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By *EAT..85 OP Woman 30 weeks ago
Nottingham |
I've just read the thread on the ages that we birthed our kids, but I'm wondering how many people PLANNED their pregnancies.
My pregnancy at 23 was not planned, but my daughter is the best thing that could have happened to me then. She gave me a purpose in the world that I hadn't previously had. My second pregnancy at 27 was planned ??
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By *ornycougaWoman 30 weeks ago
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My first was totally unexpected (apart from the fact that we were having unprotected sex should have been a clue  ) I was convinced I couldn't have kids and I didn't want them either. Having had my first, Thing 2 and Thing 3 were very much planned |
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By *elloWoman 30 weeks ago
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My first child wasn't planned because I have PCOS and he thought he couldn't have kids, happy accident.
Second child was 100% planned for 5 years. I decided to go solo so went abroad to use a sperm bank but before hand I had to get my weight down to a healthier BMI to improve fertility, which took awhile.
Was expecting it to take several attempts but 1 try and it worked and I have a gorgeous viking child.  |
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Technically both of ours were unplanned. We genuinely thought we would never have kids for reasons I won’t go into on here so just stopped trying and then it just happened. The second we weren’t trying but weren’t being careful either. |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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Totally planned the first one, Mrs had a temperature chart and would take her temperature every day. The moment it went up she would say," stop what you're doing and let's get the job done". In, out, done and back to washing the dishes. |
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My 1st was planned, the 2nd I'd stopped trying as we'd unfortunately had many miscarriages and I couldn't take the heart ache much longer, we'd made the decision to stop, I was booked in for contraceptive and the day before thought maybe I should test as I've not come on yet and bam pregnant.... I did almost faint I was terrified but it all worked out well in the end. |
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Ours were all planned. I miscarried the first which was very much planned and wanted, and the doctors said to wait before trying again. I waited a whole month as I was desperate for a baby. Took a further 2 months to get pregnant again. The other two we decided to have and I got pregnant within 2 weeks both times. I'm so glad I put a permanent stop to it, as being that fertile is scary  |
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