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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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I can never take a hint. After a club event I was in a hotel for breakfast the following morning and a woman who was at the club was saying she was alone and told me her room number. She stuck a sausage in her mout, smiled and walked to her room. I just thought it was odd. Later found out it was what they call a hint. She's probably still waiting. |
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"I can never take a hint. After a club event I was in a hotel for breakfast the following morning and a woman who was at the club was saying she was alone and told me her room number. She stuck a sausage in her mout, smiled and walked to her room. I just thought it was odd. Later found out it was what they call a hint. She's probably still waiting."
Lol, that made me laugh bit did not mean just in 'flirting' situations. Several times today I wanted to tell someone they were totally out of otder but could not get myself to do it though I dropped lots of hints which semingly eent unoticed. That sort of thing though can be other situations of course. |
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"In the carnal sense I normally read between the lines about 2hrs after I should have. Bit too late then.  "
Never mind reading between the lines, I find I need a clout around either side of my head with books  |
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I am pretty good but probably more likely to imagine offense that wasn't actually there. Overthinking and overly empathetic isn't a great combination. When it comes to flirting I'm pretty crap at knowing. Spell it out please!
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I got on really well with a girl I worked with, always met up for drinks and chatting on phone, anyway she met a guy and I used to go round for drinks , all got on well.
Soon they had arranged there wedding and at work the girl came to my room with invitation to the wedding, as she handed it over she said , you do know this could have been your wedding !
I was shocked, she said so you didn’t notice I was coming on to you and wanted to be with you all the time ?
Ooops major regret of mine |
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"Do you or does it have to be spelt out for you. Are you good at reading between the lines, so to speak? Not everyone can it seems  "
I can be hit or miss depending on the situation. Well, mostly hit but with the occasional miss  |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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"I got on really well with a girl I worked with, always met up for drinks and chatting on phone, anyway she met a guy and I used to go round for drinks , all got on well.
Soon they had arranged there wedding and at work the girl came to my room with invitation to the wedding, as she handed it over she said , you do know this could have been your wedding !
I was shocked, she said so you didn’t notice I was coming on to you and wanted to be with you all the time ?
Ooops major regret of mine "
So was her husband the 2nd choice?
Did you go to the wedding?.. |
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By *eliWoman 30 weeks ago
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Sometimes I'm good at knowing things, understanding it fully without it clearly being said.
Most of the time, especially when personally involved, I find it hard to understand the nuances of the written word, those things that aren't said but meant. I tend to think no, they couldn't mean x, y and z so not as to embarrass myself.  |
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"I got on really well with a girl I worked with, always met up for drinks and chatting on phone, anyway she met a guy and I used to go round for drinks , all got on well.
Soon they had arranged there wedding and at work the girl came to my room with invitation to the wedding, as she handed it over she said , you do know this could have been your wedding !
I was shocked, she said so you didn’t notice I was coming on to you and wanted to be with you all the time ?
Ooops major regret of mine
So was her husband the 2nd choice?
Did you go to the wedding?.."
Yeah it seems so he was, I went to the wedding but felt weird, even her mum said to me she knew her daughter was into me.
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By *hoirCouple 30 weeks ago
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"Do you or does it have to be spelt out for you. Are you good at reading between the lines, so to speak? Not everyone can it seems "
Not even slightly, autistic af so spell it out for me doc
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I can be.
I generally choose not engage in those kinds of games though, beyond a bit of playfulness. Why build a relationship on anything other than open communication?
If someone insists then the message they'll read between my lines will be spit it out and stop playing games. |
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By *hoirCouple 30 weeks ago
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"Do you or does it have to be spelt out for you. Are you good at reading between the lines, so to speak? Not everyone can it seems "
Depends on the context. In regards to attraction I am blind as fuck.
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Gently of course 
