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Why wouldn’t you message a guy on here first?
My hunch is that most women are bombed out by messages and can even login with out 69 messages jamming there inbox up.
Probably don’t even get time to search profiles and send the first message.
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"Why wouldn’t you message a guy on here first?
My hunch is that most women are bombed out by messages and can even login with out 69 messages jamming there inbox up.
Probably don’t even get time to search profiles and send the first message.
I stand to be corrected on this issue "
Several just block single men from messaging to avoid that kind of burnout.
If they send someone a message, the site whitelists that person from the single male block.
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"Why wouldn’t you message a guy on here first?
My hunch is that most women are bombed out by messages and can even login with out 69 messages jamming there inbox up.
Probably don’t even get time to search profiles and send the first message.
I stand to be corrected on this issue
Several just block single men from messaging to avoid that kind of burnout.
If they send someone a message, the site whitelists that person from the single male block.
It works for people "
What Prey said.
The only downside to this approach is that you will never look cool on the "how many views..." threads. |
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"Why wouldn’t you message a guy on here first?
My hunch is that most women are bombed out by messages and can even login with out 69 messages jamming there inbox up.
Probably don’t even get time to search profiles and send the first message.
I stand to be corrected on this issue
Several just block single men from messaging to avoid that kind of burnout.
If they send someone a message, the site whitelists that person from the single male block.
It works for people
What Prey said.
The only downside to this approach is that you will never look cool on the "how many views..." threads."
Oh yes I get that the other downside is single guys can not wink or appear on who’s looked at you tab
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Yes, quite a few times. If someone interests me, then why not.
I've also taken men out on a first date, and paid the bill.
Invited Storm to dinner a few weeks back actually at a very nice local Italian restaurant. |
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By *EAT..85Woman 25 weeks ago
Nottingham |
Yes, plenty of times. With mixed responses as I'm not everyone's cup of tea. This place would go a lot smoother if women grew a back bone and hunted for themselves rather than unhappily trolling through the dross that fills their inboxes. |
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"Yes, plenty of times. With mixed responses as I'm not everyone's cup of tea. This place would go a lot smoother if women grew a back bone and hunted for themselves rather than unhappily trolling through the dross that fills their inboxes. "
100% agreed but why don’t they do that? |
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By *abonTedCouple 25 weeks ago
Midlands & Cheltenham |
I did a fair bit when I just had my single profile…but I mainly kept the filters closed so it was that or nothing 
It’s a lot different/simpler on a couples profile, in terms of volume and approach. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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"Yes. Some of my best and most disastrous meets have been a result of me messaging first."
Imagining best and most disastrous being in the same meet - so for example, an amazing romp but broke the bed in the process |
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"Yes. Some of my best and most disastrous meets have been a result of me messaging first.
Imagining best and most disastrous being in the same meet - so for example, an amazing romp but broke the bed in the process "
lol. I'm thinking of multiple people |
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"I do occasionally, but yes generally the ladies are bombarded with messages so usually easier just to filter those and find fun, my location is the biggest annoyance when looking for hotties"
Oh my goodness that is a tough place to find yourself a 3sum  |
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