it's cleaning etc if doughnut is working, I rarely sleep in now, if he is off we will try and go out, even if it's for a walk.
Trying to put more social activities into the diary together (can you see a theme here...I don't have many friends, I have them but don't see them from one month to the next due to life).
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By *aizyWoman 36 weeks ago
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I am inherently lazy, so when I have time off like this week I plan to do as little as possible, and I am doing a good job of it, I watch rubbish tv and films or read a book, don't mind being busy, but I prefer being lazy!
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By *eliWoman 36 weeks ago
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"So if someone can dick-stract me that would be most appreciated. Thanks.
This is purely selfish of me, but I’m enjoying your videos. Those are very distracting. You could make more."
I really like that you're bringing out Miss C's flirty side. It's beautiful.  |
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If I'm off work, I like to do something but relaxing something. We just had a day off yesterday to have an extended BH weekend and spent it together in London. We went places and did stuff but we relaxed and had a great time.
I like to take myself swimming or horse riding or something like that if I'm off work on my own. |
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I love time off and doing very little. I have this week off from work and I'm spending a lot of it reading my book, lounging about in bed, cuddling with my dog. I need a lot of downtime just generally though! |
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I'm terrible at relaxing and doing nothing.
If I have a day off I'll be up a mountain somewhere and if that isn't an option I'm working my way through my maintenance to-do list.
Anything else and I feel it's wasted time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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It's something I've got worse at as I've got older. Before, I could happily take a week off work and do nothing but watch TV. But now I just feel bored really easily and get cabin fever as if I need to get out and do something. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I don’t get a lot of time off so when I do I either play hard or just become anti social , lock myself away eating junk and streaming.
Now i have the forums that can easily kill a few hours, i forgot how much time they eat up!!!
Anyway i am on Amazon ordering some tweezers so you can pluck your ?? that should kill 5-7 minutes 
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"So if someone can dick-stract me that would be most appreciated. Thanks.
This is purely selfish of me, but I’m enjoying your videos. Those are very distracting. You could make more."
I'm lacking ideas RTG, happy for you to provide some. |
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I need downtime, but my version of that is pottering about at home getting little jobs done. I could never spend all day in bed or on the sofa watching TV as I'd feel crap about being unproductive and the overthinking and self-criticism would start.
Being too busy is stressful and I'd reach burnout very quickly. |
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Procrastination and dithering are the worst spectres for me, whether I'm working or when I have time off. However I really enjoy those rare moments of peace-time, solitude and just taking in the silence...and making sure my inner monologue isn't distracting me on the sofa. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"I am inherently lazy, so when I have time off like this week I plan to do as little as possible, and I am doing a good job of it, I watch rubbish tv and films or read a book, don't mind being busy, but I prefer being lazy!
Sorry I have nothing to dick-stract you with."
Seez I like the idea of being lazy. I just don't actually like doing it, my body can switch off but my head won't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"So if someone can dick-stract me that would be most appreciated. Thanks.
This is purely selfish of me, but I’m enjoying your videos. Those are very distracting. You could make more.
I really like that you're bringing out Miss C's flirty side. It's beautiful. "
I'm gonna pretend I didn't see this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"I really like the femme fatale profile pic, OP. It’s a vibe and I’m here for it.
I’m the same I think. I like the idea of nothing more than the reality. "
Is it femme fatale?.I never thought of it that way, I'll take it though!
Yeah, the reality is just meh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"OP, it sounds like you'd benefit from making a to do list. Keep yourself busy a work your way through the list.
I enjoy downtime but I like to be busy ish. I get bored quickly in my own company "
To do list:
3 guys from this thread.
Thanks Willy, I'll get right on it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"I like to plan my free time even if it’s just sitting in a coffee shop with a book or cooking a curry with music on. But I’ll usually try to meet up with people "
I don't think I'm in a peopley place, and the people Id want to get peopley with aren't currently available anyway.
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"OP, it sounds like you'd benefit from making a to do list. Keep yourself busy a work your way through the list.
I enjoy downtime but I like to be busy ish. I get bored quickly in my own company
To do list:
3 guys from this thread.
Thanks Willy, I'll get right on it.
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Who are the other 2? |
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By *ripfillMan 36 weeks ago
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Is being on the forum time off ?
Down time is essential - listen to a great piece of music - book or even a visit to a gallery - for me walking on the Downs is a great restorer |
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By *eliWoman 36 weeks ago
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"So if someone can dick-stract me that would be most appreciated. Thanks.
This is purely selfish of me, but I’m enjoying your videos. Those are very distracting. You could make more.
I really like that you're bringing out Miss C's flirty side. It's beautiful.
I'm gonna pretend I didn't see this."
I'm gonna link it at the right time. 
There's always something to be done and I don't mind that. I like being busy. Yeah, sure at times I moan about being "on it" from very early until evening but I don't mind.
Those rare times when I can switch off? I'm normally already with someone else. I've booked myself a spa day for next month and bar talking to my fiancé and another, I'm digital detoxing and having long sleeps and walks and reading. Can't wait. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I’m easy.
I’ve got used to finding myself not doing anything, but I get bored quickly and that’s when I just either delve into just doing ‘stuff’ in my own that kills time (which are never productive) or I get angry that nobody wants to play out when I ask.
I like doing ‘stuff’ with people, because that’s how good memories are made. |
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I am so like you OP. Procrastination takes the form of not moving from my bed or the bath for hours at a time unless i need food or a piddle.
Need to be kept busy. Time off is always scheduled to be busy, so I don't stop... Got to be filled with excitement and adventure.  |
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"Do you enjoy having time to just relax and do nothing? Make plans for "fun", socialise and stuff? Or would you rather be busy all the time?
I hate time off work, and I can't choose when I'm off. I like to be busy, I like having a million things to do all the time, it suits me better.
When I'm not busy, I procrastinate, I over think, I over eat, I cry, I sleep less - how this is possible I don't know.
So if someone can dick-stract me that would be most appreciated. Thanks.
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Surely you can fill the week shaving... just a suggestion. |
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It really depends on my brain space. Sometimes just sitting and doing nothing is wonderful. Other times I will be cross at myself for "wasting" my time off.
At Easter, life was a lot and things kept happening to ruin all the plans we had in place. So I had to do nothing and hated it. I am really enjoying this week off and yesterday was a chef's kiss of nothingness.
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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It usually depends on how much of a stinker of a week I’ve had in work. On a good week I’m all for making plans and look forward to them. But if it’s been a tough slog then I’m more than happy switching off from the world for a few days and doing sweet FA.
Please don’t cry though. Things will be ok |
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"Do you enjoy having time to just relax and do nothing? Make plans for "fun", socialise and stuff? Or would you rather be busy all the time?
I hate time off work, and I can't choose when I'm off. I like to be busy, I like having a million things to do all the time, it suits me better.
When I'm not busy, I procrastinate, I over think, I over eat, I cry, I sleep less - how this is possible I don't know.
So if someone can dick-stract me that would be most appreciated. Thanks.
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Have you considered that someone could show you a way to relax and be calm. Too much stress isn't good for anyone. If you overthink, then learn not to do so. The right partner should help you to move in this direction.
If he gives you a good seeing to regularly, that's just a bonus  |
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I think I am almost the polar opposite to you in this regard.
I would be quite happy to never feel busy and I make concerted efforts not to be, although this seldom works out to be the case, which can leave me feeling mithered and at times overwhelmed, if I have million things to do.
I enjoy my work and I can pick my days, to an extent, I try to schedule so I have days off and in work and not let it bleed into each other. I need space from work.
I need to not be doing things to process my thoughts and emotions. If I don't, even if it means feeling sad or crying, then it sticks with me and weighs me down.
Distraction for me means I'm avoiding something and that's usually not good for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I don't mind the odd lazy day. I use them to do the easy shit I need to do. washing, gardening, giving the house a good clean and all that jazz..I like those leasurly days when i can just pick away at small jobs in your own time and you get a mint house to boot  |
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Shift worker and grand parent, friends are mostly all swinging friends (some going back more years than I care to say) and away next weekend with the first couple we met at a house party in the 90’s, for a lodge hot tub weekend, a birthday treat; had a couple of life changing health scares which now makes sure we make the most of every moment, thoroughly enjoying all life has to offer. But free time more recently than not has been spent cosying up on the settee, binge watching Netflix series; meeting outside of clubs is getting to be hard work. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"I tend to spend my time off perfecting my rope technique and learning new ties, especially now that I am starting teaching next month"
Cable ties are quicker and they tend not to be able to escape  |
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"Do you enjoy having time to just relax and do nothing? Make plans for "fun", socialise and stuff? Or would you rather be busy all the time?
I hate time off work, and I can't choose when I'm off. I like to be busy, I like having a million things to do all the time, it suits me better.
When I'm not busy, I procrastinate, I over think, I over eat, I cry, I sleep less - how this is possible I don't know.
So if someone can dick-stract me that would be most appreciated. Thanks.
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For me it's vital to empty hours to just unwind and mentally process. I had time off recently and I visited friends at one weekend, did a couple of local day trips, but enjoyed just having days with nothing to do as well. Time to just read, listen to music, watch some films. Bliss. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"I tend to spend my time off perfecting my rope technique and learning new ties, especially now that I am starting teaching next month
Cable ties are quicker and they tend not to be able to escape "
End of lesson |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"I tend to spend my time off perfecting my rope technique and learning new ties, especially now that I am starting teaching next month
Cable ties are quicker and they tend not to be able to escape
End of lesson"
Might need a taser in your case (but you'd probably whip it off me in an instance and I would be curled up in the foetal position suffering 50,000 Volts to very sensitive parts)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"I like being busy at work, but I live for my chill time outside of work. Art, movies, games, reading, being out and about, these feed my soul. "
You have an apt username |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"I tend to spend my time off perfecting my rope technique and learning new ties, especially now that I am starting teaching next month
Cable ties are quicker and they tend not to be able to escape
End of lesson
Might need a taser in your case (but you'd probably whip it off me in an instance and I would be curled up in the foetal position suffering 50,000 Volts to very sensitive parts) "
What again? |
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"I’ve tried it out tonight. Spent the past three hours doing nothing much. I didn’t like it. Being lazy’s not for me."
I'm not sure that taking time out to relax now and then is actually being lazy. |
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Oh, I am very good at doing not a lot. I think I was a sloth in a previous life. Going for a coffee and to the gym is a busy enough day for me when I'm off.
(But then at work, I like to be super busy!) |
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"I like being busy at work, but I live for my chill time outside of work. Art, movies, games, reading, being out and about, these feed my soul.
You have an apt username "
So do you, that movie was filled with hot women |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"I like being busy at work, but I live for my chill time outside of work. Art, movies, games, reading, being out and about, these feed my soul.
You have an apt username
So do you, that movie was filled with hot women"
Look up the actual meaning of 'coyote ugly' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"I always have high hopes of filling my days in meaningful ways, but end up procrastinating and failing to commit and waste my time off doing bugger all  "
I convinced myself I would of had the sex stuff, instead I watch netflix. Yay me. |
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"I like being busy at work, but I live for my chill time outside of work. Art, movies, games, reading, being out and about, these feed my soul.
You have an apt username
So do you, that movie was filled with hot women
Look up the actual meaning of 'coyote ugly'"
You're very demanding tonight |
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"I always have high hopes of filling my days in meaningful ways, but end up procrastinating and failing to commit and waste my time off doing bugger all
I convinced myself I would of had the sex stuff, instead I watch netflix. Yay me. "
I even posted a meet and still failed to do the sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"I always have high hopes of filling my days in meaningful ways, but end up procrastinating and failing to commit and waste my time off doing bugger all
I convinced myself I would of had the sex stuff, instead I watch netflix. Yay me.
I even posted a meet and still failed to do the sex "
I had a guy, I just couldn't be arsed. I think I'm broken. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 36 weeks ago
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"I like being busy at work, but I live for my chill time outside of work. Art, movies, games, reading, being out and about, these feed my soul.
You have an apt username
So do you, that movie was filled with hot women
Look up the actual meaning of 'coyote ugly'
You're very demanding tonight"
Stop arguing with me Phil |
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"I always have high hopes of filling my days in meaningful ways, but end up procrastinating and failing to commit and waste my time off doing bugger all
I convinced myself I would of had the sex stuff, instead I watch netflix. Yay me.
I even posted a meet and still failed to do the sex "
Zero sympathy for you. I offered you a back up plan |
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"I like being busy at work, but I live for my chill time outside of work. Art, movies, games, reading, being out and about, these feed my soul.
You have an apt username
So do you, that movie was filled with hot women
Look up the actual meaning of 'coyote ugly'
You're very demanding tonight
Stop arguing with me Phil"
I'm definitely not arguing with you |
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"I like being busy at work, but I live for my chill time outside of work. Art, movies, games, reading, being out and about, these feed my soul.
You have an apt username
So do you, that movie was filled with hot women
Look up the actual meaning of 'coyote ugly'
You're very demanding tonight
Stop arguing with me Phil
I'm definitely not arguing with you"
You should. It's funny. |
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"I always have high hopes of filling my days in meaningful ways, but end up procrastinating and failing to commit and waste my time off doing bugger all
I convinced myself I would of had the sex stuff, instead I watch netflix. Yay me.
I even posted a meet and still failed to do the sex
I had a guy, I just couldn't be arsed. I think I'm broken. "
Weren't you saying a couple of days ago that you wanted hot passionate sweaty sex? You need to make your mind up love  |
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"I always have high hopes of filling my days in meaningful ways, but end up procrastinating and failing to commit and waste my time off doing bugger all
I convinced myself I would of had the sex stuff, instead I watch netflix. Yay me.
I even posted a meet and still failed to do the sex
I had a guy, I just couldn't be arsed. I think I'm broken.
Weren't you saying a couple of days ago that you wanted hot passionate sweaty sex? You need to make your mind up love "
That was my other personality, she's not allowed out right now. |
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"I always have high hopes of filling my days in meaningful ways, but end up procrastinating and failing to commit and waste my time off doing bugger all
I convinced myself I would of had the sex stuff, instead I watch netflix. Yay me.
I even posted a meet and still failed to do the sex
I had a guy, I just couldn't be arsed. I think I'm broken.
Weren't you saying a couple of days ago that you wanted hot passionate sweaty sex? You need to make your mind up love
That was my other personality, she's not allowed out right now. "
Get her back out. She's more fun! |
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"Do you enjoy having time to just relax and do nothing? Make plans for "fun", socialise and stuff? Or would you rather be busy all the time?
I hate time off work, and I can't choose when I'm off. I like to be busy, I like having a million things to do all the time, it suits me better.
When I'm not busy, I procrastinate, I over think, I over eat, I cry, I sleep less - how this is possible I don't know.
So if someone can dick-stract me that would be most appreciated. Thanks.
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My penis looks like George Clooney!! Pretty enough? |
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"I always have high hopes of filling my days in meaningful ways, but end up procrastinating and failing to commit and waste my time off doing bugger all
I convinced myself I would of had the sex stuff, instead I watch netflix. Yay me.
I even posted a meet and still failed to do the sex
I had a guy, I just couldn't be arsed. I think I'm broken.
Weren't you saying a couple of days ago that you wanted hot passionate sweaty sex? You need to make your mind up love
That was my other personality, she's not allowed out right now.
Get her back out. She's more fun!"
Definitely more fun, I wonder what sex with coyote would be like, one minute things are going well, you get naked and get it on, half way through she changes personality and goes from gagging for it, to a conservative headmistress with a hair bun, looking down her glasses at me. |
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"I always have high hopes of filling my days in meaningful ways, but end up procrastinating and failing to commit and waste my time off doing bugger all
I convinced myself I would of had the sex stuff, instead I watch netflix. Yay me.
I even posted a meet and still failed to do the sex
I had a guy, I just couldn't be arsed. I think I'm broken.
Weren't you saying a couple of days ago that you wanted hot passionate sweaty sex? You need to make your mind up love
That was my other personality, she's not allowed out right now.
Get her back out. She's more fun!
Definitely more fun, I wonder what sex with coyote would be like, one minute things are going well, you get naked and get it on, half way through she changes personality and goes from gagging for it, to a conservative headmistress with a hair bun, looking down her glasses at me. "
It's best not to think about it.
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