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By (user no longer on site) OP 31 weeks ago
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I was reflecting on my experience on the site. I have been close to leaving the site due to my experience on here. What has your experience been with time wasters on here? |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Not experienced time wasters on Fab - so maybe I have been fortunate. All the people I have met have been really nice people and I have had very positive experiences. I also enjoy chatting to people with no expectation of a meet, and only had two ghost me after we have been chatting for a while - but that is their choice, and we all move on. |
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By *ayHaychMan 31 weeks ago
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I’ve learnt to just accept it.
You can take all the load on yourself to facilitate the most comfortable meet and tailor everything for an individual exactly how they want it. You can be everything they’re looking. Chat as much or as little as they want. After everything they can still just ghost you at the last minute.
Maybe it’s nerves, maybe something changes how they feel at the last minute, maybe their car actually has broken down.
I used to think if I could host it would be different. Then I was able to host for a period of time and it made no difference 
It’s always a gamble, and I don’t take it personally. If it works out, then that’s great. |
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If I am honest I tend not to suffer from time wasters. If you suffer from time wasters (or any other malaise from the site) then I generally think it is because you are not validating who you are talking to very well. These types of people do have tell tale signs but you need to actively look for them and then act accordingly. |
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